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Question

Do white guys like black girls? I dont mean the ghetto white boys who think they are so gangster but i mean the hollister wearing,skater,rocker,punk,surfer boy guys who wear flipflops!i like this guy and he's white but i dont think that they really like blakc girls cuz most of them think we're all ghetto and stuff! i see a lot of black boys going out with white girls but never the other way around.

Answer 1

Typically skaters just don't date thugs. The life-style conflict. Thug-culture is just a tad to laid back for the more "fast-pace" skater style. So it creates insecurities. Typcially for females-skaters you don't have much as far as activities going, well not if their dating someone who prescribes to the thug mentiality since its more atuned to getting a situaiton of leisure, relaxation, the good things in life. Which doesn't mean working hard all day, like the more "lets take it to the xtreme" you'd get from the hard2thecore varity of skaters/punks and the like. But its just a matter of the females being able to be more comfrontable in that situation, while the skater guy tends to get his pride out of the fast stuff. So just insecurities hunnie, swear most of us would of, but heck life makes us insecure enough, lol.... So of course the good old "race" card always adds a bit of "not sure she would, what s/he;d think about me because I'm ". Which has in some shape or form had a hand in some of our interactions.