Family & Relationships - 28 October 2007

she says she wants to leave but always finds a reason or excuse why the time is not right or shes not ready. is she just stringing me along for support?

2007-10-28 11:59:37 · 23 answers · asked by Ryder 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Some of the papers are old like from the 90's, I know I can get rid of that. What about the stuff from 2000 up to the present?

2007-10-28 11:58:14 · 19 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family

sorry bad english, im not american.

She lives in "da hood" and everytime i walk her home, a lot of gansta start messing with me and they broke my arm a week ago. they were like 5 ****... i dont want to look like a weak man in front of her. but all her friends are gansta , you know,people with zero class. i cant get along with them... should i just bring a gun everytime i go out with her?

will you broke up with your boyfriend over that?

2007-10-28 11:56:10 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So... im 20 and i have an older girlfriend, we are madly in love :) but i know sometimes (rarely) she worries what some other people are thinking of her being with someone as young as myself.

Anyone have any HELPFUL ideas of thinks i could avoid or do to help her, its not critically a problem she loves me like no other and i share the sentiment :) but i obviously would like to make her life as easy as possible...

2007-10-28 11:54:40 · 4 answers · asked by shauny c 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-28 11:50:43 · 6 answers · asked by greenwich 4 in Marriage & Divorce

He is the biggest flirt-how can I tell her it's not me--it's him.
We use to talk all the time now she doesnt take my calls I think he told her something or she knows her doggish hubby as it for me.

2007-10-28 11:49:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I wanna make my mom and dad pissed.. cuz they make me mad.. there has to be something I can do that will look like I've won and the've lost

2007-10-28 11:48:55 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i already posted this......but go no response :(....so i post here lol .....i reallllllllllllly need the answer for this plzzzzz...........the question to this pik is.....he forgot his pin????
http://www.destination-elsewhere.co.uk/m... have tried everything even saying the phone is on.......dont need pin ....10 points to the 1st person to give me the right answer

2007-10-28 11:48:06 · 10 answers · asked by a little lost 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-28 11:47:39 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am black and hispanic. I really like this white guy trev..he's really chill and non chalant but he nevr evr looks at me! well he does sumtmz..like he'll give me a sexxy smile but...to blk and hispanic guys i always get head turns..but not with trev..also the way i approach blk&hispanics is way different with white guys, right? how do i attract this dudes attention?

2007-10-28 11:41:32 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-28 11:41:05 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, so, i'm 20, i've had sex before - i got out a 3 year relationship with a guy that i had slept with. He was pretty average in size, and, i never had any problems. He was my first, so, of course, the first time, it was a little uncomfortable. But, we broke up, and i spent about a year without sleeping with anyone. Recently, i slept with a very close friend of mine, who is bigger than my ex... at least 2 inches bigger. It was a little uncomfortable when he would push all the way in, is this just because my ex was smaller, so i am not used to that yet? or, was he pushing too far in and hitting my cervix? It wasnt uncomfortable enough to stop, but, enough to notice... I am hoping its just becasue my ex was smaller, and my friend is bigger, so i am not used to it, but, i am not sure...

2007-10-28 11:41:02 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

physically fit,inteligent,intuitive and a great guitarist musician.

2007-10-28 11:39:38 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So winter formal is comming up, and of corse I would like to have a date, but im new and im afraid that guys wont ask me because they "dont know me well enough" or something. and then if i do get asked, i dont know what i will do!
my dad is WAY protective, and im not allowed to date till im 16, and im 15.
so im afraid that the guy will be like want to pick me up, from my house and my dad would NOT be down with that...
or am i just thinking to much ahead?
what do you think?

2007-10-28 11:38:32 · 9 answers · asked by CJ 3 in Singles & Dating

My husband was in the Military for 20 years and when he retired he wanted to grow out his hair and wear a pony tail just because he can. I said fine do what you want. So he did. He isn't old he is only 46 years old and he now works as an Engineer on the railroad.
Unfortunelly it's been almost 2 years his hair still isn't long enough for a pony tail and it is just thin and stringy and unhealthy looking. And where did the neat person I was attracted to and married go? Now he wears sloppy clothes and scarfs tied around his head or hats. He never puts on aftershave. I like short hair on a Man. I do not like a mans hair falling into my face during sex.
Plus to top it off he has gained about 50 lbs.
It upsets us both (mostly hin) that sex doesn't interest me anymore. And it's not the weight as much as the unkempt look of him. Most of the time he needs to shave. Honest caring advice needed on how to address this problem.

2007-10-28 11:37:42 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend is shorter than me and my cuz said that it is not good what should I do plez help!

2007-10-28 11:37:35 · 28 answers · asked by Kissable 2 in Singles & Dating

I know it's hard to know all that's going on from the little bit of information you can put on here, but please take a moment to let me know the impression that you get.

We've been together for three years and in that time have had an up-and-down roller coaster. When it's good, it's AWESOME and when it's bad it's awful. The good times far exceed the bad and I love him very much and know he loves me.

The past couple of weeks he's been disappearing for a while, about every other day or so. He'll say he's going to the store and be gone for two hours, then tell me he ran out of gas. Right now he's been gone for an hour when he said he was going to get diapers for our son. That trip should only take 20 minutes. We got into a squabble about 10 minutes before he left, where he said he feels like I don't appreciate him. But I DO, and I let him know that all the time....

I want this to work with him, not only for the baby's sake but because I love him.

2007-10-28 11:36:27 · 9 answers · asked by Dragonfly Girl 7 in Marriage & Divorce

Is it true that 80% of women want to have sex with/date/marry only 5% of the men out there. I hope this statistic is bogus, because while i know women want high quality guys, we are still human beings and hopefully this isnt the case....

2007-10-28 11:36:23 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-28 11:34:20 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She tells me that I am going too fast when I tell her how special she is to me. I haven't said 1/1000th of what I am feeling for her. I haven't told her that I love her...yet, but I am showing her by my actions.She says I need to give her more time. Yet, she makes out with me and will kiss and cuddle for hours, sitting on my lap, laying her head on my chest and holding me close and tight. She tells ME how special I make her feel and how special I am to HER. I cannot reconcile her words with her actions. Her words tell me she is emotionally distant and cautious AND into me. Her body tells me that she is close and VERY into our relationship. We met and started dating 2 months ago and started dating exclusively 1 month ago. I have no problem taking time, but she confuses the HELL out of me. We are both 50. Maybe a woman can translate what is happening for me here. She has never married and I have been divorced for seven years. We are both committed to celibacy until marriage. Thank you.

2007-10-28 11:33:50 · 13 answers · asked by Alvin York 5 in Singles & Dating

i like a guy like that and i think he likes me!!!!!!!!!!

2007-10-28 11:31:33 · 14 answers · asked by lottie a 1 in Singles & Dating

Been going out 3 weeks. I just laughed and didn't say anything. He hasn't mentioned it since.

Do I take him seriously? Is that a weird thing to say after 3 weeks?

2007-10-28 11:31:31 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is this guy I know. I have known him for 8 years during this time we became good friends. People use to enjoy seeing up arrive at events together..we are both considered to be the life of the party. The problem is- I use to make jokes about him and he did the same to me. Well Friday he tells me he use to hate to see me coming he described these events as torture. :( I didn't mean to hurt any one. Now I am totally attracted to him. He is so sweet and kind. But, everytime I try to bring up "us" he takes me back down memory lane. The only thing we do now is eye flirt. (Stare into each others eyes) I don't want to jump into anything sexually, but I do want to know where this could lead. We go to lunch together often, but those end in hysterical arguments. Is he interested or am I stalking?

2007-10-28 11:28:36 · 11 answers · asked by lekeshia s 3 in Marriage & Divorce

UHH JUST A QUESTiON

2007-10-28 11:27:05 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-10-28 11:26:12 · 5 answers · asked by Kel Kel 5 in Friends

My wife is totally obsessed with Yahoo Mash and 360. She spends 15-20 hours a day talking to mostly guy "friends" and gets defensive if I ask her to try and balance it with family time... I honestly don't know what to do... any clues?

2007-10-28 11:25:59 · 18 answers · asked by Bob S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay I've been bestfriends with Ashley for almost 6 years. Daniel; her boyfriend have been dating for 2 years and they r long distance meaning they dont see eachother often. Im long distance with her also! She seems to have putting her boyfriend before ME! She talk to him everyday for at least 4 hours and me and her talk rarely and if so it's no more than an hour...I've deleted her off my myspace and everything.


The question is should i continue being her friend or not.
And i really would not rather talk to her about the situation..i have never put a boy in front of her!

2007-10-28 11:25:25 · 9 answers · asked by VeganChickk 1 in Friends

Okay i was at the store when this man approached me and we basically started talking for about 15 minutes. We really had a good conversation. Well after he took my number he asked me what I was doing later on and I told him I had to work. He wanted to come see me on my break but I was only working 3 hours at the school library and I wouldnt be geting a break...he then wanted me to go to the music studio with him after i got off from work...do u think his intentions were good???

2007-10-28 11:23:17 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-10-28 11:22:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anna Smiley 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

When a person says that they aren't ready to be in a relationship,

1.) ...they are really saying that they aren't ready to be in a relationship with YOU.

or

2.).\Do you believe that when a person says they aren't ready to be in a realtionship they really aren't ready to be in a relationship with ANYONE no matter how in love they are with the person.

I personally believe the first one, because when I really love someone I want to be with them, but I guess everyone is different. What's your thoughts?

2007-10-28 11:20:59 · 15 answers · asked by Tnisha 1 in Marriage & Divorce