Our husband are deployed my 1st but her 3rd. i learned a lot from here but every15 min. she calls are im's me i cant even chat with my husband with her im n me she knows when he's online .I ignored her then my cell,house phone ,if i dont answer im evry15 min. i have told her I cant talk to her & hubby same time are im cleaning ,sleeping,I will call her back it's her again with what your doing I told her i'm going to read a book had to turn off both phones she started im me!help dont know how to not hurt her feeling but making wana punch a wall!
2007-11-04 01:41:34 · 2 answers · asked by sweetface 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Please excuse the misspellings and lack of proper eng. I should have proof read it before submitting it Miss brat!
2007-11-04 01:37:53 · update #1
Those deployments take a heavy toll on everyone, and the fact that she's a veteran at this doesn't seem to make her any better at coping than you are. I understand why she's doing what she's doing, and I also understand why you need her to tone it down a bit. Keep doing what you're doing by turning off your electronics when you need a break, but if you can help it, don't shut her out completely. You still need each other to get through this...of course a few more members might spread her out a bit and lessen her impact on you. Good luck to you all, and I pray for your husbands' safe return.
2007-11-04 01:50:49 · answer #1 · answered by Captain S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First learn grammar, and English.
She is probably the kind that just needs someone, maybe find her a hobby or volunteer activity she could do.
2007-11-04 08:50:38 · answer #2 · answered by ziggy_brat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋