If you had one more day..........?

Question

If you had just one more day to spend with a loved one who has passed on how would you spend it? What would you do and what would you say?

MLAW....your answer made me cry. :(

ok...all of your answers are making me cry.

Answer 1

I would spend every single second just being with him, no disagrements, just enjoying his words, his expressions,his company,his thoughts and a whole lot of huging.I would savor every second and take every mental picture i could. I would tell him how much I appreciated everything he ever did for me, and that how sorry i am for not appreciating him more. And not realizing this until after he was gone!

Answer 2

I would go fishing with my grandma and just sit by the lake allll day and talk until the the sun goes down then go toooo uhhhhhhhh a coffee shop sit down and laugh together , and just ask everything I never got to ask her when she was alive.... and just talk like there was no tomorow... nopunintended

first i would apologize for not saying goodbye or giving her a hug the last time i saw her alive New years day 2002, and prolly end up crying cuz it hurt so bad the way i left that day, hungover and grouchy and didnt give a hoot about nuttin.........................

I would ask her what she would do if she had one day left to live??? I would ask her how she was so happy allll the time which i never understood..... i would ask her how she fell in love and how she kept a bond for over fifty years strong and never once did I see them argue

i miss Her so much ... good question thank u so much.. u just actually helped me and sparked some wonderfull memories which i hadnt thot foreverrrr and for that i thank u..........

Answer 3

My Mother was only 47 years old when she died. I miss her. She was my best friend. If I could turn back time I would go back to the year 1975 so she could see my now 32 year old son when he was a baby, if I could, I would spend the day with her laughing & seeing things on the sunny side of life. Oh how we would laugh at silly things. My Mom loved life and she laughed a lot. I am 59 so I am 11 years older than she was when she died far before her time. Thank's for helping me to bring back those memoies! I feel like I just spent time with my Mom if only in my mind!

Answer 4

If i had one more day to spend with my grandmother we would do anything she wanted to do. whether it be going to a garage sale (she loved going to garage/rummage sales), out for lunch, a girls day at the salon, or just whatever, long as we could have a good time enjoying one anothers company - thats all that would matter. i enjoyed watching her make candies for christmas when i was younger. she was the best cook too. that woman could cook anything!! i love and miss her very much. i wish we had been able to spend more time together.

Answer 5

have no regrets before they left leave nothing unsaid and take each second of that day as if i was the one leaving doing, saying, giving enjoying,remembering taking in every word action and breath of the person i love so much and never let them feel alone or that this would be the last time together and that god was indeed getting an angel coming to his home.

Answer 6

good question! i would show all my love to him as Jesus loves me! but not only doing things to him but showing and expressing my love , with some behaviours and being tender !folks dont lose time if you love someone show it we never knows when the person will pass on!i ve being reading an article about a guy he lost his wife in an air crash and he was showing the things that he couldnt do anymore;;; before her death he bought some clothes to her and she forgot to give it to her and the clothes stayed; how sad!in my personal experience a person died recently in my family , he was a very difficult person , agressif ,he liked to gave orders , pround and at the end of the life he had an illness and couldt walk anymore(he even wished to commit suicide) , some people spent his money(he used to love money) .he was arrogant and God allowed him to pass by this situation . he had time to pay all the evil things he did in his life and to think about the only way to save his soul. i was in his side helping and talking about Jesus even it was very hard to me!The last day of his life a miracle happened , i talked with him and i felt something different his voice was completly changed and he was saying: merry christimas , merry christimas!(it was not christimas time). all things arrived and he couldnt scape from death this day!then think i realise that God made a miracle and saved him .by his faith and repenting from his sins he accepted Jesus and God showed me that !Only God to save someone that didnt accept him all his life and was a very difficult person with a ending illness!he scaped to go to the hell!I praise you Lord !you are wonderfull!

Answer 7

I would spend it with my dad. He was very abusive and controlling. One time in my teens he even tried something sexual with me. When I eventually left home, I promised myself that I would never have anything to do with him again. Through the years I harbored hatred in my heart for him and never forgave him for what he did. When he died, people who knew him said he repented and asked God to forgive him for what he had done. Subsequently, by giving my own life to Jesus, I have forgiven my father. I wish we had one more day together so I could tell him that I forgive him and that I love him.

Answer 8

it would be my dad he passed away 3 years ago ! and his last wish was to go camping with my mother and us 4 kids for the weekend ! but he got too bad and we couldnt do it so if i had another chance i would take him any where he would wont to go camping and enjoy the talks we had and his good cooking and riding in the boat with him and fishing with him and i would tell him that i love him very much which he knew that i told him everyday ! i miss him so much !!!

Answer 9

i would ask them there secrets the loves and dislikes stuff like that so if someone was to ask about them i could give them the right answer not a load of bull

Answer 10

It would be my papa, and I always loved hearing him talk about his live, so I would probably just sit around with him,and talk to him about his past, and I would get to tell him goodbye, cause I didn't get to tell him bye, I was at school when he died, and that's something that hurt me alot.