My girlfriend is beautiful,Well I made her think she was not. I picked apart her appearance,what she should change, because I was in a bad mood. I know I made her cry, I feel bad now
What can I do to make it up to her?
2007-10-28 19:53:11 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
write her a poem
give her flowers
and take her to a great restaurant
where you give her the poem
2007-10-28 19:56:29 · answer #1 · answered by J33-3 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hopefully you both have good communication skills, so talk thru what happened. If this is the first time then you should talk to her about it, it isn't nice and it sounds like she was hurt. Explain what happened with you and maybe create some code words for "now is not a good time to ask me a question as I need some time to chill" moments. If this is not the first incident then you maybe need to think about why this has happend again. I would suggest that buying flowers is not the best option as really it dosn't make up for it, neither does dinners etc... honest and open communication is the best for any relationship and understanding your partners moods is also helpful. Treating each other with respect is very important. Appearance is not everything and some people are not confident with themselves so NEVER comment on the way another person looks. What is on the inside is much more important.
2007-10-29 03:03:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all apologize. Not just by saying sorry, but by saying sorry ánd letting her know that you understand how she must feel. If you are really sincere about this, then tell her why you are sorry! Then listen to what she has to say, so you do understand it even better.
The behavior you showed to her is damaging her. Maybe this was a one-time thing, and even then it might be damaging by making her really insecure about some things.
So if you want to lessen the damage, don't do this anymore and tell her how beautiifull you really think she is.
If there is some 'imperfectness' about her, then please realize that you are not perfect either. For partners in a relationship, it's very important that you respect each others dignity.
You might also think about your own behavior, why you did this, so you won't do it again in the future!
2007-10-29 03:00:18 · answer #3 · answered by Bloed 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Send her flowers while she is at work every hour, then sneak up and get her supervisor or someone to tell her that she needs to go outside, where you will be waiting in a tuxedo, with a single red rose, ready to take her on a romantic dinner cruise on an ocean liner, finished off with an expensive bottle of champagne. I'd be happy with that. And tell her all the time how beautiful she is.
2007-10-29 02:59:28 · answer #4 · answered by Salami 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She will always think in the back of her mind now that you meant what you said.
Try explaining in simple turns that you were in a foul mood, and said those things to hurt her, and that you are sorry and didn't mean any of it.
But an unexpected present - flowers, chocs, perfume - goes a long way with women!
Not too many beautiful women around, so you will need to try hard. Good luck!
2007-10-29 02:59:20 · answer #5 · answered by Bunts 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You sure did screw up. I would be very hurt if my boyfriend said anything negative about how I looked. Your best bet is to tell her what a jerk you are, that you were in a bad mood, and you didn't mean any of the things you said. Tell her that's she's beautiful, and how much you care for her. Flowers, dinner at a really nice place. Beautiful girls are usually not lacking for dates, so I would hurry up about it.
2007-10-29 02:59:34 · answer #6 · answered by Kate J 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Really and truly apologize and tell her how beautiful she really is and tell her how you were just being a jerk and you know that you were wrong and didnt mean those things you said. Try to surprise her with a gift or flowers. Think about what she really likes so it will be personal, that shows that it came from your heart. Next time your in a pissy mood try to go a different route....hope I helped.
2007-10-29 02:59:32 · answer #7 · answered by Shandlan 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all dont ever say those things again to her. Stuff like that can really hurt us girls. I think the best thing to do is to take her out on a romantic dinner and in the middle of that grab her hand, look her in the eyes, and finally tell her that you are sorry and that you thinks she is gorgeous just the way she is. Dont forget to tell her you love her.
I would love for my boyfriend to apologize in this manner so take my advice.
GOOD LUCK!
2007-10-29 03:01:22 · answer #8 · answered by infiniti 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing you should do is apologize and admit you were wrong. The best way to end any fight with your girlfriend is to eat humble pie and admit you are wrong even if u aren't and work it from there. This is simply because when tempers are flying, people do not thing rationally.
2007-10-29 03:00:00 · answer #9 · answered by Jon C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tel her that you were being an a$$hole, and that you are sorry and she is the most beautiful girl in the world. If you are extremely lucky, she will forgive you. I hope you have learned a lesson from this. She may not forgive you next time!! I wouldn't!!!
2007-10-29 02:57:17 · answer #10 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No matter what you do, she won't ever forget that. Sorry to say it. Just try and explain yourself, give her some flowers, and apologize. That's all you can do. She will forever remember you "picking apart her appearance".... don't be shocked if she dumps you for someone who respects her.
2007-10-29 03:00:29 · answer #11 · answered by munkees81 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋