I just found out the girl that I like has a boyfriend. She is very flirty with me. I don't understand her. She has a boyfriend that she likes. I REALLY like her and can't stop thinking about her.
What should I do?
2007-10-28 18:20:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Become friends with her. She obviously isnt that into her current boyfriend so hopefully they'll split up soon, then she all yours!!!!!!
2007-10-28 18:24:16 · answer #1 · answered by Cha cha 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
A lot of girls are just very flirtatious by nature. Just because she flirts with you does not necessarily mean she wants to start something. It depends on the caliber of her flirting really. If she's just giggly and sarcastic chances are that's just how she is around all guys. If she's suggesting things to you and saying a lot of dirty things then that's not really normal.
If she's just casually flirting in the normal way then it sucks, but you're going to want to back off. It hurts when someone you care for is with someone else, but you have to be supportive and not try to interfere. If you say something to her about leaving her boyfriend for you you're just going to look like a jerk and cause her a lot of confusion and emotional grief. That's not fair to put on anyone. You're not making her life any better, you're just making yourself feel better.
If her and this guy break up, go for it! But I wouldn't do anything until then.
If she's being suggestive and asking you for favors and such, no matter how much you like this girl, you probably don't want to be with her anyway. Think about it. Can you really trust a girl that gets all over every other guy when she has a boyfriend? If you were her boyfriend and she's out doing these things with other guys you're not in a healthy relationship. If she's cheated in a relationship before she will likely do it again.
2007-10-28 18:34:01 · answer #2 · answered by thats_lovely101 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on there are many other females. I noticed this lately, more females are being really flirty especially if they already have boyfriends. I think it makes them feel desirable, but I think that is just mean.
2007-10-28 18:28:30 · answer #3 · answered by Smile_cutie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave her alone and don't react on her flirtyness. If you were dating a girl, would you want her flirting with another guy and he flirt back? I don't think so!!!!!! Until she is single you need to stay away from her. Besides, now you know what kind of girl she is, if you two were to date maybe she'd do the same thing to you.
2007-10-28 18:27:52 · answer #4 · answered by Me 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well..i know this might hurt but since she has a BF you should keep a distance away from her...you dont want things to get messyright?And if she is flirty to you maybe thats just the way she is around you. dont be the one to break them ...if she does like you too let her be the one to break it off with her BF..
try to keep a distance cause its just gonna hurt you more...
2007-10-28 18:26:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should be a man and stop flirting with her. Respect the fact that she has a boyfriend...even if she doesn't respect that.
2007-10-28 18:29:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on. if she is flirty with you and has a boyfriend then she is shady and not someone you want to be with
2007-10-28 18:23:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give up man win her over. Make her choose if shes flirting with you and she has a boyfriend she obviously likes you.
2007-10-28 18:27:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
hey guy move on.
she's juz playing around and you;re probably a victim of hers.
2007-10-28 18:23:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone else.. ..
even if she breaks up with him to be with you, she'll break your heart....
2007-10-28 18:26:39 · answer #10 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋