she was 4 mouths pregnent with my kid when she did it and i dont what to do she is now 7 mouths
2007-10-28 13:09:21 · 10 answers · asked by asrice3292 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
has she done it since? has she shown remorse, is she sorry. is she willing to make amends to u and regain your trust? depends alot on her attitude. it is best to try to restore the relationship, because of the coming child if u can. she needs to make u understand that she understands what she did was wrong and it hurt u terribly. make sure its true and not just some lies. has she admitted her wrong, and expressed remorse for it.
2007-10-28 13:16:18 · answer #1 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she cheated on you 4months in and 2years later your still going on about it? You either need to break up or LET IT GO. stop carrying this around with you because it will hold your relationship back. If you cant move on with her move on to someone else. If your thinking about cheating to get even either your still hurting, or immature or not in love. Do some real thinking about this and have a sit down talk with your G/f and talk about whether or not you have a future together - think the next 6 months not "growing old" you need to walk before you can run hope this helps good luck **Lori** take your celibacy crap elsewhere - he didn't ask anything about abstinence, rack off church virgin
2016-04-11 00:01:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U should leave her!
If she could cheat on you with ur baby still inside her...she could do it with anyone else at any other time!!!
I mean imagine... for a women the joy of motherhood should be everything... and yet she has gone ahead and done this... she has totally broken ur trust!
By the way...how do u know that she has cheated on you? did she say that to you or did u find out any other way?
Do the test on the baby... and leave her...
2007-10-28 13:58:30 · answer #3 · answered by Ankit Rahul 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would also suggest a paternity test. But, was it a fling? Was it serious? You have to take all that into consideration.Is she sorry? You have a lot at stake here. Many,Many relationships survive infidelity. If it was just a bad mistake and u know she really loves u I would see if you can forgive and forget.
2007-10-28 13:16:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave her, Get a paternity test when the baby is born and if it is yours pay maintenance and visit the child and take it out. And find yourself a decent woman to share your life with.
2007-10-28 13:22:21 · answer #5 · answered by bri 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure it's yours? Maybe he will get your spelling skills. Can you say DNA test?
Where is the question? You can't add a question mark at the end of a sentence and pass it off as a question. Nice try.
2007-10-28 13:13:59 · answer #6 · answered by TotallylovesTodd! 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
omg.........what a B? that's so cold and yes the only concern you should have at this time is to find out if the child she is carrying is even your child. i don't think it is your child is she's a cheating rat.
good luck to you. make sure you get a test done to see if it is your child.
2007-10-28 13:25:44 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I'd have to agree with that. Better to know, than to find out years later.
2007-10-28 13:15:09 · answer #8 · answered by bonnieboobabe 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well I guess you can forgive her and go on, and be a happy family baby will be here soon.
2007-10-28 13:15:17 · answer #9 · answered by dbrh_soto 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
paternity test
2007-10-28 13:12:35 · answer #10 · answered by cpttuttle2005 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋