About 3 weeks ago this guy who I didn't really know asked me to homecoming. I said yes because He was funny, cute, and nice. I went with him, and we had a good time. He asked me to be his girlfriend about 3 days later. I said yes. We dated for around 3 weeks. I found out that he has 13 felonies against him, he's on house arrest, he drinks, smokes, and gets high. THis is going to sound crazy, but I still like him even though I broke up with him for flirting with other girls. (one girl in particular) He didn't seem upset, but I think he was putting on an act so that I wouldn't know how upset he was. I was happy when I was with him. Everyone was always telling me that I could do better. I don't know what to do. I miss him so much. I saw what other people didn't see. What should I do? How can I get over him? I know I can do better, but I just don't know how to forget him.
2007-10-28 13:16:28 · 7 answers · asked by Rowgirl15 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The cure for an old love, is a new love.
2007-10-28 13:23:31 · answer #1 · answered by von L 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once you let that loser go you will realize he wasn't worth your time? How old are you? I'm guessing your young cause your still in high school. Any way you shouldn't be with him he obviously has no respect for you if he was flirting with other girls. Him not being upset is a sign he doesn't care sweety..I'm sorry to break it to you but you must leave him because if not you can end up hurt. You will forget him trust me i've been in this situation you will forget when you find someone better
2007-10-28 20:26:10 · answer #2 · answered by Yessy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the "bad boy" syndrome trust me if he's high and drinking he doesn't care that you left because he'll dull whatever pain he's feeling with drugs and alcohol.
You made the right decision in dumping him, he will end up bringing you down and causing you even more pain than you might be in. Why would you want to be with someone who could cause you a lot of trouble in the future, what happens if you're in a car and he's drunk and gets pulled over? or he crashes the car and you're permanently injured or he's busted for pot and you're with him, guess what you'd be an accessory and then your life is over. If he wants to ruin his life then let him but don't let him ruin yours.
You have your whole life ahead of you go out and find someone decent and not into drugs who will truly care for you. Go out with friends and enjoy yourself and tell yourself every day you made the right decision, that's how you get over him.
2007-10-28 20:23:53 · answer #3 · answered by Weimaraner Mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Babe,
u gotta let luv run its coarse and if its ment to be it will and if it isnt fate will let u know is what i usually say but if he is doing all of this stuff ur gonna have to let go and it doesnt sound crazy cuz i know how it feels mine wasnt as extreme but i wen out with him for 2 -3 yrs and he just broke my heart and started to act like a b***h and was doing crap and he is the first thing i think about when i wake up and the last when i go to the sleep to get over him try and avoid him and hang out with friends
2007-10-28 20:29:34 · answer #4 · answered by holl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do NOT date that guy, no matter what feelings you have. Plan some girls' nights and give yourself a few weeks. You'll be over him.
2007-10-28 20:20:18 · answer #5 · answered by Princess Purple 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please do not date him
i know that i dont even know you but dating someone who cheats on your and does drugs isnt a great idea!
(in my opinion it isnt)
2007-10-28 20:22:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All of the above....... :D
2007-10-29 00:13:07 · answer #7 · answered by Furious with America 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋