Was he on his way to being abusive to me?We broke up three weeks ago. Why am I sad that he's gone?Am I paranoi
I met a man online in June 20 of this year. Everything was very pleasant in the begining.Then these things happened:
1:He made fun of a past relationship of mine that was abusive. He said "All Robert had to do was slap you around to get you to marry him!"
2:He got angry because I wanted to go home and punched his wall.He yelled at me and said"Look at what you made me do!"
3:After two months he wanted me to move away from my aunts house and move to the city he's in. We only live 30 min apart.He said that he would rent a car and help me move my things.He started looking at apartments in his city for me.
3:We were arguing and he told me that I was acting like a" f***ing c**t."
4:He came over and when he seen my aunts home he said" Gosh!How cold you live here?This place is depressing!" "Gosh! Look at your room! How depressing."
5:Another time I wanted to go home.He yelled at me all the way to the bus stop.Once we got there he started shoving my shoulder saying DONT LEAVE!!
2007-10-28 20:33:54 · 7 answers · asked by KISS ME♥*´`*•.¸★ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
he's a controller abuser, and when he doesn't get his way he will belittle, attack, and make u feel unworthy. he wants u to do what he says when u don't do it he will cause u grief and humiliate u. best to get away from this kind of person unless u want a lifetime of hurts.
2007-10-29 00:03:34 · answer #1 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get away from this nut case. He will eventually hurt you. Take it from one that knows. It does not get better, it gets progressively worse. The reason why he picked you is that he thought that he could push you around like your ex did. don't let him!!! Controlling guys always pick girls they think that they can control. Calling you names, and blaming you for things that they did is very typical of a controlling person!! Get out now while you are still in one piece. Pretty soon he will have you thinking that you are so ugly, and such a stupid person that no one else would want you.
You have just jumped from the frying pan into the fire!!! Do not move in with him!!! RUN LIKE HE#L!!!!!!!
2007-10-29 03:43:07 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It was certainly not a healthy relationship and I'd have to agree it was wise to end it.
As to the paranoia, don't worry about whether or not you made the right choice- if you're not comfortable with a relationship it is always best to move on. Even if you like someone and it hurts not to have them, if a situation like yours arises, a relationship is usually a bad idea.
2007-10-29 03:46:34 · answer #3 · answered by tamaleman33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is an abusive man. Stay away from him. You cannot let men treat you like that. All the signs of an abuser are there.
2007-10-29 03:44:24 · answer #4 · answered by kim h 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like breaking up with him was a smart thing to do. If he acts like like only a few months into the relationship, imagine what he's going to be like a few years from now. Stay away from him.
2007-10-29 03:39:07 · answer #5 · answered by munkees81 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a typical ABUSE, he`s immotionaly, verbally and mentally abusing you, manupulative and trust me he knows what he is doing, He knows you very well and He knows what to do to make you fall to his trap, Girl HE IS DANGEROUS!! PLEASE get away.
2007-10-29 06:23:24 · answer #6 · answered by Tumlala 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not you this guy is abusive & has issues.
2007-10-29 03:39:40 · answer #7 · answered by Death Girl Am 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋