Family & Relationships - 28 October 2007

I did some time back and some of my friends said I was harsh on him. I have nothing against that lifestyle but I like masculine men. It's just my personal taste.

2007-10-28 22:14:15 · 23 answers · asked by Vee 3 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been married for almost 8 months now, though we just moved in together 2 months ago (he's in the military and I just relocated to be with him). We only have sex once a week now, and I feel like every night he is pressuring me for it. Honestly, the pressure makes me not want to have it even more. We have talked about it and I've told him how I feel and listened to what he's said. Sometimes he is rude to me, and makes nasty comments to me like, "I'm in a bad mood because I need to get laid!" even though we just had sex 2 nights before. What is going on? I love my husband more than anything, and I know he loves me but he acts to angry with me and it all seems to come down to sex. I don't want to just roll over and do it just to do it - that just makes me feel used and like all I'm good for is sex. What should we do?

2007-10-28 22:11:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok, im 18, and i know i know there more fish in the sea, and i know he's not the only guy on the planet, im bery aware of that... but i dont know anymore... we've only been together for 4 months... and we've broken up about 3 times. but its more then that after we had been togetehr for like a month and a half i found out i was preg by him and he took full responsiblity for it and was going to marry me, and take care of his baby any everything, when a week ago i foud out that i lost it... so he thought i was lieing about the whole thing... we've BOTH cheated on each other, both where when we hated each other (fighting) though... but its not just bad times, its just the way when im tired and he's fully awake he'll take little naps with me, and how he always reminds me of everything, and how he just seems so perfect, we seem to connect so well, i'd hate to lose that... i've never had it befor,but i just don't know if its worth it anymore... PLEASE HELP ME!!!

2007-10-28 22:05:40 · 15 answers · asked by sassydylan16 1 in Singles & Dating

I have this friend that I have known since we were first born. Her and I grew up together, her mother married my uncle. Well I try to maintain the friendship but every now and then I have to cut her off because she gets upset if I don't loan her any money. She has a man in her life and they have two kids. He is always in between jobs and she never works. They both don't have an education. I've always encouraged her to go back to school or at least work now that her children are school age but nothing. Now she won't talk to me because I wouldn't send her money through western union for her kids. How do I handle this friendship anymore? Just let it go? I know I have never gotton along with her boyfriend and I think he plays a big part in all of this, especially when he sees her and I getting close again but I can't take this behavior anymore. What do I do? Let her go and wait until she contacts me again and then start all over? Or just cut all ties forever?

2007-10-28 21:59:06 · 6 answers · asked by LC 5 in Friends

2007-10-28 21:51:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so my family fights alot and my sister moved out of the house at 17 to live with this very hard core christian family everything was fine for the first couple of months until little by little she started kicking us out of her life.now almost 2 years later my other sister has recently had a baby and the sister who movedout wasn't there the day he was born or for the baby shower. she called my best friend's cell and left a message asking to talk to her and then th next day she called my friend a liar when the message is still on my freinds phone. we had a terrible fire this week in sandiego and she didn't even bother to call us to see if we were ok or offer a place to stay. we had to stay with my friend and her family for almost a week. we would call her but she wont give us her phone number. i finally confronted her about it and i addmit it was a little rude the way i did it but ive tried being nice about the whole situation.

i need to know am i in the wrong about the situation?

2007-10-28 21:51:40 · 3 answers · asked by Lost angel of music 2 in Family

Me and my husband of 23 yrs are getting a divorce. He has been having an affair for over 6 months and chose her we have 2 girls 19,21 and i told them what happened. Now he says i polluted the kids they will not talk to him. I have tried to make this happen but the big issue is he demands respect for being there father and has never said sorry for the affair ,just that its his life and business not ours. I say trust and respect have to be earned and he has lost both with the girls pretty much told them he doesn't care if he never sees them again. This is not the man i married for sure.Should i just leave it alone?

2007-10-28 21:50:48 · 9 answers · asked by pa 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay so i am straight, and i never really had a boyfriend before, and all my friends have had tons of boyfriends & they are so comfortable around them and stuff, and right now i am talking to this one guy and i like him and he likes me but he hasnt asked me out yet, and i dont really ask guys out.. but the thing is like i dont really know how to kiss or anything & i'll probley be very shy because i just act very different around the oppisite sex. but when it comes to my friends who are girls like i'll do anything and i don't care. I mean i like boys, but everybody thinks i am a lesbeian. But i dont like girls like that. & i guess i am just shy around boys, like im not just going to throw myself at them like some girls do.. but please i need advice here!!!

2007-10-28 21:46:32 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have known this girl since the 6th grade and i liked her since the first time i started talking to her. I am currently in the 11th grade and i still have not told her my feelings for her.I am afraid to tell her cause she might no talk to me anymore but then i want to tell her before she finds someone else and decides to spend her life with them. sometimes it feels like i have fallen in love with her and im not really sure what to do. I talk to her alot and we are good friends. Someone please give me advice on what to do.

2007-10-28 21:43:56 · 3 answers · asked by HavasU King 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 18, got my GED at age 16, I attended a small medical community college and met a teacher ,whom is 26, whom was for sure interested [flirting, he asked me to be his girlfriend but only AFTER I graduate or no longer attend the same college, since it is unethical, I TOTALLY UNDERSTOOD THAT & RESPECTED IT ]..

I was known as a social butterfly, EVERYONE knew me, since I supposedly was known as the "pretty funny girl" [not in a conceited way, don't misunderstand me ! ]
well, i withdrew from the college last month [career interest changed], I gave my professor my number [ he asked for it]
on my last day, and this was on September 17, he hasn't called since.
His personality traits: shy, withdrawn, introverted

do you think he changed interest because he KNOWS i have friends that still attend the small college, and would feel uncomfortable knowing that ?!
because girls really do gossip alot nowadays, or w

2007-10-28 21:41:44 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

we know each other. but many times when we bump into each other in school, he will just switch his eyes away (look somewhere else) when he sees me coming. i realised this more than once.

i just started showing a little interest in him lately. recently, my friend made fun of me openly and embarassed me when he was around, and he knew about my feelings already.

least to my greatest fear, he didn't avoid me. instead, he seems approachable and gives a feeling like "he's alright and willing to catch my fall"..(based on some things which happen. lazy to elaborate here.)

Question is: is there likelihood that he already showed interest in me even BEFORE he knew that i like him?

2007-10-28 21:39:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-28 21:39:19 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Abuse? What did I do wrong.I'm depressed again?
Was he on his way to being abusive to me?We broke up three weeks ago. Why am I sad that he's gone?Am I paranoi
I met a man online in June 20 of this year. Everything was very pleasant in the begining.Then these things happened:
1:He made fun of a past relationship of mine that was abusive. He said "All Robert had to do was slap you around to get you to marry him!"
2:He got angry because I wanted to go home and punched his wall.He yelled at me and said"Look at what you made me do!"
3:After two months he wanted me to move away from my aunts house and move to the city he's in. We only live 30 min apart.He said that he would rent a car and help me move my things.He started looking at apartments in his city for me.
3:We were arguing and he told me that I was acting like a" f***ing c**t."
4:He came over and when he seen my aunts home he said" Gosh!How cold you live here?This place is depressing!" "Gosh! Look at your room! How depressing."
5:Another time I wanted to go home.He yelled at me all the way to the bus stop.Once we got there he started shoving my shoulder saying DONT LEAVE!!

2007-10-28 21:37:18 · 13 answers · asked by KISS ME♥*´`*•.¸★ 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm 18, got my GED at age 16, I attended a small medical community college and met a teacher ,whom is 26, whom was for sure interested [flirting, he asked me to be his girlfriend but only AFTER I graduate or no longer attend the same college, since it is unethical, I TOTALLY UNDERSTOOD THAT & RESPECTED IT ]..

I was known as a social butterfly, EVERYONE knew me, since I supposedly was known as the "pretty funny girl" [not in a conceited way, don't misunderstand me ! ]
well, i withdrew from the college last month [career interest changed], I gave my professor my number [ he asked for it]
on my last day, and this was on September 17, he hasn't called since.
His personality traits: shy, withdrawn, introverted

do you think he changed interest because he KNOWS i have friends that still attend the small college, and would feel uncomfortable knowing that ?!
because girls really do gossip alot nowadays, or what do you think about this ?

2007-10-28 21:37:02 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Give reasons briefly for your answer.

2007-10-28 21:33:35 · 14 answers · asked by sambasivan s 3 in Marriage & Divorce

how are you supposed to deal with immature jr. high boys that talk about your boobs, butt and sex all the time? do you just ignore them or tell them off?

2007-10-28 21:31:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-10-28 20:49:49 · 24 answers · asked by Voss 3 in Singles & Dating

Saturday was my homecoming, and I went with my boyfriend, and my best friend/sorta bf. We were all together from 4:30 to 1:30, and I was with my bf most of the time, the only time I wasn't, was parts of the dance. After we went to a friends house and we watched a movie and just cuddled, kissed some, but not like major. Then when me and my best friend and I left I got really sad/lonely and missed him already. I sorta forgot about it, since I was busy today(well sunday) and like an hour ago got REALLY lonely and depressed. I had no clue, and finally he signed on to AIM and we talked and he knew something was wrong. I finally told him and he said he felt the same way. Why did I feel like that...I've gone longer without seeing him, and haven't missed him that much...why?

2007-10-28 20:47:37 · 4 answers · asked by Laur 3 in Singles & Dating

honest answers only please. Don't be judgemental if you don't agree with the life style move on to another question please.

2007-10-28 20:41:25 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Was he on his way to being abusive to me?We broke up three weeks ago. Why am I sad that he's gone?Am I paranoi
I met a man online in June 20 of this year. Everything was very pleasant in the begining.Then these things happened:
1:He made fun of a past relationship of mine that was abusive. He said "All Robert had to do was slap you around to get you to marry him!"
2:He got angry because I wanted to go home and punched his wall.He yelled at me and said"Look at what you made me do!"
3:After two months he wanted me to move away from my aunts house and move to the city he's in. We only live 30 min apart.He said that he would rent a car and help me move my things.He started looking at apartments in his city for me.
3:We were arguing and he told me that I was acting like a" f***ing c**t."
4:He came over and when he seen my aunts home he said" Gosh!How cold you live here?This place is depressing!" "Gosh! Look at your room! How depressing."
5:Another time I wanted to go home.He yelled at me all the way to the bus stop.Once we got there he started shoving my shoulder saying DONT LEAVE!!

2007-10-28 20:33:54 · 7 answers · asked by KISS ME♥*´`*•.¸★ 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have this friend. I met him in my first year at school and we have been friends since then. When I was broke he brought me dinner every day, and when I'd party too hard he'd always bring me home. We've been throught so much together. He's always been there for me but I never wanted to have a relationship because I wasn't attracted to him. Lately thought, things feel different. I'm starting to want him, and I think I'm starting to love him. What should I do?

2007-10-28 20:31:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have lost my first love and due to some unfortunate circumstances we never consummated our relationship.

Now, I am seeing another guy that I don't like as much as the first one. I am afraid I am going to sleep with him out of hurt and desperation.

I am 25, so don't give me the "wait to loose your virginity till you are older".

My ex was also good in bed (don't ask how I know this!), which this guy isn't.

I just feel very vulnerable at the moment.

What should I di?

2007-10-28 20:29:09 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

laying in her bed, in her room with her fiance in the morning if they were both nude. If you already knew they had had sex before and were getting married, but she was still living at home until they were married. Also her fiance is a really nice guy that you like, and they had been together over 3 years?

2007-10-28 20:25:37 · 16 answers · asked by Sebastian 3 in Singles & Dating

I love my husband very much. He is a very sweet, loving, loyal man. I have known about him having Asperger's since shortly after we began dating over eight years ago. While I will admit that it can be frustrating at times (due to him not always being able to read my emotions and also his lack of ambition sometimes),overall he is a terrific guy and I love being with him. A while ago, I searched online for a support group for people whose spouses had Asperger's. What I found was a group of very bitter, angry people (mainly women) who complained about how they had married "idiots" but felt trapped in their marriages because of kids and other reasons. They encouraged me to leave my husband as soon as possible before I realized what a terrible person he was. Of course I was extremely offended by this. Is there anyone in a similar situation as mine who does NOT despise their Asperger's spouse or the fact that they are affected by this disorder?

2007-10-28 20:25:30 · 3 answers · asked by sandrea91483 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend is in the army and we moved in together and he isnt showing me any affection or caring about me. I found out later he watchs porn looks at porn.. breathes porn. we stoped having sex about 1 week ago because he couldnt get it up. Im not sure if its because of me. but then i found out he goes on those websites that you interacted with women and on his profile it said he was single, Im worried about this because I cant just move out that easily. He got back from iraq about 3 weeks ago and says his feeling emotional numb and having bad dreams and flash backs. his so distant and everytime i ask questions he pulls back at me. im really worried. and he watched me cry and didnt even come to hold me. i feel like his not there when he is. he doesnt even feel like doing anything.

2007-10-28 20:24:09 · 12 answers · asked by Mimi 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-10-28 20:20:47 · 13 answers · asked by Outside~Lookin'~In 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Much of the time, when I am asked what physical features I like on a woman, I am made fun of for what I like. This is, without out a doubt, because I am attracted to heavy women. But, in truth, isn't this equivalent to mocking someone for preferring blondes? I've seen 260 lb men with thin women, so what would be so wrong with the inverse?

For the records, I would also prefer not to be made fun of for my preferences within this topic...

2007-10-28 20:18:03 · 24 answers · asked by Random G 3 in Singles & Dating

Sounds dumb, but how do you do it. Or a better question what can you/ do you say?

"Will you be my girlfriend" is just unusal.

any advice would help, thanks!

2007-10-28 20:16:50 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-28 20:11:43 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he is in good MNC company working as a s/w engg. at good package...i m in finl year of engg....after completing my BE we wnt 2 mary as soon as posible....could u plz recomend me what would be the better option????
is it necessary for me to change the religion?

2007-10-28 20:11:40 · 7 answers · asked by swini 1 in Marriage & Divorce