Family & Relationships - 28 October 2007

Well I already know the what i will do concerning this question. But I would like to know other persons opinions and any info they may have to offer. I have been talking to him for 4 years I met him online and he has never asked me for anything. I want to see him in person as far as marrying him or anything like that he hasnt asked and just to be safe I brought it up and I told him my thoughts about it. I also told him i wasnt bringing any money. My reservations and flight are all taken care of and he has offered to pay me for half the cost of my flight or room rental which ever he can afford. So should I go. Does anyone else have this story or have they all been scammed. P.S. I have seen him and everything on cam with voice. So we both know that we are real people

2007-10-28 20:08:03 · 3 answers · asked by jabe91878 1 in Singles & Dating

TWO YEARS AGO MY SISTER GOT HER KIDS TAKEN AWAY FROM BEING A DRUG ABUSER AND I HAVE HAD HER YOUNGEST SINCE WELL KNOW SHE HAS A COURT DATE IN DECEMBER AND IM PRETTY SURE SHES GONNA GET HIM BACK SINCE WEVE WORKED SO HARD TO GET HER CLEAN,..WELL MY QUESTION IS WHEN TAX SEASON COMES AROUND SHOULD I BE ABLE TO CLAIM HIM SINCE I SUPPORTED HIM ALL YEAR OR SHOULD SHE GET THE MONEY I KINDA SCARED TO BRING IT UP BECAUSE I DONT WANT TO FIGHT ABOUT IT OR END UP FELLING ASHAMED ANY SUGGESTIONS? thanks:)

2007-10-28 20:06:17 · 6 answers · asked by ♥Jes.♥ 2 in Family

because you are my wife & will always be.we should give it another shot b/cuz i love you & regret all my wrongdoings."

We are never married but lived together for 4 years & the house is mind. The relationship is over long time & i have been living in another country for a year now. He hasn't given up on me but too bad cuz i've made up my mind. He did me wrong too many times before & it took me years to finally get over him so starting a-new with him is no longer my best bet.

I have the option to be home early next year & this statement makes me think to go elsewhere instead but i hate it b/c its my house.

Thank you all.

Note: Not sure if this is the right section.

2007-10-28 20:00:29 · 19 answers · asked by jables 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i.'m 7teen year old guy....past few months i felt love with a guy named B.He is my classmate.Whenever i see him i want to talk to him...but he doesen't...somestimes he talk s to me lovingly ...but not..does he also loves me...he has a girlfriend...she is elder than him....he loves her so much..what should i do...help..me...pls...

2007-10-28 20:00:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-10-28 19:59:26 · 29 answers · asked by Sacrifice Yourself 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been going out 9 months. (I'm 20 and he's 25). He can be extremely romantic and sweet but about 5% of the time he can be really hurtful. He has hurt me a lot over the past 9 months, from calling me names and leaving me alone when he has been mad at me over silly things. He got mad because he saw my male manager tap my back or if he sees a guy smiling with me. He has thrown things, put a hole in my door and he has also pushed me if I tried to stop him from leaving. Last night I was crying and he was mad I was outside in my night outfit and told me to go in. I asked why would he care and he told me fine, get the **** out of here.

He tried calling me today but I ignored him.

Other times he will be so sweet, like bring me roses and write me letters and make sweet things or tell me he will love me forever. He's always affectionate with kisses/hugs.

I know he will say he's sorry and make more promises that he won't keep. I love him with all of my heart.

2007-10-28 19:56:14 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My girlfriend is beautiful,Well I made her think she was not. I picked apart her appearance,what she should change, because I was in a bad mood. I know I made her cry, I feel bad now
What can I do to make it up to her?

2007-10-28 19:53:11 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we're are the same gender

2007-10-28 19:50:46 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My 5 year old sister found out today that her parents (my parents too) are getting a divorce.

She's devastated and I want to make her feel better.

What should I do?
Is there any books explaining divorce for kids?

2007-10-28 19:49:03 · 7 answers · asked by mish_mosh_posh 2 in Marriage & Divorce

or do you feel as though you get back as much as you give?

2007-10-28 19:46:53 · 12 answers · asked by Global gipsey. 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-28 19:44:54 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I’m sixteen, a virgin, and I like this guy who is eighteen and plays in a band. I know I should be concentrating on my grades but I can’t get this boy out of my mind.

He is in grade 12 and I am in grade 11. I met him through a couple of friends of mine who were friends with him. I thought we had a “thing” going where I thought he liked me - but that thought slowly disintegrated.

I’m just too shy to go up to him and say “I’ve got a crush on you”. And even if I did tell him that I doubt that he’d feel the same way, or even have the desire to evolve a relationship. He has so many girls on myspace that like him, and not only that... they are the type of girls who have sex.

Why would he chose a virgin?

I contemplate all the time whether or not I should tell him that I like him, but then I look at the odds - and think, why bother?

I'll also let you know that I do homeschooling because I was bullied at my old school. I'm just thinking, is this just another kick in the guts?

2007-10-28 19:31:00 · 7 answers · asked by Raquel 4 in Singles & Dating

what was the first thought in your head,
when he/she proposed to you?
when you woke up to the day of your wedding?

2007-10-28 19:28:50 · 13 answers · asked by Becks 1 in Weddings

Three years back when I was in college I dated this girl. She was very nice to me and besides many other things she gave me her password using which I could acess school library's online journals for my research paper. We then broke up, one day out of curiousity I used that password on her personal e-mail id and sure enough it worked. I started secretly reading her e-mails, her boyfriends, mother, sister i almost know everything thats going on. I even know lot more than I need to. Initial it was this feeling of missing her that made me do this and then now since I am over this I feel its moral not correct for me to do this. How can stop this habit. Please keep in mind I dont want to communicate with her anymore after we broke up for various personal reasons. I just want to get over this habit.

2007-10-28 19:28:12 · 17 answers · asked by The Orion 1 in Marriage & Divorce

guy and it turns out we have the same friends. we clicked and held hands, he said he likes me a lot and thought i was pretty and asked me if i like him. at the end of the night, i was going to give him my phone nobut my ride had shown up so i had to go so i didn't get to say goodbye either since i couldn't find him. (he works there) will he try to ask our friends for my phone number or should i try to find out his?

2007-10-28 19:27:17 · 14 answers · asked by ames 3 in Singles & Dating

I need to think of ways to propose to my girlfriend. I asked her to move in with me at the end of April, she said yes. Now I'm thinking that we should be engaged before moving in. How and where should i ask her to marry me. I already got the ring i just have to get the round diamonds in it replaced with princess cut diamonds but other than that I'm ready. give me some ideas on how to do it.

2007-10-28 19:26:19 · 13 answers · asked by martin g 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-28 19:21:28 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I really need to know for a research paper.

2007-10-28 19:21:11 · 17 answers · asked by monkey63096 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-28 19:20:10 · 20 answers · asked by lovingyouforever 1 in Singles & Dating

I am in college and haven't been dating my boyfriend that long. ((4 months)) however, I have a great job which enables me to pay bills and still have left over money to splurge on. =]

Well, Christmas is coming up and I really want to get my bf a laptop. The one I am looking at is only 500 but I am wondering if that is too much to spend on someone I haven't been dating that long. ((as a side note, I have known him for years, its not like we have only known eachother for how long we've been dating))

He is a great guy and I've never been happier. He needs a laptop and he would be VERY appreciative and happy if I got him this.

2007-10-28 19:19:34 · 21 answers · asked by Love Life <3 2 in Singles & Dating

im 16 and i have been going out with my bf for over 5 months now but recently i have ben getting feelings for other guys, i hardly see him and when i do those feelings of love come back, im not sure whats going on im confused but i dont no if i should call it off or caryr on going to see if things get better?

2007-10-28 19:17:51 · 5 answers · asked by wotsmyageagain 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm single dad rasing my son,last weekend I let my son spend overnight visit in my grandparents.To my great sadness,they superceded my life on owning a puppy.......they take my son to petshop and buy him a puppy.that night,they let my son sleep with puppy in the same bed and so I have to take puppy to my home.I really feel like I have been insulted by them,they give my son a puppy without even telling me first!
now I'm in real trouble
If I keep the puppy,I'll have no time to take care of two babys at the same time,Besides,my parents will think about how stupid I am to return their gifts for grandson.....
But if I return the puppy as I thought moments ago,that poor little animals be given to others as presents, My refustion to have him near might lead to cruel violence directed at him again.And I'll be totally monster in my son's eyes,he'll hate me for his life.I can't break his heart....
No matter what we do,I gonna hurt someone...
I really need help here,please......

2007-10-28 19:15:54 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have a stepbrother that beat up her girlfriend last weekend, and my stepmother is asking me to call and appologize to her on behalf of the family. But I'm not sure its a good idea because I shouldn't be apologizing to her cause its their relationship. I don't know what went on and its kind of akward to aproach her. I'm ashamed of what my stepbrother did ? And I can't look at her and see her bruises that he caused. I told my step mother that we shouldn't be inbetween them we should lay off and let them take care of their differences but she insist that I call or see her.

2007-10-28 19:15:18 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

We have been together for 8 years and I love hiim, but, I believe the age difference is starting to rear it's ugly head. Any advice would be very appreciative!

2007-10-28 19:15:14 · 14 answers · asked by babynag 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Not an active drinker, but one in recovery who carries the "mentality" as they did when they were active?
How do you handle it?

2007-10-28 19:14:19 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Do you guys know of any web sites where my family all across the US can go and talk and email and chat and stay intouch share pictures and stuff?? And have a address book where we can know if someone moved?

2007-10-28 19:13:28 · 5 answers · asked by Shannan M 2 in Family

But too often are mistaken, and misrepresented, for it.

2007-10-28 19:12:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

cheat on my sister again. I went to high school with this guy a long time ago way before he even knew my sister lived. I didnt like this guy back then either because he thought he was the ****. Well now that he started going out with my sister, I really didnt like him at all, he just tries too hard for my family to like him (they dont like him either) . Well he ended up cheating on my sis last year and left her for another girl. A year later he is back in the picture asked my sis to go back with him, and she dumped her b/f in a heart beat (that guy was loved by everyone, treated her like a princess), didnt care about his feelings. Well this other guy asked my sis to marry him, promised an expensive ring but never got it and he hasnt talked to my mom either. I tried talking to my sis telling her that she needs to take things slow but she wont listen. Any advice.

2007-10-28 19:12:12 · 5 answers · asked by rorybellows 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

My wife hasn't smiled at me since about early August. She says it's stress but I don't know. When I asked her why she won't smile she can't come up with an answer. What can a guy do?

2007-10-28 19:12:09 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-10-28 19:09:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating