2007-11-04 15:21:08 · 14 answers · asked by beaglegurl87 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
friends or a true lover
2007-11-04 15:28:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is nice to have both. Lovers presumably involves a deeper commitment and sex. Friends may involve a strong social relationship and a good set of friends you can call on in emergencies is very nice. Normally having more than one lover is frowned up, but if in different cities, not as much as having more than one wife/husband. An adult friend is someone you are comfortable with in some context with which you do not have to watch everything you say because you know how they think. An acquaintance you wouldn't ask to stay at their house in an emergency, a friend you should be able to.
2007-11-04 23:27:21 · answer #2 · answered by Mike1942f 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ur question is bit strange bcause there are lovers who can be lovers because they are beat freinds first. however i personally think that friends are better at times bcause u can share anything with them and they are there 4 u when ever u r in the bad phase of life. lovers can also be good if they are understanding and considerate
2007-11-04 23:25:55 · answer #3 · answered by sandeep j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best would be to have a lover that is your friend.
You have someone that you share everything with emotionally and physically that is there through thick and thin.
"I'm all in favor of keeping dangerous weapons out of the hands of fools. Let's start with typewriters."
Frank Lloyd Wright (1868-1959)
2007-11-04 23:33:06 · answer #4 · answered by Toe the line 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Friendship is an undervalued love. I would start there. It is good and satisfying!
You can move on to a more date-like relationship when both agree.
Save it for marriage if possible.
The thoughtless practise love making may spoil any chance of a real monogamous relationship later, for one or both of you.
Learn to be satisfied.
There's always some one better, for both of you, but that is the road to heartbreak & tears!!!
2007-11-04 23:37:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
my lover is my friend, doesnt get any better than that
2007-11-04 23:24:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends. True friends accept you, no matter what. Lovers fade away or become true friends...
2007-11-04 23:24:30 · answer #7 · answered by roger wilco 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I have to agree with the FWB. That way you can talk to them and get their input and help on more than one level. Plus there's no jealousy involved usually.
2007-11-05 11:46:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
friend is better cuz then you ont have to worrie about how ur descisions will effect another person. u just have 2 worry about urself.
2007-11-04 23:24:20 · answer #9 · answered by dazed n confused 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
friends because they will always be with you through thick and thin and lovers may lesve you
2007-11-04 23:23:35 · answer #10 · answered by cory s 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋