i think she has but i dont no how to say it.
2007-11-04 03:41:30 · 30 answers · asked by imhiya 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No! never ask ur girlfirend if she lost weight. just tell her she looks beautiful the way she is.
2007-11-04 03:47:26 · answer #1 · answered by Paige C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should !!!!
Just pharse it right like this is how most men go wrong!!!
Don't be like hey you are looking better did u lose some weight. That will start a fight right off. Try saying something like honey your clothing looks a little baggy, did u loss some weight? It doesn't matter to me because I love you just as you are. She will be thirlled you noticed s little loss (if it is only a couple of lbs) or that she looks thinner and u noticed. Don't be like my other half who knew something was diffrent but couldn't put his finger on it until a 5 yr old told me he liked the brown hair better then the blond I had changed it 2 weeks before. Of coarse I was changing my hair color alot back then but it was funny to see his face change like that and this kid is one of those boys that noticed everything from just putting in light red highlights to new outfits.
2007-11-04 11:55:35 · answer #2 · answered by lovesongangel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does it really matter if she has lost weight?
Maybe she has been trying to shed a few pounds and has succeeded,if so,good on her I say.
If you know she has been trying to lose weight,then compliment her by saying "I can tell you've lost weight and you look great,but you have always looked great to me anyway".
Or she could have lost weight without trying due to many reasons,stress,health problems such as thyroid trouble etc... In which case she should go and see her Doctor for blood tests.
2007-11-04 11:48:45 · answer #3 · answered by tinyfeet64 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look there are ways of doing it
The best way is to casually take notice, ”you are looking great, did you lose some weight”
So as a rule keep it positive or do not ask.
2007-11-04 11:45:39 · answer #4 · answered by Dougal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO
never ask a girl if she has lost weight
it's insulting
maybe say she looks good lately, or something like that. don't mention weight at all unless she brings it up
2007-11-04 11:44:17 · answer #5 · answered by Rach 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think it will go down too well if you asked her, if she has been trying to loose weight then it would be nice if you told her "It looks like you have lost weight". Praise her up if that was her intentions.
2007-11-04 11:45:07 · answer #6 · answered by Lisa T 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
No! Most girls will be like "...Thanks." and then be up all night thinking "If he says I lost weight, than he must've thought I was fat before!"
You will ruin the poor girl's day with worrying over that. If you're talking to her just be like "By the way, you look hot."
2007-11-04 11:46:31 · answer #7 · answered by <3 is #1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't actually ask you state the fact.
You are looking fab how much weight have you lost>>>>>
Boy will you be in for a good night
2007-11-04 11:44:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I'm going to go against the masses here and say "HELL YES!"
Women losing weight want people to notice and you can do it in a classy way. You could say "baby you are looking awesome".......
2007-11-04 11:48:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure. If she wanted to lose weight, she'll be happy that you noticed. If she is too skinny, you are showing concern for her welfare. Good all around.
2007-11-04 11:45:15 · answer #10 · answered by Emily 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋