Ex girlfriend won't stop calling?

Question

I broke up with my former girlfriend about 5 months ago. I'm 21, she's 18. We had a rough relationship. She constantly lied, she had affairs behind my back, and we always argued. She calls me every so often and I don't answer the phone, but I want her to stop calling me in general. I've already moved on. What should I do? Serious answers only please!

Answer 1

Change your phone number!!!

Answer 2

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Love is a choice that is made everyday when you wake up and every night when you go to sleep. Some days you may not feel the original feeling but love isnt a feeling or an emotion. Its an action a verb. Falling out of love may just mean you need to spice things up a little or that you were never in love in the first place. Don't just get out of a marriage just because you don't think you like the person anymore.

Answer 3

It is simple, get a new phone number, and don't give it out.

You can keep the old number and turn off the ringer, or let an answering machine always answer instead of you.

A variation of this would be a fake voice on your own phone #'s answering machine, saying another name, as if a new person moved in.

Or a female voice, as if you have a new live-in "girlfriend". But, just tell friends to expect an odd message when they call (maybe with a thick Asian accent).

I'm assuming you tried being honest, and she won't take no for an answer. that would've been your first move.

Police say "get a restraining order", but stalkers are insane...no piece of paper will dissuade them.

Answer 4

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Maybe if you broke up with her, then you might be able to be the one who brings up the subject of getting back together. But if you can do it without, it would be much better. But how do you get someone back without seeming desperate? In order to get your ex girlfriend attention, you have to show value without telegraphing your interest in her, while at the same time initiating interaction. So don't ignore your ex texts and calls when they break up with you. It screams that you are so devastated by the breakup that you can't even handle talking to her. You want to respond to her, but do it in the right way. You can even initiate communication if you do it in the right way. You have to maintain a strong frame of confidence, and show your ex girlfriend that your happiness isn't dependent on being with her

Answer 5

I have had to do the "STOP CALLING ME!" several times, usually it works but you have to be firm. First few times be polite, look I know you miss me but I would appreciate if you could stop calling because I have moved on. If she keeps calling you have no choice but to be a real asshole and just tell her your dating someone else, your not interested and you never really were, that's why you dumped her ***!
If it doesn't stop then you might want to change your number but if she is intent on calling she'll find the new number... cops won't do anything about prank calls!
I still get the odd call from guys I dated before I met my husband (over 5 years ago!). I now can say "I'm married, you've missed the boat, PLEASE DON'T CALL ME AGAIN".

Answer 6

When you answer the phone, say "Hold on, there's someone at the door." then don't come back to the phone for half an hour. If she calls again, say "We were just about to take a shower; I won't be able to talk for at least an hour." then don't hang up straight awayso she can't call you straight back. If she calls again, say "We were just talking about you, and having a good laugh."
then say off to the side "that's the sexiest panties I've ever seen...yeah, this is the girl we were talking about; isn't she pathetic?" She will soon get the hint.

Answer 7

Dear Friend. You can bar his phone no. so that she may not call u. You shoul also tell her that you don't like her any more as she is underplaying your love affair by having clandestine relationship with some other guy. This is too much. Tell her that if she will do and continue calling you, you will take other measures such as telling her friends that she is an untrustworthy girl. You must also tell her present b/f that she is most untrust worthy and she has played with love affairs. Good Luck.

Answer 8

Aside from changing your phone number, you are doing the only thing you can. Eventually, of you don't ever answer her calls she's going to stop. Trying to reason with her will do no good and may have her calling all the more, just to hear your voice.

Answer 9

Well there are a number of things you can do. You can get a restraing order, change your number to an unpublished number, move to a different area if that is possible, tell her parents what's going on and let them deal with it.
If you have to go to the extreme...tell her everything that she did wrong and that you have no time for her high school drama. That may seem mean but hey, do what you gotta do.

Answer 10

If you do not answer her calls I would think that after a while she would stop calling. Perhaps you're the best thing thats happened for her and now realizing it wants to try again.
If you don't answer the calls and it still upsets you that she is calling, perhaps you need additional help to try to understand why it bothers you so much that she calls. Move on as you say you have and apply more emphasis on where your at and what you're doing for yourself right now, not on the whim that she tries calling you.

Answer 11

Answer the phone, and respond like a man, seriously. Include everything you said here on the phone, and tell her that you've moved on. Wish her good luck, stay respectable, but a man can only hold so much torture before he let's go and moves on. I was in a fairly similar situation (AND I'M ONLY FRICKEN 15!!!!!) where a girl I dumped kept calling and whining on the phone, and kept threatening to yell at me during school. Let her know that you're done, let her know that you're done and that's that.