Abuse? What did I do wrong.I'm depressed again?
Was he on his way to being abusive to me?We broke up three weeks ago. Why am I sad that he's gone?Am I paranoi
I met a man online in June 20 of this year. Everything was very pleasant in the begining.Then these things happened:
1:He made fun of a past relationship of mine that was abusive. He said "All Robert had to do was slap you around to get you to marry him!"
2:He got angry because I wanted to go home and punched his wall.He yelled at me and said"Look at what you made me do!"
3:After two months he wanted me to move away from my aunts house and move to the city he's in. We only live 30 min apart.He said that he would rent a car and help me move my things.He started looking at apartments in his city for me.
3:We were arguing and he told me that I was acting like a" f***ing c**t."
4:He came over and when he seen my aunts home he said" Gosh!How cold you live here?This place is depressing!" "Gosh! Look at your room! How depressing."
5:Another time I wanted to go home.He yelled at me all the way to the bus stop.Once we got there he started shoving my shoulder saying DONT LEAVE!!
2007-10-28 21:37:18 · 13 answers · asked by KISS ME♥*´`*•.¸★ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That dude was nuts!!! You should be glad you avoided extra abuse. He will probably treat the next girl the same way. Most people like that will only change if the girl actually fights back. It will either break him or make him worse. I've seen it happen many times. You should be thanking the situation and hope that the girls sees the signs.
2007-10-28 21:49:25 · answer #1 · answered by timmy boomstick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not the reason he acts like that he will always be that way. i know this because i have went through it before. just be glad you don't hav any kids with this man because it would be even harder then it is now. no good women deserves to go through that not me and not you
2007-10-28 21:44:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is an abusive and immature man you do not need. Who cares whom he is dating? Move on.
2007-10-28 21:41:37 · answer #3 · answered by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i realli think u shud stay the hell away fromt his man. he sounds like he is mentally unstable and it is NOT going to be ok in the long run.
run, girlfriend.
2007-10-28 21:41:59 · answer #4 · answered by kelleia 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if i was you i would kill that guy, WHAT A ******! get as far away from him as possible and don`t date for 2 months, that will most likely cure it.
2007-10-28 21:42:25 · answer #5 · answered by drake 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, he's abusive. warn the new girl. that's what happens when you meet crazy people online.
2007-10-28 21:40:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow he was a number 1 class A jerk! Be glad you are rid of him, and that he didn't hurt you..and DON'T look back!
2007-10-28 21:48:36 · answer #7 · answered by MC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
abuse is certainly the word it was mental and would have turned into physicall......run
2007-10-28 21:42:58 · answer #8 · answered by Psychologist In The House 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure you both like each other?
If that guy had liked you, i doubt if he would take soem on else?
Think about it buddy!!!!
2007-10-28 21:41:12 · answer #9 · answered by candy 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
FORGET ABOUT THIS GUY!!!!!
u've gotta look for sum1 better off than him!!!
2007-10-28 21:42:42 · answer #10 · answered by shaitani gyani 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋