I have hooked up wit 7 girls, of those seven, I had sex with 1 of them, got head from that same girl and got head from another girl. IDK, i feel like i should have gotten with many more girls at this age??
2007-10-28 15:39:57 · 14 answers · asked by browneyes5562000 y 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like you are on pace to me..I hope your only objective isn't to "score" with girls though.
2007-10-28 15:42:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well my current boyfriend is 21 this is his experience as i know it...
Up until he was 18, he had 4 serious girlfriends, which he did most stuff with not sex, and hooked up with about another 4 or so.
When he turned 18 he lost his virginity to his girlfirned they went out for two years then she broke his heart. He only kissed 3 girls during the year he was 20.
Now he is 21 he has been with me for 3 months.
So he has had sex with 2 girls, kissed about 15, had more with about 6.
Personally i dont think it is weird, its beter to have a connection with a few then nothing with alot.
2007-10-28 15:45:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
every person is different. Giving in to the macho mystique means you would be a superficial *****le. Having a soul with any character and/or depth means you don't just bang one after another. One or 21, or 551. numbers don't matter, connecting with another human being on a large level, that's what it should be unless of course you want to be really evolved and only do it with someone you truly love, which in this day and culture that level of evolution is laughed at.
But hear this a Man named Sullivan Ballou who fought for the south during the civil war wrote his sweetheart and said if I die and never come back, I will be with you always, on a hot summer day, the soft breeze that cools your brow will be me.; the sweet song of a bird in the morning to wake you, will be me. The gentle rain that falls softy on your face, will be me.
This is what should happen before you become one with another human being
2007-10-28 15:55:33 · answer #3 · answered by magpie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To have "only" gotten with 7 girls? I would say that's quite a few. But like the person before me said, hopefully you are not with them just for the sexual benefits. Girls are people and need to be respected.
2007-10-28 15:46:24 · answer #4 · answered by cornzxo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Given that sexually transmitted diseases are running rampant in this country, despite education efforts, I'd say it's a GOOD thing that you haven't had sex with a lot of girls yet. and as far as just having girlfriends, seven is a perfectly good number for such a young man.
2007-10-28 15:51:57 · answer #5 · answered by nosleepthree 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no "should have". There is only what is right for you. If you've only had sex with one girl, then that's what was right for you. Don't worry about being abnormal. You are certainly not that. Just relax and enjoy life.
2007-10-28 15:44:41 · answer #6 · answered by Erin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha you only 20 my mom is 43 she has had about the same amount you will have many more my mom will have 1 more haha she has her eye on someone to be with for the rest of her life seriousley through dude what happaned to decentey its not about how many girls you rush through its not a race. wat about their feelings. what about love. is it relle what we think. its actually about what you think my uncle in the b/w days met mary and he met just 1 woman but because he loved her in stayed with her for the rest of his life. he you havent found the right one keep searching but it is no rush !
2007-10-28 15:44:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes sounds like enough to me. if its the same in a year or 2 you might think somethings wrong.... but I think its fine not to get with anyone. you need to want to. dont go around doing anything for the fun of it.
2007-10-28 15:43:51 · answer #8 · answered by dani 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No you're just a late bloomer. You are still young so you can still get more. Go tiger! But be careful. Like they say, "be careful of what you wish, you just might get more than you wished for".
2007-10-28 15:44:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 43 and only been with 4,consider yourself lucky
2007-10-28 15:44:57 · answer #10 · answered by jasonbatla 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋