Much of the time, when I am asked what physical features I like on a woman, I am made fun of for what I like. This is, without out a doubt, because I am attracted to heavy women. But, in truth, isn't this equivalent to mocking someone for preferring blondes? I've seen 260 lb men with thin women, so what would be so wrong with the inverse?
For the records, I would also prefer not to be made fun of for my preferences within this topic...
2007-10-28 20:18:03 · 24 answers · asked by Random G 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Good on ya! Tell all those shallow bastards to f...off
2007-10-28 20:24:59 · answer #1 · answered by Gemini7 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being a "chubby chaser" puts you in the minority, so the majority will always rag on you. You have a preference for a physical attribute that has been vilified in this culture. The real problem is with others people perception of what you do, and not with you. Go after the heavy ones and have a good time. You will just have to deal with the idiots.
2007-10-28 20:22:59 · answer #2 · answered by Andrew 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There isn't anything wrong with you for preferring heavier women. Everyone has a certain thing that they are attracted to in the opposite sex...so what if it happens to be heavier women. Your fine. In fact I know of a few guys that say the same thing because it's more to hold onto. Don't change for anyone.
2007-10-28 20:22:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am going to assume you are young because if you were a mature male you would not care what people think.....or would you?
This guy has been having a phone relationship with this woman for years. In that time he had not met her. He did however fall in love and she for him. They decided to meet. When they did she was very pleased. Jake is tall dark and handsome...very handsome. he dates models and women who have had at least one corrective surgery whether they they had a problem or not.
Sara walked off that plane a tall LARGE woman. She didn't tell him what she looked like except that she had brown hair and eyes and that she would be wearing all white.
Jake was in love with the personality of this woman but her physical appearance was an embarrasment to him. They went to lunch. He made excuses as to why he would be renting a hotel room instead of staying at his apartment like planned.
Oh she knew what the problem was and eventually she made him discuss the issue. He had expressed for two years his warmth for the way she thought. His appreciation for her manner. She had on occassion thought about telling this man she was a large woman but why? He obviosly was interested in her as a person not as a thing.
She told him she wanted to make love to him. He refused. She told him he owed it to her. One night.
Sara and Jake just celebrated their 19th anniversary. As happy as they are I am sure they will celebrate many many more.
can you imagine the looks these two got over the years? Can you imagine that they didn't really give a damn what other people thought.........lol good for them.
I..for one...am glad he came around to his senses and remebered that it is about WHO we are as people...first.
2007-10-28 20:32:40 · answer #4 · answered by shannon b 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your bloggies and that i are on the comparable website Emile, awaken there became no might desire to berate me for 2 hours constantly calling me fats, obese, lazy *** at 15lbs obese... asking me if the flooring squeak when I stroll in the time of them, accusing me of being in denial, asking me what number bus seats are required for my 'girth' telling me im a stroke and coronary heart attack candidate (vegetarian, by no potential drink, smoke, achieved drugs, paintings out on a daily basis - and can run around the block fyi) telling me my appropriate weight is 110lbs at 5'4... you're nuts, my 11 3 hundred and sixty 5 days previous is merely approximately that and she or he's my top and intensely extra healthful - with an 11 3 hundred and sixty 5 days olds physique! irrelevant, insensitive, nasty and a stupid waste of time to be conversing for 2 hours approximately 15lbs. Pity the guy who spends all his time pointing the finger at each and every physique else... their visual attraction, flair or the different part of their make up... takes each and every variety i assume, the imperfect people like me and the appropriate ones such as you! lol there is extra suitable than one reality and that's concept. Noone makes a decision or dictates the superb a million reality to the whole international as much as you have confidence YOU DO. As I suggested, encompass your self with people who're like your self and go away each and every physique else on my very own in case you may no longer settle for and be variety. i'm a desirable (interior and out) satisfied lady and you have no appropriate to aim and interfere with my satisfied circulate via being damaging quite approximately something so stupid and faulty. Your loss and you will lose many extra with the way you behave. i myself desire which you do no longer finally end up a lonely previous guy and which you stumble on the 'skinny lady' of your desires.
2016-10-14 07:39:58 · answer #5 · answered by dotel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Finally... a man who is man enough to be himself & not be like one of the crowd. My respects to you. I've said this many times, ppl are afraid of being different cos they want to be accepted or popular. It's just such a shame when ppl are supressed that way. Good for u, whatever you choose. I really hope there's more guys like you around. Being true to yourself is the best & most confident trait in a man. Let the others be hypocrates & cowards. Honestly, these other guys who make fun of u are sooo....childish. Grow up & stop the teasing!
2007-10-28 20:29:58 · answer #6 · answered by Michelle B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is because society is fixated on magazines and video games and movies where the women all need to eat a damn cheeseburger and try not spitting it back up! I think some extra pounds are gorgeous and women dont look right without it. People are judgemental and you just need to ignore it because they're missing out on the best of lovin:)
2007-10-28 20:25:39 · answer #7 · answered by krisindeed 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LOL
Big girls need love to!
Who cares what others think though seriously.
I mock men who think Paris Hilton looks good, I think she's too boney, and a muscular man might accidentally crush her.
Personally I think Venus and Serena Williams have the ideal body shape and size, but some might argue that they're too big. But if I could look like either one of them, I wouldn't care who said what, I'd be content.
To each his own.
2007-10-28 20:28:43 · answer #8 · answered by a 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you're brave enough to live out your preference. Imagine all the people who stay in unhappy relationships because of the facade or because of the fear of being mocked.
Life is too short to let your happiness be curtailed by what other people think. Beauty is only skin deep, and with volume, you have more to love!
2007-10-28 20:27:54 · answer #9 · answered by curiousN 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, unfortunately. No one thinks for themselves anymore. What we like, what we should look like, how we are supposed to dress, are all dictated on billboards, magazines and television. This generates a sea of cookie-cut population. Perhaps that's what the government wants.
And yes, there's nothing wrong with having your own preferences. In fact, you probably have more character than those who suppress their own desires to conform with the public.
cheers
2007-10-28 20:24:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing really strange about that... Historically speaking, voluptuous women (and even far-heavier ones) have always beaten the stick insects at the desirability game.
If I were you, I'd start hanging out with different people...
2007-10-28 20:36:04 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋