there have been a few men they just were turning me on and i started flirting and to ma surprise they flirted back. and so this has become a habit of mine, but the sad part is that the guy im dealing with now is a friend of the family. and the worst part is that he's married. but i can't control my self around him. i'm just worried that one day i will let this go to far.
2007-10-28 13:04:11 · 32 answers · asked by iluvhim 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okay ur 12, girl u need to calm down
2007-10-28 13:09:00 · answer #1 · answered by rebelsoul 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
All right, now you shouldn't be doing that. They're already married. Also, its best if you find someone who is around your age. If your friends know about this then pretty soon, you would become the most made fun of person in the school. There are lots of consiquences. Also, why are you attracted to them in the first place? Just stop the flirting and try to act normal in front of them. And being with someone twice your age cna in fact cause problems. Find someone else. Now, you said you can't control yourself when your near them, its probably pheremones or something, just don't go near them.
2007-10-28 13:16:56 · answer #2 · answered by Wilhelm G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop it right now. Stop flirting with guys that are too old for you, especially this married guy. Both you and they deserve far better than this messy situation.
The married man is offbounds to you, completely. Surely you don't wish to help break up a marriage?
If you cannot control yourself around him then you better make sure that you no longer spend any time in his presence whether alone or with other people.
You do not have to be a hermit but definitely you need to take responsibility for your behaviour. I hope and pray that you will see the wisdom in controlling yourself and your flirting and not cause yourself and/or others any further trouble.
2007-10-28 13:15:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LISTEN TO THIS. That man that you are flirting with is using you. In the long run you are going to be the one who suffer and on top of that you are going to hurt that woman. Oh and lets not forget your parents. Do not think of yourself. Remember the choices you make don't just affect you they, affect everyone around you.
Why mess with any man twice your age? Do you like when people talk about you? People will judge you by your actions not who you are. And yes you are right ONE DAY IT WILL GO TO FAR. Are you ready for what will happen next. If not make some better choices.
2007-10-28 13:19:28 · answer #4 · answered by Rejeana L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious? Really? Because if he knows he is flirting with a 12 year old and you think that you and he are going to go "to far", he can go to prison for a long time. And I am not going to call you the victim in this game, either. you are just as-disturbingly-interested in him as you are in the other men you are flirting with. You need to talk to a counselor-AN ADULT-to get your head straight.
Really, because you do not want to be label as a s lut, whore and every other word out there.
Get help now and control that urge. SH*T, 12 year olds should not have urges OF ANY KIND!
2007-10-28 13:14:08 · answer #5 · answered by uchaboo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey i have to be honest you. You are really young to be looking for a guy pal and i wouldnt be trying to flirt with a married man because if it does end up going to far it will have some serious consequences. My advice is stick with guys that are your age level and forget about the older men because it will cause nothing but trouble and i know you dont want that and neither do i, so just take my advice and steer away because at the end you will end up getting hurt.
2007-10-28 13:12:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow!! And i thought i'd seen all of the crazy questions from you kids on here. You just need to grow up. Your're 12 years old and you should not be even thinking about flirting with anyone much less grown adult men who are married. You need some serious help!!! They aren't flirting with you they can't be. they are probably laughing because they think you are crazy in the head. What is with kids these days didn't your parents teach you anything.
2007-10-28 13:16:52 · answer #7 · answered by Ethan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok im 14 and i know thats so wrong your just sick!
And if a 24 year old or whatever is interested in you,its not because hes in love it means hes a pedophile or just a perv!
And if they are flirting you should be worried!
I was approched by a perv when i was about 11 and it still scares me now to trust people!
Be carefull thats all i can say. dont let it ruin you
2007-10-28 13:16:03 · answer #8 · answered by Parrtty =] 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A lot of girl mature faster and also like older men. About him being married well I don't think you want to destroy their marriage. Just be careful with men that age some are nice and will treat you good some are pervs. and all they will want is to have sex with you. I am and always was attracted to older men. So its ok just like I said be careful, and also if you care about that guy dont say much you know he could go to jail for being with someone underage or doing anything with you.
2007-10-28 13:12:17 · answer #9 · answered by madeinaugust82 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
first of all u are 12! those men are not flirting with you, they are just joking around with you. being like a sweet, charming, older guy. thats all it is. and if its more than that, then 1. they are perverts 2. call the cops and have them arrested, u r 12!!
2007-10-28 13:07:45 · answer #10 · answered by SeaShells09 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋