I don't mean a relationship, but only an affair. I don't want to get involved, that's why. But it seems that men want to have a relationship. I don't understand why they don't agree to have only an intercourse. Why do they runaway when they find out that i don't want something more?
2007-11-04 01:13:42 · 13 answers · asked by AnneMarie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'll gladly give you one!
2007-11-04 01:16:48 · answer #1 · answered by James M 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Because sex is the full physical expression of how two people feel for each other.
Now, with STD's being so much of a worry it has become even more important than ever to be sure you can trust & respect someone you have sex with.
Then there's the risk of pregancy, no protection is 100% safe.
So for a guy you approach, he'll think about how he feels, why you're coming on to him for sex, the risks (if STD's don't scare him then a possible baby will) & what you might say about him to yor friends afterwards.
If all you want is sex with no connections there are Internet groups out there.
Howver, big word of caution, if you're not sure about anything you might get into, far bigger risks for you in this than those above, you would be wise to stay away.
This first thing you need to do is work out why you feel this way.
2007-11-04 01:25:21 · answer #2 · answered by tone 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
some dudes want full relationships. maybe the guys that want something more from you are a little more mature than other guys out there who only want sex! these guys may have played the field quite a bit already and are now looking for a more serious relationship. when guys start to get in their late 20's and 30's, they start looking for something more serious. maybe you need to date guys in their early 20's. they will be happy to just have sex with you and nothing more!
2007-11-04 01:51:14 · answer #3 · answered by sportguy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out with a man who only wants what you want a male tart would be good plenty of them around or i know even you could pay the men that way your not involved or hurting anyone.
2007-11-04 01:51:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first if i was u i will first check myself if somethings wrong with me like am i dramatic or self centered like that if u are just try and leave those out then if u like a guy just play cool and tell him (if he's available) that u got feelings for him , have confident in yourself just be u bc we are diferent and thats what makes us special not all of us can hava a girl or a boy just in teen age mmaybe u can find it when your older :)
2007-11-04 01:42:22 · answer #5 · answered by JASON 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men have feelings too- we want relationships just as much as women ever do-
if we like a woman, we dont want to be used as sex toys by them, because that's a little more lustful.
2007-11-04 01:31:24 · answer #6 · answered by luvva 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Seems like these men want all or nothing, I'm sure there are men who want something casual or no strings out there.
2007-11-04 01:19:33 · answer #7 · answered by Gavin T 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
lol! i think u got your wires twisted! its normally the men who just want one night stands, and dont want to be engaged in a relationship.
2007-11-04 01:19:26 · answer #8 · answered by sulz152 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
because they might think ur a whore with stds.
or another possibility is that men also want companionship they dont wanna just have a **** buddy, thats for teenagers. guys want a women who gets them, who he trusts, and who has great sex with him.
2007-11-04 01:18:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
you are kidding right, I mean you don't just sleep around with guys willy nilly, thats disgusting! You have issues dear!
2007-11-04 02:15:17 · answer #10 · answered by Rainbowz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because most people, once they get past a certain age are looking for something more than just sex.
2007-11-04 01:17:02 · answer #11 · answered by Stephen M 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋