ok im going to be 21 in april and im still a virgin i mean im the oldest one out of my sisters i mean i have 2 babysisters one is 19 and the other is 18 and they both already have had sex and each have a daughter and my brother 21 and has 2 boys i mean i feel like im left out but i dont feel like i need to have sex yet but in the other hand i do want to well my question is do u guys think its wrong or weird that im still a virgin at my age
2007-10-28 18:10:23 · 20 answers · asked by BROK3NLI3Z20 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are a Christian, you should wait till you get married. A real man, a Christian man will find that very attractive.
There is NO REASON FOR YOU TO BE AFRAID. I admire your conviction. It takes a strong character to stay a virgin in this day and age. You are a better person than I was at your age.
2007-10-28 18:15:28 · answer #1 · answered by Nomad2525 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No matter your age, just wait for the right guy. Promise? .lol. I gave my virginity to my first love, we're still going strong, have a beautiful baby girl and i have never been so adored by anyone in my entrie life. :D I may still be young, but I waited 'til it felt right. You'll know. You set the bar of how you wanna be treated and you never let a man fall below that bar. I say, if ha man is willing to treat you how you deserve, love you, respect you, and you give the same in return than you will have the perfect realtionship/love. Its all about you with this topic!!! :D And its all about finding that guy you see having a long future with... Good Luck and Take Care.
2007-10-29 01:26:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with being in control of your own body and there is certainly nothing wrong with being a virgin. I find it extremely romantic that you will one day give someone very special to you a gift they could never purchase. I encourage you to decide for yourself when to experience sex with a partner the first time. Do not let the decisions made by others to have sex become 'peer pressure' for you. As an adult, this is your decision to make. Make it carefully.
It is your body, and your virginity is a gift you can only give once.
2007-10-29 01:18:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I dont think its wrong to be a virgin at your age, i believe people should wait until they are comfortable and have found the right person, if you dont you may regret it in the future and you cannot turn back time. You should waste something to preciouses because you feel left out.. dont follow the croud, make your own path!
Good luck
2007-10-29 01:14:46 · answer #4 · answered by noname 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. In fact I admire you for that fact. Not a lot of people stay virgins until they're 21. If you're not ready for it yet then don't go through with it just because you feel left behind. Wait, you'll be glad you did.
2007-10-29 01:15:10 · answer #5 · answered by Sar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's neither wrong OR weird. When the right guy comes along, he'll actually RESPECT that you still have your virginity. Don't feel pressured because others are having sex.
I was the last one in my group of friends to lose my virginity...and I lost it to my husband. I don't regret that for a moment!
2007-10-29 01:14:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A 21 year old virgin, is that like illegal these days? If you have masturbated and inserted finger or dildo's or use tampons then you are not a true virgin. You just have not have intercourse with anyone. Stay that way until you have a husband or as long as you like. Don't let other people run YOUR life.
2007-10-29 01:17:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is not wrong to be a virgin until 14 yrs...i cant believe u didnt have the urge to loose it much earlier. Something physically or psychologically wrong in you..consult a doctor.
2007-10-29 01:14:54 · answer #8 · answered by boyklitz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with being a virgin at your age.
I am 24 and i am waiting till marriage, lucky that my bf is the same.
Do you want to end up like your sisters?
2007-10-29 01:19:07 · answer #9 · answered by Glamourous_Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well look at it this way they got kids you dont Enjoy life go clubbing or something while they are at home taking care of the baby because they decided to throw their youth away for some pleasure.
2007-10-29 01:15:09 · answer #10 · answered by Jav 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋