2007-10-28 19:21:28 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hi, I am so sorry, but you have come to a place in your life that you are going to have to make a decision that if you still love her, can you forgive her and forget this and not bring it up again. And can she keep her pants on and quit sleeping around? Will she remember that she is married if you give her a second chance? You need to talk to her, and put down the ground rules.If you can forgive her, she is a very lucky woman and had no idea what she is risking when she sleeps around. To find a man that still loves her after she cheated, is a rare thing and she should be grateful. If you can forgive her and never bring it up again, and if she can stop her cheating on you, then you have hope. If she is a loose woman, then there is no hope and you may want to leave her before she brings home some nasty STD. But get her some counseling. It sounds like she really needs it. Both of you need it, because of what you have been through, but she really needs it to find out why she cheats. Good Luck and I will pray for you.
2007-10-28 19:30:06 · answer #1 · answered by gigi 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well...well ...did it really happen ? coz this could be from a movie...or some tv show ...
this is from THE MELROSE PLACE ...when Micheal was to marry Jane ...and jean meet with Alex Baxter... and they made out a nite before micheal proposed ...and again Jane and Micheal started dating and again before there wedding Alex baxter was working with Jane on some clothing line and they almost did it and Micheal foundout on the day of their wedding and it was all a mess....
so could that be the same move you are making that its you .....well you got us ...
but if its true then ..you better walk away coz that shows they are gonna do it again and again ....Good luck Man ...coz love , love is so hard ..wish there was a simple way to have it all.....
2007-10-28 19:37:28 · answer #2 · answered by Elizabeth N 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but you'll never feel the same about her again. Better to start over with someone who will treat you well. But first take some time by yourself and find out why you put up with that horrific behavior in the first place.
Been there, it doesn't get any better. Take care.
2007-10-28 19:27:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She may love you, but by her actions it seems that she is not in love with you. To even cheat before the day she is to profess her undying love for you is the prime example. Unless you want more heartache and to be taken advantage of, I would terminate the relationship.
2007-10-28 19:40:53 · answer #4 · answered by NHK 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is something we can't control, but it takes alot more than love to get past a betrayal. u will love her still, maybe forever, but is it worth it? knowing at any time the cheating could resume. she obviously doesn't take her marriage as seriously as u do, different belief system, different morals, things we just can't control no matter how much we love the person.
2007-10-29 00:14:17 · answer #5 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not only does she cheat on you ,she disrespects you enough to ask this man to your wedding,the exact same thing happened to a friend of my husbands,he forgave her,only to find out six months later she was still continueing her affair with this man.needless to say they are now divorced.you would be naive to think this woman will remain faithful to you,give your love to someone who will return it,and respect you enough not to sleep with someone else.
2007-10-28 19:29:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why did she marry you? if she's being with this other guy? you should'nt have married her if you knew she cheated,this will go on & on,why is she doing this?and out of all respect he certainly should'nt have went to the wedding,it does not seem like your wife takes her marriage vows seriously,infact it sounds like she is'nt married to you at all.
2007-10-28 21:50:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's actually up to you.. but let me tell you, if you give her one more chance, there might be a great possibilty that she will cheat on you once again.. like she did, as you said.. just don't force yourself on someone who doesn't love you.. you'll be the one to get hurt, really.. =D
2007-10-28 19:27:48 · answer #8 · answered by .... 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
How do you love someone that is cheating on you over and over again?
2007-10-28 19:30:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG what do you need to get the picture? she does not love you dude, I don't want to be mean but you need to leave her cheating a** now.
2007-10-28 19:28:06 · answer #10 · answered by onyx1 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋