ok, so i'm in 8th grade, and the only bf i've had was in the 6th grade. i'm extremely flirtatious and i try to show guys that i like them, and i think they try also, but they never ask me out. a bunch of nerds in my class like me and have asked me out, but i said no. i just don't like them. the guys that i do like act like they like me, but they never do anything. they give me hugs and i give them hugs back and stuff and i talk to them. so what's the deal, why don't i ever get asked out??? please help me!!
2007-11-04 15:48:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you are trying too hard. Be yourself and not some flirting bimbo and the guys might start giving you the time of day. You can ask them out if you really like them. What is the worst that they are going to say? no? Get to class the bell is about to ring
2007-11-04 15:54:41 · answer #1 · answered by littleme836 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Communication And Vibes Are The Main Source Show them What Your Made Of Why Are You Worth It I've Been There And Done It You Will Learn Guys As You Grow But Just For Now Communication Is Big Just Show them Who You Are And "Why Your The Girl" Also Stand Out Make Them Notice You
2007-11-04 15:54:50 · answer #2 · answered by Stellar 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Asked out on a date at 13,
what is a date at 13.
what can you expect at age 13.
You are better off just talking and being part of a group than trying to be a couple at 13.
2007-11-04 15:56:54 · answer #3 · answered by tom 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because you're in 8th grade. These aren't real "relationships." Wait till you grow up until you are flirtatious. You're a child right now. Hang out with your female friends. Those are the ones who will be there for you in 4, 5, 6 years.
2007-11-04 15:54:35 · answer #4 · answered by Tim 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
same thing happened to me when i was in 8th grade. ur crushes are probably scared of being rejected (by you). Guys at your age are still immature so its gonna take them some time to build up their courage to ask. It looks like they like you too because of all the hugging thing but just be careful cuz some guys are just natural "flirts". Just wait it out...the right guy will come along..
2007-11-04 15:56:12 · answer #5 · answered by cheska r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well when i was 13 i used to always think i HAD to have a man. But trust me when your older. you will realize that they werent important. Just focus on school and I PROMISE YOU it will turn out PERFECT in the end
P.S. if you dont take my advice about the school play hard to get with the boys.. They will then think that they have to try harder to get you.
2007-11-04 15:55:47 · answer #6 · answered by ♥[[Alyssa]]♥ 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Assuming that these boys are also 13, they probably haven't even gone through puberty yet and think you still have cuties.
2007-11-04 15:58:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're 13 years old...and you need a date...??? sounds kinda crazy to be even thinking about that too seriously but, oh well whatever floats your boat.
2007-11-04 15:52:26 · answer #8 · answered by AmericanTofu 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You're too young. Just make friends and give it some time.
2007-11-04 15:52:39 · answer #9 · answered by Chris 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
some guys may here rumours about u asking another guy out so they might expect you to ask them out. of you outgoing(like really outgoing) that could be another reason.
2007-11-04 15:54:27 · answer #10 · answered by Josh 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋