2007-10-28 13:30:05 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you just met him and you love him??
2007-10-28 13:33:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, how can you possibly be in love with s/one that you just met?
Second, abstinence is always the best policy. As we all know though, that doesn't always happen. So, make sure you at least like the guy.... aka., go out with him more than a few times, and then if you decide that you want to sleep with him. make sure to use protection. Meaning, birth control AND condoms. At least by using both you will pretty much ensure that there won't be any unwanted pregnancies, AND that you/he won't be passing on an STD.
Don't just sleep with this guy, or any other guy just b/c they ask you to. Do it when you are ready. And if you aren't ready, and he does break up with you over not wanting to have sex with him then he doesn't deserve to be with you anyway if that is all he wants from you.
Good luck
2007-10-28 20:35:05 · answer #2 · answered by Lindsay G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are overcome with the gush of feelings which accompany the forging of a new relationship. Let him wait for a little while, say you are not ready yet. If he has the same feelings for you he will wait and respect your decision. There is no rule about when, but it has to be right for you!! Do not have sex just because you think he will go. If he does then he doesn't feel as you do. In any event do not have unprotected sex.
I am sure most blokes would not blame him for trying it on but if you are special to him then he will wait. If he won't he is not worth it.
2007-10-28 20:38:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In order to love someone you must love yourself first. Sex is a gift for married people to experience together. If having sex or not having sex means you might break up, you should move on and find a guy that truly loves you, while you learn to love yourself more.
2007-10-28 20:37:18 · answer #4 · answered by MONICA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You JUST met a guy, you love him and he wants sex. You will do what you want, but one would hope your answer is no. There's been no time to get to know each other. And no matter how what you think or how hard it is, if you have to have sex with him to keep him, he's so not worth it.
2007-10-28 20:35:25 · answer #5 · answered by Joy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have just met that guy, i don't think that's real love. Neither would that guy feels the same. this guy is just taking advantage of you because you're showing him that you like him so much. Please don't give in to this guy's intention. you'll feel more miserable if you did. Sex is a wonderful gift of God between married couples only. Reserve that gift to your future husband!
May God touch your spirit to be able to do the right thing! You have my prayers!
2007-10-28 21:06:09 · answer #6 · answered by ms. tes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't love a guy you've just met....you don't even know him. Do you actually want a guy who would break up with you because you wouldn't have sex with him? Have some respect for yourself.
2007-10-28 20:34:05 · answer #7 · answered by First Lady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl who cares ...you just barely met him and y would ur new bf want to have sex on the first day yall met that just wrong... and plus he dating u just for sex so think about it
p.s. break up with him before its too late and he doesnt love you just for you , he just love you becuz he can have sex with u thats all PERIOD and if he ask to have sex than just say no ook dont be foolish or dumb
2007-10-28 20:43:24 · answer #8 · answered by asian senorial 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex will not keep the man if anything it will make him leave faster. He is showing you what he is after, and he wont be there once he gets it. You may think you love him, but he does not love you and is only playing you for a fool. Work on your self esteem, and learn to value yourself, so you wont sell yourself so easily.
2007-10-28 20:33:20 · answer #9 · answered by ctelly22 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Don't have sex with anyone until after 'bout 3-6 months into the realtionship. Otherwise, he'll start seeing you as a booty-call.
2007-10-28 20:39:28 · answer #10 · answered by ash 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just met him....you love him.
That makes no sense. You may get to love him over time that doesn't have the conditon of having sex hanging over it.
2007-10-28 20:34:26 · answer #11 · answered by grapeshenry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋