Family & Relationships - 28 October 2007

Seriously, what's so attractive about it? There is hardly any difference between them and just hip or stomach fat.

2007-10-28 18:40:52 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

really liked this girl and after weeks and weeks of being a chicken i finally ask her out. you know what she says your a really nice guy, but not that cute lets just be friends :(. are all girls this shallow?

2007-10-28 18:38:12 · 11 answers · asked by Jeremy G 1 in Singles & Dating

ive hooked up wit this guy 3 times already and im really not sure what we are exactly. its me and my best friend hooking up with him and his best friend. they go to dif schools, but we go visit them and go to parties with them like every weekend. we are all 4 so busy during the week that we usually don't talk to each other. but when we go to parties together we act like were just wit each other and then we later hook up(never any sex tho). i like this guy, but im not sure how he feels about me... how can i tell without directly asking him? im also curious if what we are is considered 'exclusive hook ups' in other words, which is implied we are just hooking up wit each other and no one else?? how can i tell if hes hooking up wit other girls? or if im allowed to hook up with other guys? how can i figure this all out without asking him directly (im worried if i do that, esp this early on, he'll get scared away)..??

2007-10-28 18:37:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and i have been having trouble and he is living away at the moment to sort himself out and see if we still have a marriage. He just told me today that on Friday he had sex with his friend (girl) and that all it was, was just that. What do i do give him another chance or leave it? Should he get points for being honest with me. He said he wanted to let everything out in the open before he came back home

2007-10-28 18:36:38 · 41 answers · asked by girly girl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok heres the deal, i met this girl through a freind and when i first met her were both flirting, exchanged numbers and hung out a few times to study. The last two times shes come over to my place, we ended up play fighting, being very touchy (pretty much cuddling) and held hands. but when the time seems right to make a move she keeps her face away from me and when shes leaving gets more distant.

-im goodlooking and she thinks im a great guy, makes no sense...

2007-10-28 18:32:12 · 7 answers · asked by Pankaj P 1 in Singles & Dating

And how do you be confident without being stuck up? Do guys find girls who are confident or stuck up attractive?

2007-10-28 18:27:02 · 7 answers · asked by Raquel 4 in Singles & Dating

if a guy wants a friend s with benefits situation does that automatically mean your not good enough for anything else with him?

2007-10-28 18:24:31 · 3 answers · asked by ocean currants 2 in Singles & Dating

I am nice, not touchy and considerate of girls problems and most of all not pushy.

2007-10-28 18:23:41 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

to make a very long story short..

I ignored a text from a co worker which I felt that this person had called me a liar. My husband read the text and replied with stop sending stupid messages.
Well this co worker didn't like that and decided to call my mother who lives with us and told her what was going on and to ask her what my problem was..

I have notified the propper people but I think I need to say Harrasment or am I over reacting?

2007-10-28 18:21:34 · 4 answers · asked by aeiou 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I just found out the girl that I like has a boyfriend. She is very flirty with me. I don't understand her. She has a boyfriend that she likes. I REALLY like her and can't stop thinking about her.
What should I do?

2007-10-28 18:20:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-28 18:15:11 · 6 answers · asked by chloe1995 3 in Weddings

I have all these I don't want this, but how do i find out what I want?

2007-10-28 18:14:54 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I spend way too much time to myself and on the computer. How can I make friends? Everytime I try to get together with people nobody ever wants to hang out because they're "busy" or don't have any money. I moved a couple months ago to a new city and I still don't have any friends I can hang out with, but to be honest it's been this way for years. How can I make friends to go out with so I don't have to go to movies or hang out by myself all the time?

2007-10-28 18:14:47 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-10-28 18:14:41 · 22 answers · asked by dreamer 1 in Weddings

I am 20 and my husband is 22 and we just got married this month. My husband has no sex drive at all, and I want it at least 3-4 times a week. I am very pretty, not fat, and I am very fun to be with. I don't understand what is going on?!?! I try to talk about it to him and he says that it will get better....but its been this way for the past 5 months or so. Can anyone help? I feel so ugly and unwanted, its killing me!

2007-10-28 18:14:05 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

a year ago i had asked a q abt my my wife's suspected affair. Sat nite she told me she did hv one. But all she did was talk to this friend of mine. Regularly of course, but only in general. Nothing discussed ever was private or personal She was going thru a very diff emotional phase where she felt let down by every1 she knew incl me. Hence she tried to find refuge in this guy, who tried to help in some other matter & later it became regular small talks. But she says she put an end to it a year back after he tried to get physical.

Shes been crying since, feeling guilt and pain, & vows to never do that again. i love her immensely and i believe that she does too. I told her i forgave her and we shall change the dynamics of our relationship, which we both intend to do.

i cant get this entire episode out of my mind. My wife talking to some1 w/o me knowing & then this guy getting physical & she hiding this entirely 4m me.

how do i overcome this feeling ??? only genuine answ plz

2007-10-28 18:12:41 · 6 answers · asked by sleazy70 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-28 18:11:52 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok im going to be 21 in april and im still a virgin i mean im the oldest one out of my sisters i mean i have 2 babysisters one is 19 and the other is 18 and they both already have had sex and each have a daughter and my brother 21 and has 2 boys i mean i feel like im left out but i dont feel like i need to have sex yet but in the other hand i do want to well my question is do u guys think its wrong or weird that im still a virgin at my age

2007-10-28 18:10:23 · 20 answers · asked by BROK3NLI3Z20 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been dating my current boyfriend for almost two years. I have been very unhappy in the relationship due to a number of things. For the last 3-5 months I have been trying to break up with him, now almost every week, but he wont take me seriously. He says "oh not this again" and "don't be stupid."....I have told him I am very unhappy and even to the point of creating lists of why its just not working out. Considering that he is a very controlling person and depends on me for money and support (doesn't have a job and just dropped out of school), I think hes just staying with me for the money. Last week I took him off all of my credit cards, yet I still feel I cant get away. I want to break it off with him but he just will not listen to me. I feel smothered and don't know what to do.

2007-10-28 18:09:04 · 19 answers · asked by Candice 1 in Singles & Dating

1. Have you ever faked your orgasms?
2. Have you faked with both men and women?
3. Have you found that you fake more often with men vs. women or vice versa?
4. Do you find that you get caught faking more often when you're with a woman?

2007-10-28 18:07:35 · 1 answers · asked by rachelesse 3 in Singles & Dating

You are with your date at a party (been dating a couple months) some drunk guy is invading her personal space (to the point where she needs to move her head back to avoid his drunk blabbering). You move in and tell him nicely but sternly to "step away" - he says "f*** off"

How would you react?

2007-10-28 18:07:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what are some tips for me to stop thinking about her. it seems like i think about her all day long and i am so tempted to call her.

2007-10-28 18:05:07 · 8 answers · asked by Jackson S 1 in Singles & Dating

If you had just one more day to spend with a loved one who has passed on how would you spend it? What would you do and what would you say?

2007-10-28 18:04:05 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My children were at their dad house for visitation and him and his new wife got into a physical fight?
My daughter has never seen anything like that from me and my husband but she was defending her dad and saying he hit her step mom cause she wouldnt listen I am very worried the impression this is leaving with her my daughter is 9 my son is 11 what should I do? He was abusive to me and we have been divorced since 4/1/2000. He is very good to the kids but they argue alot when the kids come over this is the first physical fight they have had in front of the kids.How should I aproach it in a non confrontal way so he dont get defensive?

2007-10-28 17:57:09 · 7 answers · asked by sashaaspen 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Im really neverous about calling someone I have never met! lol

2007-10-28 17:54:43 · 10 answers · asked by cody c 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I are looking for another male/female couple, preferably married, to have some fun with sexually. We want to experience something new. Also want a good looking couple, near the Albany, NY; Pittsfield, MA area. Anyone know where we can find someone who also wants to have this experience?

2007-10-28 17:53:47 · 16 answers · asked by country girl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-28 17:51:50 · 17 answers · asked by betty jo (: 3 in Singles & Dating

Do you know anyone who has been married for a really long time and is obviously still head over heels in love with their spouse? Do they still get caught making out in the kitchen; do they still go on dates; do they make sure to not let the kids get in the way?

I'd like to hear some encouraging answers...

2007-10-28 17:50:46 · 8 answers · asked by one sexy biatch 3 in Singles & Dating

what do you do when you have never spoken to that person but cant get them out of your head? ive tried being in spots of town.....weve never spoken but have run into each other random of the past two years. im in love.

2007-10-28 17:50:37 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Theres this girl in one of my classes that I have an extreme crush on, but we have never even spoken before. Occasionally we hold eye contact from across the room for no longer then one second, and we cross eachother in the hallways occasionally. Shes has a kind of "emo-ish" aura, for lack of a better description, and that she likes the band "my chemical romance," but other then that, I knnow nothing about her. could you please give me some pointers on how to hold, and maintain a conversation? every time ive tried, my voice fails me, I just get so nervous.

2007-10-28 17:49:51 · 3 answers · asked by Claire 1 in Singles & Dating