I hate it when men won't ask a nice girl out because of fear of rejection. Do they honeslty think women don't fear rejection as well?
So instead they go for boring girls. is it because they want to be 'safe'? I dont get it.
why do men fear rejection so much? can't they just move on.
It annoys me because I bet most of the time, they lose out on a really good chance because they are too wussy.
2007-11-04 03:07:43 · 12 answers · asked by g♥nym3d3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not a coward if a girl shows signs of interest in me , but I'm not going to walk up to a girl just because I think she is attractive and ask her out..
2007-11-04 03:14:06 · answer #1 · answered by Confused 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think really we're all just wondering about the other...
and we keep wandering around the idea of asking...{should i? should i not?}
perhaps... it's not that we think about rejection but instead of the complications that could come afterwards...
(like if a friend asked a friend and it didn't turn out right...wouldn't it be slightly awkward afterwards?)
and so instead of letting that happen... we go for a girl that we barely know... who we wouldn't mind it being awkward with if it didn't work out...
so maybe what men fear is... if they really like a girl
is that they'll never being able to talk to her the same as they did before kinda thing
but you know i think guys should take a chance cause they might lose the girl if they don't...
but that's sorta easier said then done.
-I'm still trying to figure out how and when to ask the girl i like...
:T
2007-11-04 13:27:52 · answer #2 · answered by Josh E. =P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO we don't if the girl don't like u in the same way but a man does, it feels like hell!!! Never being able to have her. Sometimes it good to fear rejection. But you seem different, aqt least you'll give a man a chance good on u.
2007-11-04 11:18:08 · answer #3 · answered by Your little helper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you've been hurt and you are very angry. You may be giving off bad vibes, and that would keep any man away. Men are human and get a bad rap sometimes. They're aren't allowed to have emotions like women are. Lighten up on them and do some work on yourself. Then you will attract the right one.
2007-11-04 11:15:16 · answer #4 · answered by obsidiswan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you mad because someone won't ask you out? and if you won't ask him out you must be afraid of rejection too. I've found the girls that have asked me out were better gf's than the ones I asked. I guess women are better choosers than men.
2007-11-04 11:13:54 · answer #5 · answered by ezwill29 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Are you talking generally or are you talking about yourself? I think men find rejection harder because we don't kow how to deal with it. Women find it easier to talk about their feelings than men. Maybe we need to open up more, and we'll move on quicker.
2007-11-04 11:12:45 · answer #6 · answered by Gavin T 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rejection is like a bullet hitting you in the heart.
2007-11-04 11:11:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's ok for a girl to ask a guy out too.
2007-11-04 11:11:09 · answer #8 · answered by lab_rat 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
So can't boring girls be nice too ?
2007-11-04 11:25:58 · answer #9 · answered by ketkonen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you stop being a coward and ask whoever it is you have feelings for out.
2007-11-04 12:11:11 · answer #10 · answered by Dave 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋