ok so my family fights alot and my sister moved out of the house at 17 to live with this very hard core christian family everything was fine for the first couple of months until little by little she started kicking us out of her life.now almost 2 years later my other sister has recently had a baby and the sister who movedout wasn't there the day he was born or for the baby shower. she called my best friend's cell and left a message asking to talk to her and then th next day she called my friend a liar when the message is still on my freinds phone. we had a terrible fire this week in sandiego and she didn't even bother to call us to see if we were ok or offer a place to stay. we had to stay with my friend and her family for almost a week. we would call her but she wont give us her phone number. i finally confronted her about it and i addmit it was a little rude the way i did it but ive tried being nice about the whole situation.
i need to know am i in the wrong about the situation?
2007-10-28 21:51:40 · 3 answers · asked by Lost angel of music 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Something sounds wrong if she called, then said she did not. She may be in a bad situation. Have your parents tried to get in touch with her? Hopefully she is not involved in a cult.
If there is nothing wrong, then you really can't run her life. She needs to choose what to do. One day she will realize how important family is.
2007-10-28 22:04:47 · answer #1 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you were wrong to be rude to her. Why would that make her want to hang out with you or contact you? You need to try to be nicer and give her a reason to want to be around you. good luck, I hope you can patch things up.
2007-10-28 22:04:16 · answer #2 · answered by bambi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do u try to contact her previously. it is her reaction.everything will be all right. do not react to every act. enjoy life.
2007-10-28 21:57:54 · answer #3 · answered by vep 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋