Ive been going out for 2 years...and ever since...ive been wanting sex. But he said."he wants to wait til marriage." I respect it, but i cant stop thinking about sex. I dont want to do nething that he will regret. I do want to have sex with him, but he wants to wait.
wat can i do to stop this, i just am afraid.
and i know some ppl have said"Thats weird, men usually.." not rly, i have friends whose bfs wanna wait too, and they have high sex drives.
2007-10-28 15:48:57 · 16 answers · asked by Lindsay W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no, im actually not unattractive.
2007-10-28 15:53:00 · update #1
No hes rly good. Im just saying its hard, i really am just always horny.
2007-10-28 15:54:55 · update #2
oh God !!
I can hardly believe !!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-10-28 15:54:47 · answer #1 · answered by more m 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's a mature young man. Often that kind of sentiment springs from a religious background; why not look to them for some help? You wouldn't be the first person to struggle with waiting!
Best of luck with everything.
2007-10-28 15:59:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have serious concerns here. It is very unusual for men to think like this. And my biggest concern if I were you, is what happens if you are not sexually compatible with him? What happens if you get married and find out that he is horrible in bed. You have just promised to live the rest of your life with this man, only to find you hate sleeping with him.
I think that marriage before sex is grossly irresponsible, and is a pathway to divorce or marital unhappiness.
2007-10-28 15:54:39 · answer #3 · answered by ZCT 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
the only thing you can do is have self-control and patience. enjoy your time with him, you don't need to have sex. a lot of relationships are grounded to sex. there can be relationships without sex.
also where are you guys now, pubicly? are in high school or college? working? another thing you can do is find something to occupy yourself with. furthermore, what are you afraid of? are you afraid of cheating on him for sex?
2007-10-30 18:08:09 · answer #4 · answered by taxman_ll 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say get yourself some really good toys. My wife LOVES the 4 different vibes we have, and uses them when I'm not around. Which I find to be very HOT!
2007-10-31 16:07:09 · answer #5 · answered by Kingler 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not a good thing. He's hiding something. If sex is going to be important to you in the marriage, then you better make sure he can satisfy you. If he can't, then find someone new.
2007-10-28 15:53:01 · answer #6 · answered by S K 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
don't pressure him into something he doesn't want to do. since you can just respect his decision then just wait. he may come around later. don't worry too much about it, because it'll just make you want it more. if you can endure the frustration long enough, you just may find the patience you need.
2007-10-28 15:54:54 · answer #7 · answered by Intuitive B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain to him that you would like to have sex before marriage.
Damn what a muppet.. I can't post constructively about this one sorry.. lol
2007-10-28 15:53:47 · answer #8 · answered by BlitzAcez 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you love him respect his wishes. If not move on to another guy who can satisfy you. It may sound blunt but that's the truth.
2007-10-28 15:53:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that is sweet. Never heard of a man that wants to wait. You're lucky to have one. I can see your frustration though. You can't make him change his morals, so I idk what to tell you really. Sounds like one of the good guys.
2007-10-28 15:54:18 · answer #10 · answered by Gohappy 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Walk around him naked for like 8 minutes, and he'll be on you.
If not, either he's gay or your hideous
2007-10-28 15:52:23 · answer #11 · answered by miniscruff 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋