I just found out that my ex-fiance of four years is getting married to a another woman because he is tired of being lonely. We broke up back in February because of trust issues. My call. The only thing that is bothering me is that he doesn't love her at all and they just started dating. Plus the fact, when they get married she will be in our kids life as well. Why does this hurt so much, even though I want him to move on?
2007-10-28 15:46:43 · 10 answers · asked by navalangel2002 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You haven't completely let go. As Dr. Phil might say you aren't "completely through with the relationship" - not meaning you want him back, just meaning that you still have feelings about (not necessarily for) him.
2007-10-28 16:22:32 · answer #1 · answered by Asked and Answered 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It hurts because YOU are not all the way over the relationship.
You can not control what he does in his life. I say show him the respect you would want from him. Above all, you will be teaching your children to show others respect even in tough situations.
2007-10-28 16:57:47 · answer #2 · answered by Hubby . 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
even if u split. you still have some feelings for him. and u want him to be happy, but u want to protect ur kids also. share ur feelings with him. tell him dose he want to marry a complete stranger because he lonley? and tell him about the kids. and w/e he decides, u can't really change, but how u decide to do with what he does.
2007-10-28 15:51:04 · answer #3 · answered by Sketch 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know it hurts and you have my sympathy. But you need to get past this. You have no say in who your ex marries and for whatever reasons he might be doing so.
You dropped him. Move on and don't look back.
2007-10-28 15:58:15 · answer #4 · answered by Richard F 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is because you are worried about the kids and really don't want the other lady to get hurt.
2007-10-28 15:50:33 · answer #5 · answered by Jafy F 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, you obviously haven't moved on. You need to. Let the past be the past. He's not for you.
2007-10-28 16:55:50 · answer #6 · answered by Sondra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its his decision, not yurs, stay out of it and hope she treats the kids right, if she doesn't kick the crap outta her
2007-10-28 15:51:24 · answer #7 · answered by REALLY? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you broke up with him, so why should you care. if you didnt want another woman in you kids life then you should have stayed with him
2007-10-28 15:51:18 · answer #8 · answered by mattdrew2002 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
it doesnt sound like you are truely over him. you want the best for him, but its hard to hear hes getting married.
2007-10-28 15:50:48 · answer #9 · answered by sweetjade210 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because u have something together...
2007-10-28 15:51:09 · answer #10 · answered by Bella 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋