I'm 18, got my GED at age 16, I attended a small medical community college and met a teacher ,whom is 26, whom was for sure interested [flirting, he asked me to be his girlfriend but only AFTER I graduate or no longer attend the same college, since it is unethical, I TOTALLY UNDERSTOOD THAT & RESPECTED IT ]..
I was known as a social butterfly, EVERYONE knew me, since I supposedly was known as the "pretty funny girl" [not in a conceited way, don't misunderstand me ! ]
well, i withdrew from the college last month [career interest changed], I gave my professor my number [ he asked for it]
on my last day, and this was on September 17, he hasn't called since.
His personality traits: shy, withdrawn, introverted
do you think he changed interest because he KNOWS i have friends that still attend the small college, and would feel uncomfortable knowing that ?!
because girls really do gossip alot nowadays, or w
2007-10-28 21:41:44 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
he always made it clear to me during our "conversations", that what we say to each other, stay with each other
he would make an uncomfortable face whenever another staff would pass by while we were talking as student to teacher, just normal student-teacher talk, and he still felt
2007-10-28 21:49:21 · update #1
I suspect that your age difference, the recent nature of your enrollment, and his job have 'conspired' to keep him off balance and uncertain what to do, or even have convinced him that it might not be a good move at this time.
If you are determined to pursue the matter, then perhaps just drop by his office, with a couple coffees and pastries or sandwiches, and chat.
2007-10-28 21:55:21 · answer #1 · answered by Larry V 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl Next Door, I think that he thought of the moral and ethical dilemma a relationship like this may cause him. Therefore he has decided to not pursue you as he had initially planned. Quiet a bit of age difference also and so maturity level and socially you'd both be at different stages of your life. Perhaps he has found another conquest at the school but I hope that he was using his thinking head when he made the decision to not become involved with a student and/or ex-student. Best of luck on your career change and trust me there are a lot of young men more close to your age that would probably be better suited for a relationship with a girl like you.
2007-10-29 04:52:10 · answer #2 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps he has found another woman to get involved with and decided to change his mind.
It is a shame.
2007-10-29 05:32:03 · answer #3 · answered by FawneMine 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
his job was on the linr=e and he wanted you out of the way maybe for the next victjm or he would have called
2007-10-29 04:48:59 · answer #4 · answered by Psychologist In The House 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋