Ok. so I'm dating this guy. his friends told me that he say he likes me, then he doesn't like me, then he likes me, then he doesn't. but i feel the same way about him. and i always fear he's going to break up with me. and for the past 3-4 months, he's started liking skateboarding, and it's to where he's skateboarding so much on the weekends, I barely hang out with him on the weekends. what's a girl to do?
2007-10-28 15:44:44 · 21 answers · asked by tsj_bear 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Move on. He's just not that into you.
2007-10-28 15:47:13 · answer #1 · answered by cyn99di 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Take some advice from an older woman (52) ... think about yourself, and do not waste all your time and energy thinking about a man that does not know how he feels about you.
Maybe he's really trying to tell you something, but you're not 'listening' carefully. By skateboarding and spending all his time devoted to this sport, he perhaps saying, 'I'm not really into you'.
Move on to someone that deserves you, and treats you better!
2007-10-28 15:54:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
i kinda have the same problem. We just broke up like and hour ago.
He always said things like "your so pretty" and "im glad ur mine" and "see that guy over there? hes jelouse of me cuz i have you"
I really liked him and was always carefull about relationships and stuff but i really really like him so i just decided to let myself like him. Then he broke up with me. Then we got back together the next day. and now we just broke up again. The point is that if you really like him, make sure to tell him and maybe go skateboarding (or at least watch him there) you can even bring a friend there with you so when hes skateboarding you can talk to your friend and while hes not you can hang out with him. YOU just have to work together. If hes not willing to spen time with you, then im sorry but hes not worth your time. Im really sad that me and my bf just broke up, but now im in the feild again and i didn't really spen time with him eaither.
Good luck!
2007-10-28 15:51:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you really like him, go watch him skate. If you guys are just growing too far apart, maybe it's time to cut your loses and move on. If sometimes you like him and sometimes you don't, then something isn't right. I've been there, it sucks, but putting up with the constant like me, like me not, is much harder to live with then being single. Be strong girl!
2007-10-28 15:51:24 · answer #4 · answered by C. 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just ask the guy how he feels about you and look at his actions to make sure he's telling you the truth. If you feel uneasy about your relationship with him, it might be time for you to move on with your life without him in it...
2007-10-28 15:48:37 · answer #5 · answered by ♥☺ bratiskim∞! ☺♥ 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Guys usually get a little distant after they feel comfortable and secure in their relationship. Just roll with the relationship until you feel too uncomfortable and then move on.
2007-10-28 15:47:55 · answer #6 · answered by RissaM84 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
He's not into you. Boys either want their toys or their sex. You want a relationship......and it isn't going to happen. Move on, there are far more interesting fish in the pond.
2007-10-28 15:49:38 · answer #7 · answered by fluffernut 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Girl you dont want no man that can like lame skatebording or any sport more than like girlfriend, besides if hes like that, then you need to find a man that wants to spend all of his time with you!
2007-10-28 15:54:36 · answer #8 · answered by cece 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
if him skateboarding all weekend bothers you.... DUMP HIM!!!!!! Find a guy that will hang out with you, not just ignore you!!!!
2007-10-28 15:48:36 · answer #9 · answered by Gabby R 1 · 2⤊ 2⤋
I say just end it with him. If he likes you on and off, then its not that serious. So, you should end it before your feelings get involved even more than they already are.
2007-10-28 15:47:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋