How do you get a guys attention without being a total whore/slut?Do guys like good girls, do they act all gangster but they like the nice girls?Also if you break up with your boyfriend then he asks you back out then you break up with him three days later but you still like him and want to go back out with him and you want to ask him back out again but your afraid you'll break up again, what should you do, how should i handle it?
2007-10-28 15:46:05 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Make up your friggen mind. Do you want him or not? It doesn't really matter, as you will likely have many more boyfriends before you find Mr Right. It's all part of growing up and getting to know what you really desire before you make a real commitment someday.
2007-10-28 15:49:52 · answer #1 · answered by Charles S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your first Q, obviously you don't have trouble attracting guys since you have had a Bf before, do what you did last time to gain his attention, I say whatever works for you. Cos 1 thing may work for 1 person and not the other. As for the 2nd Q, Sorry it made me laugh. If you know you will break up again why go there or if you choose to go there then be prepared you will break up again unless you sort out your problems so you don't repeat the mistakes again and again. If he's the problem then he either needs to fix himself or girl I say get yourself another gangster.
2007-10-28 15:52:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You get a guy's attention by respecting yourself and others. If you keep your energy positive and be yourself, you can't really go wrong.
Next answer: Go on with your life. Don't play the break-up game. It's not a good sign when you fear breaking up when you're not together anymore. He will still be the same guy he was yesterday. It's time to move on to the next...
2007-10-28 15:59:04 · answer #3 · answered by britters621532 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To get a guys attention:
1. Act like YOURSELF and be as confident as you can be(confidence is even possible for a shy girl like me!)
2. Wear clothes that are cute(not "slutty"), that match and compliment your skin tone and body shape. To find this out, ask or search "what clothes look good on which skin type"/"what clothes look good on which body shapes". Their are clothes that go good with EVERY skin tone and body shape. Finding the perfect clothes is awesome!
3. Find a hairstyle that suits your hair type AND your face/head shape. Some of the many face/head shapes: oval, square, round, etc.
4. If you decide to wear makeup, do not go crazy on it! Go for a natural look!
5. Eat healthy and stay fit! DO NOT starve yourself!
6. Clean your face often to clear up acne!
7. Shower daily!!!!
8. Keep your hair healthy!
9. HAVE FUN, CONFIDENCE AND BE YOURSELF!
GOOD LUCK!
2007-10-28 15:55:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to step back and stop thinking about what you want for the moment and instead think about what you need in the long run. People break up for a reason a second time around is only delaying the inevitable.
2007-10-28 15:51:51 · answer #5 · answered by Amanda G 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
want to get a guys attention talk to him, let him know you are attracted to him dont be a britney spears an dress like she does you know what that has done, you might want to have a sit down with your ex-boy friend an get things out in the open i think theres something there if you keep breaking up with him over an over, if tha tdoesnt work just be friends with him an move on , hard advice i know
2007-10-28 15:53:15 · answer #6 · answered by panthor001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All guys are different and different things trigger them off, do littel things like smile into his eyes when he stairs at you, hang around the areas that he hangs round, when you laugh laugh loud but not mentally, always smile and be nice not swear alot or act goofy - but most inportantly dress nicely and npt slutty or horey and always be your self too...its okay to be different as long as you dont bring anyone down with you...have fun!
2007-10-28 15:51:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
most guys like modest, nice girls extremely revealing clothes isn't attractive like so many people think. I would suggest being yourself and just asking him out. If you two keep breaking up like that it is just lust and not love. I would look elsewhere
2007-10-28 15:51:45 · answer #8 · answered by wditt2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on and wait for a good guy. They are out there
2007-10-28 15:48:53 · answer #9 · answered by RissaM84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all girls are fine, as long as they are beautiful and kind. Just act regualar, dont come off as somehting your not
2007-10-28 15:50:05 · answer #10 · answered by mr fugi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋