What is your opinion?

Question

Do you think that if you were dating someone 5 years and you broke up with them and you claimed that you really loved the other person you were with very much.....do you think that it's really truly possible to;

Meet someone on a cell phone through the internet on a text messaging service....text them for two month.....meet them only 3 weeks ago from today in person and say that you have moved on, over it, and happy with this new girl. Plus say that you love them already and are going to marry her soon and move her in with you? This meaning that you could get over your ex you supposedly loved even though you say you don't now in just knowing someone personally for 3 weeks????

Also she has been really nasty lately to me when she texts or talk and at first she wanted to be friends and I kept asking her questions for closure and she rubs it in my face about her new gf (sending me pics of them kissing and her new ring) Do u think she is tryin to hurt me because she is hurting inside?

Answer 1

I'll describe the commonality points here: it is possible to be with someone for a few years and love them very much, but still have the relationship go south (or terminate). It's also possible to think you're over this person, strike up a connection with someone else and develop this meteoric romance (that tends to fizzle almost as rapidly as it began, because): You then realize you were merely angry with your original partner, but that you still love them very much. You're relieved to "know" this with such certainty, but you're ashamed that now you've made a mess in someone else's life. That's about all I can relate to...beyond that we divide up into separate camps again, but we were walking along there pretty well for a moment,huh? I guess loving women is difficult...for men as well as women. Good luck to all of us.