I did some time back and some of my friends said I was harsh on him. I have nothing against that lifestyle but I like masculine men. It's just my personal taste.
2007-10-28 22:14:15 · 23 answers · asked by Vee 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
For missusis....: he didn't tell me he was bisexual, i found out and he had no choice but to admit it. To be fair I had kind of always suspected it based on some actions and I didn't want to let him go because he was my first and we were going to be married. I hated when he got "sensitive" at times, but like I said, him being my first and all, it was hard to let go.
2007-10-28 22:31:36 · update #1
If I found out that my partner was bi-sexual I wouldn't leave him. But if I found out he was having sex with me and anybody else, well that's cheating, doesn't matter if its a man or a woman. No difference, its still cheating.
2007-10-28 22:19:33 · answer #1 · answered by Barb Outhere 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most women feel the same way and there's nothing wrong with you feeling that way Vee. It really boils down to "your" preferences and "your" wants and needs because "you" will have to deal with this guy and if the bisexual thing makes "you" feel uncomfortable, then yes "you" are right for dumping him. As a matter of fact, I have some real strong views on bisexuality myself and I will leave it at that.
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2007-10-29 05:19:12 · answer #2 · answered by Glenn Johnson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because they are bi sexual doesn't mean they must have one of each at all times as some above me imply. I am bi but i am happy in a relationship with a guy atm. As someone stated if he wasn't masculine as per your tastes why did you date him in the first place? If you love someone it shouldn't matter. And to the person who said if it was a guy yes he would but not if it was a chick...Can you say double standards?? How moronic.
2007-10-29 05:30:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think there are double standards.
For men, I think they're fine with girls who are bisexual. After all ***** rule over minds, and what guy doesn't want to have a hot threesome?
For women, yeah most of us like masculine men. Not harsh just the truth. Sorry if it hurts.
2007-10-29 05:18:07 · answer #4 · answered by callieRach 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes. I don't question that there are more deep-seated(excuse the pun!) issues involved with homosexuality than simply environment; but bisexuals don't differentiate and that to me is just greedy! They should have come forward before I had to find out the hard way, sorry...
2007-10-29 05:28:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
but surely he was masculine enough or you wouldn't have gone for him in the first place!!
This poor bloke has told you something that probably not many people know and you have judged him!
I'm happily married to my husband and if he turned around tomorrow and told me that he was bisexual i wouldn't be bothered!
I have lots of friends gay, straight, Bisexual and cellibate and at the end of the day their sexual preferences dont determine who they are as a person!
If you love or are in love with someone does it really matter?
Maybe your relationship wasn't meant to be anyway!
Good luck in the future hunny xxx
2007-10-29 05:22:38 · answer #6 · answered by missusisk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. All the women I've been involved with had bisexual tendencies. There was never a dull moment.
2007-10-29 05:50:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if its just me he's seeing currently and there is no one else, i probably wouldn't dump him..i don't see how bisexuality can affect how i know the person..its just a sexual preference, and if he prefers me at the moment and we are in love, why dump him?but that's just me..people have varying opinions..i wouldn't say you were harsh, it probably just wasn't right and comfortable for you..
2007-10-29 05:20:30 · answer #8 · answered by crystal 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you always go with your gut. You know where you stand on your emotions. Trust them. If you like masculine men, there is no problem in that "we can't help what we like"
2007-10-29 05:19:10 · answer #9 · answered by Ms. Witaker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I would have to........I don't share....Besides I don't swing like that so it would be humiliating to find that out after years of marriage and kids!!!!!! WOW, THAT HAPPENED TO SOMEONE HERE A FEW DAYS AGO, IT WAS ALL OVER TOWN. HER HUSBAND CAME OUT... THEY ARE VERY RICH & PROMINENT PEOPLE, SHE BOOTED HIM OUT...I feel sorry for the kids now.
2007-10-29 05:16:44 · answer #10 · answered by char__c is a good cooker 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋