Why are there so many people in the world today that are focused on looks than on personality and all the things that matter. Why is it there has has to be so much "perfection" in the dating world and "perfection" in the sex industry ect... I'm not sure why it's so important. I don't understand. I mean I think i'm handsome, but there are times when I do feel a little blue when I look at myself. I'm not sure if i'm fat or just being a little too self-conscious. I'm 5'3" 185 lbs. and male. Is this fat to you? I mean I know that I don't have a "six pack", but dang is it really that important. I do have a belly on me but I am trying to lose weight the best way I can. anyways, I'm not sure what this world is coming too nowadays but It really bothers me. I see all the websites where people are "perfect" or want "perfection" or near close to it. I mean is it so much to ask why this happens and why people just can't see the good in others and not just go by the outer appearance?!
2007-11-04 03:55:44 · 2 answers · asked by S A 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's sad to say that I see this in the GLBT community as well as the heterosexual community and especially when it comes to seeing couples together whether it be glbt or str8 they seem to both be "perfect". can someone help me understand this please? thank you to all who reply.
2007-11-04 03:59:46 · update #1
here's a gay dating website that really focuses on it alot.... http://www.adam4adam.com
2007-11-04 04:01:56 · update #2
You are doing the right thing in trying to get healthy. Don't let people get you into thinking you need to look a particular way. You need to find the weight that makes you feel the most healthy. Exercise of any kind, that works for you is good. Being healthy brings out ones personality more, and should attract the right person for you. Don't give up, fight to be healthy and a facter in this world. You will problably have to fight this weight battle all your life, but everyone has an area of challenge that they must continuely battle. This makes one stronger spiritually.
2007-11-04 04:08:51 · answer #1 · answered by astrogoodwin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Homie, stop letting people bring you down. Dude lemme tell you something, I have beautiful girls who are intimidated by me, I think just cause Im good looking right, and a I am confident. And I get a kick how they have trouble lookin at me, and they got that lil smile, and kinda look away or put their head down. But what they dont know is I am a chess nerd. I love Vegeta offa Dragonball Z. I play online games like Wyvern and Neopets.. and they are intimidated!!! If your in school, and people mess with you, just make it through, cause itll be really hard to raise your confidence unless you just start whipping everyones ***.. which will get you no where. But! Once your outta school, you aint gonna see none of them foos, and can build a reputation from scratch, and totally take advantage of it. But if your in school.. and people mess with you.. either you joke better than them, or turn into a bully lol.. I hate to say that, but its the only way people will stop bringing u down in school. ****** school is full of retarded bastards that need slapped I ******* swear dude.
2016-05-27 07:45:36 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋