Family & Relationships - 28 October 2007

What do you think?
about a 36 year old dating a 51 year old? is that wrong? and why? because of biblical belief? or personal?

what if the 51 year old has a daughter, thats 31

2007-10-28 16:01:09 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Do white guys like black girls? I dont mean the ghetto white boys who think they are so gangster but i mean the hollister wearing,skater,rocker,punk,surfer boy guys who wear flipflops!i like this guy and he's white but i dont think that they really like blakc girls cuz most of them think we're all ghetto and stuff! i see a lot of black boys going out with white girls but never the other way around.

2007-10-28 15:56:12 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how are things splitted up during divorce? in my last divorce i have lost both my cars, my house and everything that was in the house even everything that was bought before our marriage, a big chunk of my money from my account was also taken i barely survived if it wasnt due to a secret account that i held for business in another country. but how is it fair? i tried to get my wife to sign a pre-nup but she refused, i jsut wanted to get away and end the marriage. before we were married she promised to get a job but she never did and thats why we divorced we had no kids or anything. why did this happen? both us didnt have a lawyer why did this happen? how are things splitted up equally?

2007-10-28 15:56:09 · 9 answers · asked by Peter P 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i have no idea what to get my boyfriend for a present! please help me


thanks

2007-10-28 15:52:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ive been going out for 2 years...and ever since...ive been wanting sex. But he said."he wants to wait til marriage." I respect it, but i cant stop thinking about sex. I dont want to do nething that he will regret. I do want to have sex with him, but he wants to wait.

wat can i do to stop this, i just am afraid.

and i know some ppl have said"Thats weird, men usually.." not rly, i have friends whose bfs wanna wait too, and they have high sex drives.

2007-10-28 15:48:57 · 16 answers · asked by Lindsay W 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok... so I guess my friends all turned into hoochies. They been cheating... and getting busted... divorces all over the place...

My husband - I can tell - is starting to think maybe I would partake in such things since these are the women I hang with. These are girls I have known for 3 or 4 times longer than him. I dunno why they are doing what they are doing - but I have no desire to go tramping around...

He makes comments like "Oh - you want to hang out with the whore again huh?" - and "Why are all your friends sluts?"

Should I cut them off and end up friendless? It's not like I can go out and make new friends(I dont Wanna! wahhh) over-night. Me and these girls been through a lot together... since high school... even middle school.

2007-10-28 15:48:03 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I just found out that my ex-fiance of four years is getting married to a another woman because he is tired of being lonely. We broke up back in February because of trust issues. My call. The only thing that is bothering me is that he doesn't love her at all and they just started dating. Plus the fact, when they get married she will be in our kids life as well. Why does this hurt so much, even though I want him to move on?

2007-10-28 15:46:43 · 10 answers · asked by navalangel2002 2 in Marriage & Divorce

How do you get a guys attention without being a total whore/slut?Do guys like good girls, do they act all gangster but they like the nice girls?Also if you break up with your boyfriend then he asks you back out then you break up with him three days later but you still like him and want to go back out with him and you want to ask him back out again but your afraid you'll break up again, what should you do, how should i handle it?

2007-10-28 15:46:05 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have an ex bf who lives 2 hours away. He left me for someone else who was decietful to say the least. The thing is it happened while I was extremely ill, I was in the hospital. Not only that but he put me through alot mentally and I was there for him and helped alot. I was very hurt and felt very betrayed when this all happened and it has taken over a year to get over. He would not talk to me and did not want to see me. Well, he found out the hard way that the girl he was seeing is not what he thought she was. Now, I want to see him in person and talk to him. I want the closure he never had the decency to give me. At one point he told me he was sorry over the phone and said it was all uncalled for, but then he stopped contact with me altogether. I am strong enough to see him, tell him in person what I need to say and walk away. Should I go see him unexpectedly? He will not respond to my calls. Its been a few months since he last heard from me. This is not about him

2007-10-28 15:45:53 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my girlfriend and i are talking about getting married in march. i want to talk to her parents to get their blessing. when should i talk to them? a few weeks before i propose? days?

2007-10-28 15:45:30 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Ok. so I'm dating this guy. his friends told me that he say he likes me, then he doesn't like me, then he likes me, then he doesn't. but i feel the same way about him. and i always fear he's going to break up with me. and for the past 3-4 months, he's started liking skateboarding, and it's to where he's skateboarding so much on the weekends, I barely hang out with him on the weekends. what's a girl to do?

2007-10-28 15:44:44 · 21 answers · asked by tsj_bear 2 in Singles & Dating

My Mother only cares for her self. She is very selfish and money hungry. She is 69 years old and wants her children to take care of her. She has never been there for her children, never told them she loves them, only calls them for money or when she needs something. You know how hard it is to buy a Mothers Day Card. I haven't spoken to her in 2 years because she is a horrible mother. She takes but has never given. I just don't want anything to do with her. Sometimes I feel guilty feeling this way. How do you get through the pain of an awful childhood and make your Mother understand that you do not want to be used anymore?

2007-10-28 15:44:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

my husband and i have been married for almost 3 years now, and every now and then, i have to mention the fact that he is ignoring me!!!doesn't give me a hug or kiss, unless i go to him first for days at a time, but when i say something about it, he sais "i haven't" like he doesn't know!!! and for a few days after we talk, he pays attention to me, but then after that he ignores me again!!!! i hate to have to keep reminding him, that i am still here!!!i had a bad childhood and a hug a kiss means alot to me!!!! he hasn't spent any money on me in 5 months but yet he gives my daughter money all the time!!! when i said something to him about it, all he can say is well you don't want your daughter to have the kind of life you had do you?? well of course not but what does that have anything to do with him spending 10 to 20 dollars on me?? he doesn't say i love you, he likes to show me, but here lately he has not showed me!! when is it time to say enough is enough?? i could go on !!

2007-10-28 15:44:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-28 15:41:34 · 9 answers · asked by mj_alanice 2 in Singles & Dating

We were married nine years.

2007-10-28 15:41:02 · 13 answers · asked by Tabonie 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I have hooked up wit 7 girls, of those seven, I had sex with 1 of them, got head from that same girl and got head from another girl. IDK, i feel like i should have gotten with many more girls at this age??

2007-10-28 15:39:57 · 14 answers · asked by browneyes5562000 y 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-28 15:37:21 · 1 answers · asked by gmguy12 2 in Singles & Dating

What is the height difference?

2007-10-28 15:35:56 · 17 answers · asked by Peter R 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-28 15:35:08 · 4 answers · asked by imjetguer 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i know this sounds stupid but if i wanted to make an engagment more special. we are getting married next year, i think i did it to plain when i did how could i make it so it would be unique or what could i do to show my love is still pure and true to him. weve been dating for 5 years on dec 5th. we have a son and one on the way. i know i know alot of people say kids after marriage. long story short both times we planned a date i ended up getting pregnant. thi stime im still keeping the date. but i love my fiance more than anything in the world i feel like i just did the engagment to plain how would you do it...if you could do i so spontaneously...thanks for all comments

2007-10-28 15:34:21 · 4 answers · asked by miraclebaby_2006 5 in Marriage & Divorce

There is this girl I know, she always follow this guy that she likes but he already has girlfriend and she know that, and she know she caint get him that they are just friends. I was wondering is there a word that discribes the this kind of girl.

2007-10-28 15:33:12 · 46 answers · asked by Jose 3 in Singles & Dating

kids..hes never met our baby who is 5 months old. we seperated when i was 2-3 months pregnant. we are now in the process of getting child support. we had our first court at wich he asked for a dna test on both of my kids.. :( he knows damn well theyre his kids but his gf whom he was cheating on me and was the reason we broke up. keeps telling him theyre probably not his children ...but wte im fine with doing the dna test this way he will not ever have a doubt in his mind. the deal is im terrified of him takin my children for a whole weekend. my daughters 2 yr old and my son i a baby. he hasnt seen my daughter since april and that was like for 30 min he hadnt seen her before that for about 3 months. he is a convicted felon (assault with a deadly weapon.) hes on probation ..i can prove that but how do i prove hes a chronic drug abuser and a alcoholic. he also lives 2hr. away from my town & its a diff. state. what can i do to limit these visitations and how much will a judge allow.

2007-10-28 15:32:40 · 7 answers · asked by nahdya21 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok i'm 13(almost 14) and i'm going out with this guy who is 16. I'm a goodygoody two shoes...just thought i should throw that out so no one thinks i'm some sl*t and this is my first relationship...i've been going out with this guy...(he's kinda ghetto...he's thinking about joining a gang...bad idea)...he just asked me to 'do it' with him!!...I AM SOOOOO NOT READY FOR THIS!!!! so far we've been dating for 7 months...everythings been going really slow and easy...he's never pressured me into ANYTHING...he moved really slowly...and he says he loves me and that kinda stuff and he wants to 'make love to me'....and he told me to have an answer by tomorrow.....i really don't wanna do this...i don't know how to tell him...i know he'll understand...but i know he'll be a little mad too....what do i do??!?!?!?!

2007-10-28 15:32:22 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

why does my crush blush and act weird when i see him. Why does he still do this after I see him for the first time in five months. Does he like me?

2007-10-28 15:30:17 · 10 answers · asked by sarah 1 in Singles & Dating

to women.

2007-10-28 15:29:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what do you do when somebody you used to hang out with alot is mad at you for no appearent reason, and ignores you if you try to find out why?

2007-10-28 15:28:46 · 24 answers · asked by hiwutzuppplziliketoeatpier0flmao 2 in Friends

I know there's some chemical or something in women's brains that make them emotionally attach to men after sex.
I know I've read about it.
I googled it to no avail.
it was something like chemical reaction..that a woman emotionally bonds after sex.
I think this was gender specific to women, and I don't think it happens to men.
please help!

:]

2007-10-28 15:28:05 · 4 answers · asked by cait <3 4 in Singles & Dating

I'm in college where meeting guys is usually a result of a drunken hookup. I met a guy and we've hooked up 3 times and talked online almost every day for a few weeks. The other night I told him and I liked him, and he said he liked me, except he doesn't want a relationship, so he hopes he didn't lead me on. I happen to know that he's not hooking up/ talking to anyone else. I'm not sure exactly why he wants to be single.

So should I 1) Just let things happen, and if I meet other guys go with that, or should I 2) Wait for him? Show him that I'm trustworthy and worthwhile, but at the same time give him the space he obviously wants?

2007-10-28 15:27:36 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was wondering if a girl likes a suprise kiss what do you think ?

2007-10-28 15:27:35 · 24 answers · asked by Drew 3 in Singles & Dating

we have a 20mth old child together
he hits on me not the baby
he only hits me when hes frustrated at the world
and when i dont do what he says on his time
i am so confused
i dont have supportive family
his family are always there for me, from the mother to the cousins
i am staying with his parents because my mother want the house to herself
she dont want any children there
my fathers got sent to jail because he accidentally cut my mother
and my aunts and uncles, cousins
dont keep in contact
i just started a new job
and i pray they wont give me nightshift because who's going to watch the baby overnight and take him to school in the morning
i just want anyone, somebody to tell me the GODLY!! WAYS TO GO ABOUT THIS. IF ITS NOT GODLY, PLEASE DONT REPLY......TO ALL GOD BLESS
And most of all he wont admit he has aproblem
what should i do?

2007-10-28 15:26:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family