im 16 and i have been going out with my bf for over 5 months now but recently i have ben getting feelings for other guys, i hardly see him and when i do those feelings of love come back, im not sure whats going on im confused but i dont no if i should call it off or caryr on going to see if things get better?
2007-10-28 19:17:51 · 5 answers · asked by wotsmyageagain 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To sort out your feelings for your bf, start seeing him more often..... If u still feel love wen you're with him then suggest to your bf to hang out more so that you guys don drift apart. If u don feel the way u did b4, then it's time to move on!! It's not easy but the longer you wait, the more painful it'll be wen it ends!! :) Lotsa luck
2007-10-28 19:23:05 · answer #1 · answered by Tasha46 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just a guess, but at 16, I doubt that what you were feeling was real love. At that age you get caught up in infatuation. Unfortunately infatuation does not last like love does. Eventually, you lose it, and that person is no longer as attractive to you. The reason you feel close to him when you see him is that you have gotten comfortable with him. That is not love either.
It will probably be a long time before you actually experience love. It is very complicated to explain.
In short, if you feel the need to date other people, you should be honest with him. At least he will respect you for being honest.
2007-10-28 19:27:15 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's healthy for you to experience different relationships at your age. Not sexual of course, just dating. Your in training right now for when your an adult and ready for a healthy long term relationship. You need to know what all is out there and who to stay away from. Your still at the age where you are suppose to be having fun, not dedicating your heart to one person.
2007-10-28 19:31:07 · answer #3 · answered by a 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 28 years old I have went through this same **** during high school and college......dump him and play the field, there are alot of nice guys out there but you need to learn not to fall in love with just any guy
2007-10-28 19:23:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't see him often? getting feelings for other guys? sounds like you are not that into him. you can stay with him and use him or be true to your feelings and break up with him. besides there is a 99.9% chance youll break up with him sooner or later anyways so it doesnt really matter
2007-10-28 19:26:56 · answer #5 · answered by K J 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋