Family & Relationships - 28 October 2007

I CAME FROM INDIA SINCE MY WIFE IS HERE. SHE HAS COME TO INDIA AND GET MARRIED AND BROUGHT ME HERE. SHE IS A CITIZEN OF USA. AS SOON AS I CAME HERE SHE HAS BEEN HARRASSING ME LIKE ANYTHING. SHE IS THINKING ME THAT I AM HIS SLAVE. I RESIGNED A GOOD GOVT. MANAGER JOB IN INDIA AND I CAME HERE TO JOIN MY WIFE. AS SOON AS I CAME HERE I DONT HAVE ANY MEDICAL FACILITITES. SHE IS WORKING. BEFORE MARRIAGE ONLY SHE HAS TAKEN A PRENUPTIONAL AGREEMENT FROM ME. SHE IS VERY MUCH AGGFRESSIVE TO WARDS MY EXISTENCE. HER DAUGHTER IS AN EVIDENCE FOR ALL THESE. I CAME HERE EIGHT MONTH BACK. I AM THINKING SOME TIMES TO GET SUICDE. MY WIFE HAS TWO BUILDINGS COSTS ABOUT 1.2 MILLIONS DOLLERS AND SHE GETS RENT ABOUT 8,000 DOLLERS PER MONTH AND SHE IS GETTING MORE THAN 2000 DOLLERS PER MONTH AS SALARY. I DONT WANT TO STAY WITH HER THAT SHE IS CREATING A LOT OF NUISENCE, TENSION, INSTIGATING TO GET SUICDE. I AM SO MUCH SENSITIVE. PLEASE CAN YOU HELP ME TO GIVE LEGAL OPINION ? I DONT HAVE ANY PROPERTY OR MONEY.

2007-10-28 13:44:22 · 5 answers · asked by AVINASH 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok... I like this guy and he likes me. And ever since we've met we've basically been inseparable. However he always seemed like he never wanted to make "that move" you know. So when I asked him he told me flat out that we couldn't be together because he only believes in dating to get married and we couldn't get married (hypothetically) because his religion doesn't allow him to marry outside of it or they'll basically disown him. So after he tells me this he still is really acting like he wants to be with me. Of course I'm not going to deal with the heartache of falling even more for him, so I told him that we needed to spend some time apart so I could try to get over it. So he didn't really take this well and everytime I saw him afterwards he looked heartbroken. Now he treats me so weird and it's like he trying to drive me away. He even told me that he want's to make this easier for me. What should I do? And I'm not converting because I'm grounded in the Christian faith.

2007-10-28 13:42:44 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

alright so i went on a trip during the summer and i became rly rly rly close with this girl like we spent every second together problem is she had a boyfriend back home she wanted to do everything and anything with me but stayed loyal but she was very close to doing sutff with me and we both miss eachother a lot and there is a trip reunion in about a month and a couple ppl are staying at her place but we had something for sure and i think she was very conflicted on choosing me or her BF and i dont know how to act when im there or if i should talk to her about what im thinking need some advice please help i cant figure it out (shes also a year older if that means anything) o ya and i live in toronto she lives in new york city but we talk almost everyday and shes pretty damn smart so im pretty sure she already knows how i feel but ive never rly said it how i wanted to say it any help????

2007-10-28 13:39:58 · 8 answers · asked by joe b 3 in Singles & Dating

We're friends... but not real close. She knows I'm interested, and for I while I thought she might be too, cuz she was always happy to see me and acted very 'flirty'.
Ever since she found out that I like her she's been a little more stand-offish. And I'm not asking if she likes me, cuz i know for a fact that she doesnt right now.... i want to know the best way to try to get her to like me.

A little more about the both of us...
>I play football and she's an athletic trainer. We don't have any classes together, but sit together at lunch. I've known her all throughtout high school (we're now seniors), but i never got close.... We're both fairly popular, I'm pretty sure that she's a virgin and fairly religious... and I'm fine with that becuz i am too.
She's really pretty, and might think I'm only interested becuz of her looks.

2007-10-28 13:39:53 · 5 answers · asked by d h 1 in Singles & Dating

Can someone please tell me where I can find a virgin for marriage?

I don't want to marry a non-virgin. First, because I am a virgin, and likewise want to marry a virgin girl. Second, if I married a non-virgin, I'd go through life feeling inferior, insecure, jealousy and even loathing her.

Any ideas?

2007-10-28 13:39:33 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Do you think that bright and bold shades of colors like pink, blue, and green (not all together) are inappropriate for a fall wedding?

Also, would teal and turquoise and brown work for an October wedding?

2007-10-28 13:34:05 · 17 answers · asked by *ae* 3 in Weddings

First and formost id like to say im at no way bragging. I need some advice. ast time I was with my girlfriend I slept with her and took her virginity. The problem is that my penis was so big it hurt her to have sex. It wasnt because her cherry was popped as it was popped before that in gymnastics. For the next few days she was sore down there and bled. We havent had sex in months because we are in a large distance relationship. She is going to be coming for another visit soon and im worried about this. Is it going to be fine cause I stretched her out? Or would I dont know lube help? Or is there any other suggestions? Im just worried about her cause I love her and dont want her to hurt. Thanks in advance for any advice

2007-10-28 13:33:21 · 2 answers · asked by friend_from_hell6666 2 in Singles & Dating

i have a bf but we dont see each other that much only on week ends and i lke him but dont know how long are relatoinship will last i mite dump him cause were kinda getting bored of each other i think but i need a better reason,HELP!!!!!

2007-10-28 13:31:29 · 7 answers · asked by julia_1o1_cool 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-28 13:30:05 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-28 13:29:11 · 12 answers · asked by gogogirl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

who has 2 daughters who are 4 and 6 years old? Him and the mother are divorced but hes dated 2 other since then

2007-10-28 13:27:34 · 43 answers · asked by Jessica's advice 2 in Singles & Dating

Her dad has a huge history of substance abuse which used to include week long binges on the white stuff before I met him. He currsntly drinks way too much atleast 12 to 18 Bud Ice's per evening, he says he drinks because he is miserable with me, and when i am not around he says he does not drink, I dont believe him though. He decided to cheat on me and left recently he wants to pick up our little girl and have visitation with her over nights now. i do not trust that he is capable of taking care of her. Any advice?

2007-10-28 13:25:02 · 17 answers · asked by itsjust me123 2 in Marriage & Divorce

love dating marriage confuse me.

2007-10-28 13:24:35 · 5 answers · asked by baby_rost 3 in Singles & Dating

I am a radio personality in NYC and a single mom of a 10 month old girl. I'm pretty, funny, smart and to be honest, rich, so why can't I meet a nice guy to love me and my daughter?

2007-10-28 13:21:31 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ima Propose Christmas Day But I Need A Gift For Before I Do, But Its Still Gotta Be Nice!

2007-10-28 13:20:49 · 1 answers · asked by Mucsle Manicack 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-28 13:20:18 · 5 answers · asked by morgan h 2 in Singles & Dating

he is my best friend too and he told me that he likes me he has a girlfriend now but he says that he doesnt want to ruin our friendship and my relationship with my boyfriend but i kinda feel weird about it and i tell my boyfriend everything but i dont know if i should tell him this

2007-10-28 13:17:27 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

About 3 weeks ago this guy who I didn't really know asked me to homecoming. I said yes because He was funny, cute, and nice. I went with him, and we had a good time. He asked me to be his girlfriend about 3 days later. I said yes. We dated for around 3 weeks. I found out that he has 13 felonies against him, he's on house arrest, he drinks, smokes, and gets high. THis is going to sound crazy, but I still like him even though I broke up with him for flirting with other girls. (one girl in particular) He didn't seem upset, but I think he was putting on an act so that I wouldn't know how upset he was. I was happy when I was with him. Everyone was always telling me that I could do better. I don't know what to do. I miss him so much. I saw what other people didn't see. What should I do? How can I get over him? I know I can do better, but I just don't know how to forget him.

2007-10-28 13:16:28 · 7 answers · asked by Rowgirl15 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok ladies, us guys are very insecure about a lot of things.
The main things are
1: height
2: penis size (length and girth)
So, my question is, what would you women consider the "perfcet guy" in those 3 areas ad how important are those things to you?
Also, personally, I am 5"11 ...I am 21 so I wont grow any more...guys "aim" to be over 6 feet, not that we can control any of these things, 6 inches in length and 4.25 in girth...In these areas, would you consider that normal, above or below average?
a lot of people say "put the ruler away" which will make us more sane but we are obsessed about pleasing you - our partners, guy to guy we dont care, it is about you, hence why I am asking you women and ladies out there to answer to answer this question. I am dead serious about this to, so please answer for real, in the past people give silly or moronic comments in topics such as this. So, I am looking to get inside the psyche of a woman here. Any and all answers are appreciated!!!!

2007-10-28 13:14:43 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He broke up with his girlfriend 5 weeks ago bc they were arguing over pointless things. We hooked up 2 weeks ago at a party. What bothers me is 3 weeks is very soon to get over somone you were in love with. I am sure they arnt friends and have no contact however he displays lots of photos of the two of them together on facebook. He says he hates how things ended bitterly. I asked what he liked about her and he said that he could be completely himself around her. I just fear once his anger for her is gone and if she calls to say things will change, he'll just go running to her. What do you guys think?

2007-10-28 13:14:28 · 16 answers · asked by liz 1 in Singles & Dating

I go to a prep school. When i go out with my friends somewhere guys come up and ask me for my number and stuff...but at my school...none of the guys like me...What do I do??? Is it because i'm not a skinny albino chick??
I'm 13 and the guys that usually ask for my number when my friends and I go out are like 16 or above...i don't understand how they can like me, but not guys my age from school. If i do wanna go out with a guys who's 16 or 17 everyone says they're waay to old for me!

2007-10-28 13:11:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, this girl at my job always talks to me, sits on my lap durin break sometimes. Whenever she goes out to lunch or goes upstairs to get coffee she asks me if i needed or would like anything. She doesnt talk to the other coworkers like the way she talks to me. She says that she is a serious person and takes things seriously. We text msg one another everyday, we have gone out to lunch a few times. the other day she sent me a text msg sayin that I like u alot. does this mean she likes me just as friends or possibly more than that. Im starting to liker her alot as well. What should i tell her? Should i ask her out? What do i need to do next.? thanks H

2007-10-28 13:10:55 · 6 answers · asked by tbg1982 1 in Singles & Dating

she was 4 mouths pregnent with my kid when she did it and i dont what to do she is now 7 mouths

2007-10-28 13:09:21 · 10 answers · asked by asrice3292 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If so why? If not, why not?

2007-10-28 13:09:21 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

give serious answers or I will report you

2007-10-28 13:07:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am recently separated, when I see my wife I get really upset. I don't want too I want to be excited, but I get mad and sad about our family being broken up, can anyone help me work through this?

2007-10-28 13:06:48 · 12 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

well my boyfriend thouht i sent pics to my ex boyfriend when our lil situation started.i didnt and it seems like he dont belive me.

2007-10-28 13:05:28 · 6 answers · asked by LaShar.Baybee 2 in Singles & Dating

there have been a few men they just were turning me on and i started flirting and to ma surprise they flirted back. and so this has become a habit of mine, but the sad part is that the guy im dealing with now is a friend of the family. and the worst part is that he's married. but i can't control my self around him. i'm just worried that one day i will let this go to far.

2007-10-28 13:04:11 · 32 answers · asked by iluvhim 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been married to my husband for nearly a year. He's 43 and I'm 52. He has 3 children that I have helped him take care of for over 3 years.

His job is located 2 and a half hours away from our home, in a different town. He works 12 hour shifts, so if you calculate the drive to and from work and atleast an hour for dinner or whatever, he gets less than 5 hours of sleep before each shift. Recently, he's been spending days at a time there, staying with friends and now the company he works for has given him a motel room for free. So, he's spending even less time at home.

When he does come home, he only spends time with the kids. We have not had sex in over a month. I try to touch him and he shrugs me away. He has come home with bruises and marks on his shoulders and chest.

He's been working there for a year and only started wanting to stay there in August. It feels as though he finds more and more reasons to stay there.

Is this an affair? Or is he just tired?

2007-10-28 13:01:09 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok this is what happened . I went one day to his office and she was there , That was the first time i met her, and I get mad because he never told me they are talking ....bla..bla...I just...got jealous! So he decided to never tell me they were taking. He said she is his best friend.they met since high school One day i found out they went out for lunch ( He never told me) I found out e-mails saying: I hope you have a nice day.....bla..bla..bla...nothing ( he never told me)..... She saying i had a good time yesterday, he claims they were at his office taking and that was it.....I don't know what to do. I know he loves me , but I can't trust him. I'm thinking all the time what he is doing!! who is taking with!!!!...It's my fault? He said He never told me this because I'm jealous.
thanks

2007-10-28 12:57:44 · 15 answers · asked by NELP G 3 in Marriage & Divorce