that she wanted to keep things the way they are because she likes the way we get on at the moment.
is this a good thing?
we basically go out and are always hugging but i just had to ask her out to know for sure weather she likes me or not. when i did she said that she wanted things to stay the same and that we are good the way we are.
i asked her if she said no because she doesnt like me and she just said that she does like me but wants things to stay as they are.
so what do i do? stay with her? i love her and it seems she likes me. but why doesn't she want to go out? ive told her i like her and asked her out - what more can i do?
does it matter that we dont actually go out?? im happy with the way things are but is it going anywhere?
2007-11-04 01:22:49 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it's either she likes you or she's using you.
2007-11-04 01:03:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has already told you she doesn't want more than what you currently have. Just because you love her doesn't mean that she loves you, sounds like you are just a friend to her. To her this may be a perfect relationship, anything more might ruin the friendship. Be happy with what you have if you continue to press her you might lose a friend.
2007-11-04 08:29:21 · answer #2 · answered by ctelly22 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its good,
she is jus afraid/hesitant of makin the grt leap of faith
get her to want u. u ask me how?
now act like u have forgotten that u asked her out/ like u are over her, she will start wondering if she is still as attractive,if u still want her, she might start acting up for u but stay calm and chilled, then when the moment is right...take control
she will pull away if u continue to show her that u want her
Oh dont flirt w other girls cos shell think she made the rigjht decision by saying ...
so dont kiss up to her yet remain the man she loves to be w.
2007-11-04 08:39:21 · answer #3 · answered by cleo s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT ASK HER AGAIN!!! if you come on too strong you will lose a friend. Keep it the way things are, she might realize that she likes you and she might ask you out. But if she doesn't find a girlfriend that likes you more than this girl.
2007-11-04 08:33:41 · answer #4 · answered by Lillian T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't want to go out. you do that its gonna eventually cost about $250.00 a month. your better off this way. you get some one to talk too. remember what that one bear said on that one kids show " stay away from them" their nothing but trouble......yeah just hang out with her and be a good honest freind. keep your hand out of her clothes. and keep her hand out of your wallet.
2007-11-04 08:36:38 · answer #5 · answered by hifi1863 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes a girl needs a male friend in whom she can confide in and just relates to. and that is a good thing so just leave the friendship at that, she wants you to be her bestfriend and not her boyfriend
2007-11-04 08:38:34 · answer #6 · answered by deon t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she's put you in the "let's just be friends" category, which means (for a woman) "I will never have sex with you and you're kidding yourself if you think otherwise."
2007-11-04 08:33:07 · answer #7 · answered by Paul R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want more then friendship then you will have to look else where. if shes not willing to be seen outside with you then shes not happy being with you. tell her your going to go out and ask her to meet you there. if she wont then you have your answer,shes not wanting anyone to see you with her.
2007-11-04 08:33:11 · answer #8 · answered by marilynfsmgm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make sure if she's straight dude.........
2007-11-04 08:43:00 · answer #9 · answered by Cookie Monster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋