Husband watching sexy girls?

Question

In the afternoon i went to sleep as i wasnt feeling well.During that time my husband was in front of computer. Now when i watched youtube website i noticed from the history that he watched sexy girls videos along with other normal videos especially girls with big boobs.I got very jealous.Is it fair while I am sleeping feeling unwell he watches this kind of videos?Now he isnt at home when he comes back i want to leave computer page on cover boys or something to make him feel that i was watching it to make him feel the same. I dont know should i do it? Generally at the moment we are good towards each other and it improved recently i am a bit worried i will spoil it by doing the same to him .

As far as bedroom issues are concerned i Think he gets everything what can normal man wish.

I am jealous because i have small boobs.

Answer 1

Honey i think u asked this question before .. u cant get over it can u ?? it's ok

Look .. dont think a little less about urself cuz u have small breasts .. i'm an A cup person and i'm not gonna lie .. i do feel down about them sometimes just like girls with big ones hate themselves too sometimes

A guy once told me .. big breasts r nice to look at but not to have in ur partner .. they'll only end up hurting their back and sagging all the way to their stomach

so ur husband wants to look too ! and he's using a computer screen to do that ! THANK GOD this is all he does

dont do the same to him .. this wont make him jelous or stop doing what he's doing
dont focus on ur small breasts they're not everything when it comes to love making

here's a question i have posted when i was feeling down about my breasts and people on Yahoo really cheered me up

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/;_ylc=X3oDMTE1MmI4N2IyBF9TAzIxMTU1MDAxMTgEc2VjA2Fuc19ub3QEc2xrA3N1YmplY3Q-;_ylv=3?qid=20071103153725AAtEN4Z

see ? u r not alone :) and not less of a woman of any other big breasted one

GooD LucK ^__^

Answer 2

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Answer 3

I think all the answers are good so far except for Lover of Blue. I do not agree with Nessaja that what your husband is doing is hurtful in and of itself, but he is right when he says you should express your feelings to Hubby. I say you might want to ask your husband if you can look at what he has been looking at WITH him! Or offer to look. Most of my favorite girlfriends AND MY WIFE looked at and read men's magazines with me before the internet age and now that we have internet my wife and I sometimes look at adult sites together. Yes I look at big boobs too. So we look and comment on the boobs or whatever other part of anatomy. We also look at men sometimes. Try it. You might find that it is a turn on. It might lead to some hot , dirty satisfying sex. Whatever you decide to do you SHOULD talk to him about it because it bothers you. Don't forbid him to do it anymore. And don't make a big deal that he did it while you were sick in bed bed either-that is pretty insignificant.

Answer 4

Why would you worry? Does it make your jealous? It's not like he's meeting other chicks online and then going to their house for some on the side.

Maybe he just likes big boobs?

I think you should feel secure in the fact that everything in the bedroom is okie and he's not feeling like there should be something more happening.

Answer 5

I wouldn't do it if I were you, you could, as you said, spoi eveything. No it is not right that he was doing that, but this is something you need to speak with him about. If you are going to have a strong relationship, honesty and trust are very important factors. Tell him what you saw and how it had made you feel. Don't get too over emotional while explaining it though, and don't accuse him of anything. Prehaps there was a reason other than "sexy girls".

Answer 6

He's not hitting the streets looking for girls, and the puter is just pictures!! Don't over reast so much. The benefits are all yours!! And as far as small boobs, at least they are yours, and not made of plastic, I preferr small breasted ladies!! (they are better). Relax & enjoy!!!

Answer 7

Lol...get pregnant! Your boobs will get HUGE and he won't be able to get enough of them. (My hubby is more infatuated with my boobs now than ever before) Just kidding. Hun, men are gonna look at other women. It's in their nature. At least he's not going to titty bars. He loves you, but it you feel hurt by it, let him know. Maybe he needs to delete the history before you get on the comp.. He's going to look whether you like it or not, but maybe it's better that you don't know exactly what he's looking at. Ignorance is bliss sometimes, especially when it comes to online porn. Talk to him and tell him how you feel.

Answer 8

As long as he is being loving and kind and good to you, you have nothing to fear. Men AND women both enjoy looking at pretty sexy girls.

But if he starts to be distant, cold and uncaring about you, then his looking at pictures is only a symptom of something greater that is wrong.

Your jealousy is just that - it's yours. But don't let it take over your sensible judgement.

I think you and your husband have a communications problem, maybe your husband feels he isn't being listened to as he needs and just looking at pictures is his way of venting stress.

Answer 9

He is a man and will always be a man. Men look and I don't think they can help it. At least he is at home and not out actually doing something. Nor is he having an intimate relationship with someone else. I think chat rooms are more harmful than pictures. At least they can't grow a relationship with them. If it bothers you, do something more spontaneous with him.

Answer 10

Hun. I wouldn't worry about it. Definitely don't try to make him jealous...that will not work. If you really want to look at sexy men...do it...just don't do it to make your husband mad.
You husband is with you...and your small boobs! I'm sure he was just bored while you were asleep. I wouldn't make a big deal about it! My husband is obsessed with boobs, but I know that he loves mine more than any other big boob girl around...because they are his! lol