sorry bad english, im not american.
She lives in "da hood" and everytime i walk her home, a lot of gansta start messing with me and they broke my arm a week ago. they were like 5 ****... i dont want to look like a weak man in front of her. but all her friends are gansta , you know,people with zero class. i cant get along with them... should i just bring a gun everytime i go out with her?
will you broke up with your boyfriend over that?
2007-10-28 11:56:10 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
holy hell mate. First off, the hood is a very different view of an American society, mostly stupid, low class, retards live there. Something tells me that she is living with a bunch of friends, because I can't imagine that her family members are doing that to you. I know you don't want to look weak, but maybe she doesn't love you and just enjoys watching you get humiliated. DON'T BRING A GUN when you go out with her, your just asking for more trouble and trust me, you will always be out gunned.
2007-10-28 12:02:02 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
WOWW, DUDE, LISTEN. lol, no you don't have to bring no gun. Thats 3 years of jail time. You just need to stay away from the hood cause you dont sound street like that. If your girl likes you then she should understand. Your story reminds me of a BRONX TALE.
If you like her then stay with her, but your life is important and you can't change people. And if your girl hangs with hood type people, trust me...she's hood too. Just cause you don't go over where she lives doesn't make u a punk, it makes u smart. Your life is worth more than that and u don't have to prove that to her or anyone. And if u do have to prove that to her..then the hell with her and find you a girl with less hoodism.
2007-10-28 12:03:29 · answer #2 · answered by Best Mom!! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest, you're a very good man to keep walking her home after getting your arm broken. If I were you, I would walk her to a certain point and let her walk the rest of the way since she knows them and they wouldn't hurt her. She shouldn't allow you to be put in harm's way anyway with those thugs in her neighborhood. I'm sure she understands that it's natural for you to be cautious about going in that neighborhood. If she doesn't understand, you should let her go. You don't want to end up with any more serious injuries than you'd already experienced. Take are of yourself.
2007-10-28 12:04:07 · answer #3 · answered by Cee Jay 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
lol the homies..... no do not bring a gun and stoop down to their level thats just stupid.... and tell her that ur not weak but u dont want to get messed with so much ...u really like her u just dont want to be around that and if she really likes u she will understand if not then maybe it will be better if u were just friends!
2007-10-28 12:00:09 · answer #4 · answered by Jessi Ka 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
man listen if you really like her then keep going over there but if you dont want to look weak man start training join a boxing club and workout every morning you wake up. ive been working out every morning for like 4 years getting up jogging and hitting the bag and finishing with weights. i box so i know how to defend myself. id say start working out learn how to box and if she really likes you talk to her about them and say i dont like the way they treat me and next time you go over there if they say something to you screw them ignore them but if they hit you. Then you can atleast defend yourself and
beat them to the ground. Let me say 1 more thing i dont know the full story but if they broke your arm and im not saying she didnt care but lets say she didnt care and keeps asking you to come out there then I dont think she cares that much about if you get hurt or not.
2007-10-28 16:36:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You don't have to walk her home. Don't carry a gun, you'll prolly get arrested for possesion. Break up with her only if she sides with her friends over you.
2007-10-28 12:00:48 · answer #6 · answered by supermanno4 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The best way is to talk over it with your gf. She will help you to overcome these. Don't bring gun! that would bring more drama between you and those gangsters.
2007-10-28 12:00:08 · answer #7 · answered by â?}-{annA]-[?? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all, if some of them broke your arm, that is serious ****. Report that ASAP...Oh and try to become friends with her friends. You'll be surprised at how much less they will mess with you if you have connections and such.
2007-10-28 11:59:17 · answer #8 · answered by metalmaiden666 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would not expect my boyfriend to put his safety on the line to come to my house. You got your arm broken, for heaven's sake!!!
Have her meet you in a safer place close to where she lives. If she cares about you at all, she would want to do that for your safety.
2007-10-28 12:00:00 · answer #9 · answered by nurse ratchet 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, but perhaps you both can agree to meet some place else, tell her. Nothing agianst, her but you feel for your safety and piece of mind. Then, is she does not go for that. I would find someone else.
2007-10-28 12:00:36 · answer #10 · answered by That one 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋