I met her 15 months ago when we joined in the same organisation. Slowly and gradually we became frnds. With time, we felt attracted towards each other. Those feelings of 2 of us being together strarted 2 grow strong untill we had that silly fight 4 no reason. That fight when we stopped talking 2 each other....and it continued for months.....every time when 1 approached another, we tried to ignore each other, though we felt more strong for each other with every moment passing by. Then she ran through a rough patch which i later come to know from her mother. In the middle of all these things i proposed her, 2 which she didn't rejected neither approved of. Again we ran through a silent fight for months. We cared for each other but didn't speak 2 each other. She wished me on my birthday, gave me a gift at her home, but didn't speak anything. I asked her several times, whats wrong but she refused 2 open up. Now her silence is killing me. Tomorrow is her last day in the office. Help me plz..
2007-11-04 01:29:00 · 15 answers · asked by Bipin 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
JUST TRY AND TALK TO HER...
tell her that not talking to her is torturing you too much..
Whatever that fight was about, try to hear her side of the story..just LISTEN to what she wants.. Negotiate with each other..
Say sorry to her sincerely...Make her feel important to you.. Do the thing SHE wants the two of you to do together.. WIN HER LOVE BACK, BUDDY..
This woman you speak of, by the way you tell your story, it shows how you really do love her.. I'll be praying for the two of you.. Hope it all turns out great..
Just make her feel like she is your everything, okay?
Good luck..
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P.S
if the problem has nothing to do with you, just give her space and time.. she wants some time to be alone if its like that.. She needs the time to get over whatever she is going through.. Just be ther when she needs you and when she's asking for a crying shoulder..
2007-11-04 01:37:01 · answer #1 · answered by queenie 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Silence Is Killing Me
2016-11-04 00:05:30 · answer #2 · answered by scharber 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey!
You should have mentioned what was the reason for that silent fight....Then I must have been able to suggest better..
But as for now..I'll just say that If you are really interested in her,I m sure you are...then just Go For it........Ask her what the reason is and if she ignores then I guess you need to Just let her know that you really Care for her and U still feel for her and U want to get together all over again forgetting all what happened in Past..Do tell her that if she'll not tell you the matter then you might commit the same thing again and U r really not upto hurting her anymore...Ask her to give you a Fair chance and Say Sorry to her..........and If you feel that it wasnt ur fault and u should not say Sorry to her then I'll say that U love her and if a Sorry can bring her back into ur Life then its a very small price to pay..................GO FOR IT...........WISH YOU LUCK.............GOD BLESS..!!!
2007-11-04 21:13:13 · answer #3 · answered by ♪ вμttεгƒlŷ ♪ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is dealing with some major personal issues, and she needs to clear these before she is ready for a relationship with anyone. Even though you care for her and would like to help solve what is going on, she is not prepared to add something or someone more to her life right now. You have no choice. If you love her, tell her so, and tell her you wish her the best for her life even if you never see each other again, and let her go. Perhaps when she figures out what she needs to do and releases what she needs to clear, she may be available to you. If you try to pull her back, you will only cause yourself more pain. Sometimes the best way we can love is to let someone go.
2007-11-04 01:43:26 · answer #4 · answered by arlene k 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dear Lord I ask that You grant Doug Yun Yoon not only an answer as to why these deaths fit into Your great plan but also a community of shared and wounded hearts that can comfort and pray for him. Let them share their love and hurt. Let them share how Your comfort, forgiveness, salvation and joy healed them in their grief. Let them share their story so that Doug Yun Yoon and the weeping world may understand the ways of Your grace. I am only one among many united in prayer and weeping for him. In tragedy the world comes together and rallies towards Your way. As one man is transformed so are we all. As one man is comforted so are we also. One hug and a thousand prayers are Your flowing and active kiss that miracles the world. Jesus grant Doug Yun Yoon your salvation, forgiveness, comfort, kiss and joy. Amen. † Equitable Prayer Warrior †
2016-04-02 04:07:25 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what I've read, you just sound like really good friends and not lovers. The proposal out of the blue, and at such a bad time, may have totally freaked her out.
Give her your number and tell her you'll always be there. Then stop pushing the relationship and let her make the next move.
2007-11-04 01:35:46 · answer #6 · answered by chris w 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
What if you should spend some time with her in silence and let her come to you instead of you trying to pull her back to you? Sometime spending sometime together in silence can really open up things. What if you just be there for here noticing how she as a flower begins to open up for you again ?
2007-11-04 01:38:13 · answer #7 · answered by Tony 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
let her cope with whatever it is thats bothering her. maybe this is how she wants to deal with it. On her last day tomorrow, get her a card and a gift and let her know that "ill always be t here if you ever need to talk etc.."
2007-11-04 01:34:13 · answer #8 · answered by Mia 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Spend time with her rather than sms and things like that which can be quite detached.
2007-11-04 01:49:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stop worrying yourself to death about her and let her go, There are many more fish in the sea.
2007-11-04 01:34:21 · answer #10 · answered by bobby 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋