So i like this guy and i told one of my friends that is also friends with him that I like him and he told him. My other good friend told me that she thinks that he just wants to be friends i think she's jelous and is lying though because the guy I told to tell him didn't mention that he just wants to be friends. I sit next to him in class and he always trys to get my attention by saying stupid things, looks at me then looks away, and trys to make me laugh. he always tells me to shut up, but in a jokingly way, and tells one of my friends that I need to talk to him more. Everytime I see him in the hall way he touches my arm. On myspace he only comments me back and no one else. I think he might like me but I am SO SCARED that he just wants to be friends. Please help me. Best answer get's 10 points! Thank you sooooo much XOXOX
2007-11-04 01:29:38 · 13 answers · asked by donna_c25 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well now that the word is out...why are you still scared?
The guy is your friend, and like I've told other people on here...don't believe word of mouth (what your g/f is saying to you). It's not always true, if you want to know the truth, then go to the source (the guy) and ask him if he'd like to hang out sometime with you.
I'm sure he'll say yes, obviously he likes you more than a friend...or at least it would seem that way from what you said he does and says to you.
Hang out with him...and when the feeling and the timing is right, you'll know what to say and when to say it.
2007-11-04 01:34:36 · answer #1 · answered by Murphy's Law 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he knows you like him, and still acts that way towards you, then I think you can assume that he likes you back. If he just wanted to be friends, but found out you liked him as more, he would back off because he wouldn't want to give you the wrong impression. Start flirting with him more and making it more obvious when you're with him that you likehim, and if he likes you back, he'll respond and hopefully ask you out.
Your friend who told you he just wants to be friends: how does she know this? Did SHE speak to him about it? She might be afraid that you will get a new boyfriend and she'll be left out, or she might like him a bit herself. So I wouldn't listen to what she says unless you really trust her and know that she would tell you the truth from a reliable source (the guy himself).
You should go with your gut instincts, and it sounds as though you really feel that he does like you.
2007-11-04 01:44:51 · answer #2 · answered by Katrina W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't be scared of the possibility that he might just want to be friends. In my opinion, I think he likes you also. The way he only comments you back and trying to catch your attention in class just goes to show he likes you.
Good luck!
2007-11-04 01:36:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instead of going through your friends to find out how the other one feels, why don't you come right out and ask him yourself? Next time your in class with him, slip him a note that says "Hey cutie, how are you" and see what he does. If you live close to him, maybe ask him if he wants to hang out after school or something. Then when you get him alone, you can just let him know that your "feeling him" and want to know how he feels for you.
2007-11-04 01:35:30 · answer #4 · answered by xoangeleyes23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, he's going to a lot of trouble to get your attention. I'd say you've got a good chance he wants to be more than friends. So, go for it. Even if by some chance he does just want to be friends, at least you can be friends. That's a lot better than not talking at all isn't it?
2007-11-04 01:41:38 · answer #5 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong to be friends first.Relationship needs time to develop and it doesn't happen overnight.If he treat you like a friend at first don't worry.Time will tell you guys can develop the relationship.
2007-11-04 01:35:33 · answer #6 · answered by rootbeer_118 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it looks like he could like you but the thing about this cituation is that he dosent seem to be the one thats gonna make a move because he already know you like him but he wont have the nerve to say something back... press alittle harder and so then he will open up alittle more to you and then you could take it from there
2007-11-04 01:38:48 · answer #7 · answered by Andrew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go up and ask his friend if he said that he only wanted to be friends. then if he says yes ,keep flirting with him and maybe in time things will change.
2007-11-04 01:37:32 · answer #8 · answered by marilynfsmgm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he likes you just try and tell him yourself, cause alote of boys try and deny it if someone else like you or him because he want to hear it from u
2007-11-04 01:35:23 · answer #9 · answered by jackie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be scared if he wants to be friends you never know one day that friend could be your husband. good luck
2007-11-04 01:40:26 · answer #10 · answered by aneil 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋