Family & Relationships - 23 October 2007

2007-10-23 19:18:34 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i been knowing this guy for a long time but when it comes to sex, i feel like he is using me. when we talk on the phone all he wont's is phone sex and when he comes to visit all we do is have sex. i ask him to stop doing it and he will be cool for a minute but then he will go back to doing the samething what should i do.

2007-10-23 19:17:37 · 24 answers · asked by reaonja 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband lies about everything. He lies about where he's at. He lies about who he's with. He comes home at all hours of the night. He says he's at work but he's not. He doesn't answer my calls. I've tried telling him how it makes me feel. He said he would change all of it but an hour later he's right back at it.

2007-10-23 19:11:41 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i swear i dont look like a rat but a bit like rabbit, the funny thing is dat she looks like a squirrel wat nick should i put on her?

2007-10-23 19:10:54 · 2 answers · asked by jenner r 1 in Singles & Dating

We dated for a week after coming out of a mental hospital. He was doing great there since we were medicated so we obviously were acting like normal people. We fell in love. He asked me for my phone and address. We came out together from the mental hospital. He was 3 days and I was 7 days there. He inmediately looked for me in my city since he's from another city.

The next day he called me and told me to get together and meet. I told him to meet at a Walmart closer to his hometown.

He came driving his mom's car next to his mom.
Then he got on my car and we followed his mom's car. It was an hour and half drive. Then we got there to his home. A pretty two story house. Then I let him drive my car since he was driving his mom's car which is newer than mine so I trust him.

Then we went for a trip and bought some drinks and he got really drunk. Then I was tired and I told him I wanted to sleep so
I spend the night at his house and his bedroom. Before that I let him my car since he had to

2007-10-23 19:06:24 · 4 answers · asked by Mom2aGirlandaBoy 3 in Singles & Dating

My exgirlfriend of two years now has another boyfriend. She met this guy 2wks after she and I broke up, and has been intimate with him (sexually as well) during a week in knowing this guy.....It's now been two months.

She has remained in a relationship with this guy, while creeping by to my apartment to have sex with me, tell me she loves me and etc. ( I love her and am not over her, and I know I'm a fuucking fool). She has deliberately lied to this boyfriend of hers, telling him she's going to class, when in all actuallity, she spends the day with me. The time we spend together is as if we're still together, but then she departs, and goes back home to him. I feel used afterwards. Does this make her a hoe? A whore? She sleeps with me(her ex, that she claims to love me still,) and then leaves and go back to her "boyfriend" (my replacement). In the past I've called her a slut but didnt mean it, but does her actions prove her to be. I've always suspected of her to cheat, but..

2007-10-23 19:06:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-23 19:04:52 · 26 answers · asked by Raquel 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-23 18:59:30 · 11 answers · asked by flannelpajamas1 4 in Singles & Dating

im a freshmen in highschool 14 years old, and a boy. I want to make friends and everytime i say hi, they just go like.."hello..." and like try to ignore or something. i get bad grades, i passed barely 2 classes in my freshmen year, and i just cant believe it. my gpa was 1.50 and im just..terrified. i cant believe this. my grades horrible, nobody likes being friends with me, and im plain fat and ugly. im losing all my friends i made with...and everything. Im losing everything i have. help me please

2007-10-23 18:55:27 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if one minute he is sweet and wants sex and the next he treats me like crap. Is he trying to push me away??

2007-10-23 18:50:58 · 6 answers · asked by Shiloh 1 in Singles & Dating

alright so I am 19 but in 22 years I can come back and this statement will be true. I have never had a girlfriend, barely any friends that were girls, dont even think you can call them friends cuz I have never hung out with a girl. Girls just dont like me I dont know why. I thought I was pretty normal athletic/built, smart, nice, kind,respectful, thought I looked good(girls must not though). So I am just done with girls and want to know how to just not be attracted to them anymore

2007-10-23 18:50:00 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

we have sex almost everytime we get together its mutual we have a heck of a time not doing this when we try not too.

we have not had many dates with no sex involved but we have a had a few.

2007-10-23 18:49:27 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

More specifically, I have a problem with my brother having a girlfriend. I haven't liked any of the girlfriends he's had so far, but this one bothers me the most. I think that this may be because they are talking seriously about getting married.
I don't want to lose my brother (I feel like that is happening) to a woman that, in my head, I call a whore -- because she's his girlfriend, not because she is one.
I am very close to my brother and it may even be accurate to say that I love and trust him more than anyone, even my parents. He has been there for me and I've been there for him, and bringing another person into the picture seems awful.
It is so serious that I have had thoughts of killing her, but I don't think I'd actually do it. Not really.
I'm not sure what to do. Everything that I have read says that I need to just "let it be" and "it's his life." But I just don't care; that doesn't quite cut it for me. Something needs to be said, but I haven't the courage to speak up about it.

2007-10-23 18:46:58 · 12 answers · asked by Insert_Name_Here 3 in Family

I have been married for 14 years and over the years my husband seems to annoy me all the time.Like when we sit on the lounge he hits the cushion next to me every 3 to 5 minutes.Even his laugh annoys me now,he sounds like a girl when he laughs.I can't wait till he leaves for work.When he goes to work I feel so much more relaxed and happy.

2007-10-23 18:46:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Most of us have seen those love movies, like the notebook, where true love is portrayed in such a deep way. Love filled with such passion, care and longing for that other person, where you feel like no one else in the world knows you like that person does. Love where the other person completes you in every single way. Love where even after years and years the feelings are still there and you will always love that person because you know you and they are One. Does that love even exist? Or do most people just never find it? Reltionships these days seem to be lacking all of the above that i mentioned..

2007-10-23 18:46:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm a 13-year-old girl and in my school, i'm already graduating. I just can't understand why my parents pressure me to much in my grades. they always like me to have 90-100 grades in every subject and if i got scores like 80 below, they would be disappointed and scold me even though i try to politely reason that 3/4 of my class failed. Aren't they satisfied that i passed in my test. One of my friends almost cried because of the pressure her parents were giving her. I just want some advices to how i can handle pressure and if you want to say your opinion about this, feel free.

2007-10-23 18:44:57 · 9 answers · asked by 2smiley4 3 in Family

Okay, I thought I was the only one noticing this, but now people are coming up to me and saying that she is indeed copying me. I was married last year, and her wedding is coming up this spring. At first she had her own ideas (colors, schemes, etc). But a month ago she changed everything to be just like my wedding. At first I thought well I should be flattered right, it means mine was awesome (she was one of my bridesmaids). But now I feel like she is just being competitive (she has that personality). She started just switching to use the same church and reception local, fine they were nice places. Then she used the same bakery for the cake, fine it was yummy (she picked the same flavor) But now she also changed her original ideas to be the same colors i had and the exact same flowers (to a t), so now are weddings are exactly alike, plus half of the guests (and bridal party)will be the same. I know my marriage is what is important. But I can't help but feel frustrated. Any advice?

2007-10-23 18:43:10 · 19 answers · asked by Little_Miss_Chatterbox 2 in Weddings

Is sometimes taking a vacation in fantasyland, when he returns to earth, he could come crashing down on your heart?

2007-10-23 18:42:00 · 3 answers · asked by flannelpajamas1 4 in Singles & Dating

my son is 10 months old and his father and i are still together. his dad has a 12 year old son who adores my son when his mom let's him come. since she doesn't like the fact that her ex has moved on she talks a bunch of crap. their son is fine when he's here i even take him to the park to skate and stuff like that. when he leaves i'll hear in him in messages to his father talking about my son and i!! should i give up on being nice to him or should i still try? his mom doesn't let him come when the baby and i are here and she doesn't want him to have anything to do with my son!! HELP ME PLEASE!!

2007-10-23 18:41:49 · 3 answers · asked by miss_molina 1 in Family

2007-10-23 18:41:14 · 12 answers · asked by Drumrsgirl4 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is russian, i'm iranian, we met on a biz trip in china and spent 2 good months together & talked about our future together (we decided that i move to russia to live with him & marry later on) afetr he went back to russia, he told me about his previous relationwith another girl & that he doesn't want to go back to her after he had met me, but after one week he says because he is alone there he can not decide to finish the relation with the previous girl & asked me to wait untill he decides. What should i do during this process, shall continue calling him and chatting with him as usual or stop and ask him to decide & then come back to me?

2007-10-23 18:41:05 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am that strong woman, who hangs on, will not let go, knows what I want, but can't have it. I don't know what went wrong or why he broke up with me. No communication , the harder I try, the more resistance. It was love at first sight for both of us... I can't move forward, I'm constantly thinking about him and missing every moment that we shared together. I still love him and can't move one. No one will ever be able to take his place. I feel as though I will never love another the same or with that much intensity again.

Why is it that love can be so strong, even when there is virtually no probability of ever reconciling with this person again who makes it so difficult?? My love for him is very stubborn!!!

2007-10-23 18:40:36 · 16 answers · asked by BeautifulRose 3 in Singles & Dating

I saw this girl like 3 months ago when I was working and got a really good vibe from her jsut by looking at her. I talked to her briefly until I was cock blocked by someone and then she left, for me to never see again. Afterwards I thought that I missed out on someone.

Is this the kind of vibe that people have gotten from someone they loved at first sight? I was in awe by just looking at her.

2007-10-23 18:40:17 · 2 answers · asked by MLeinart7 2 in Singles & Dating

so i have no clue when my cell phone bill will get here but my mom says that if i have long distance calling on there she's gonna ''beat the **** out of me'' and take away all my privelages (including talking to my long distance boyfriend) and i did call long distance..so much that instead of my cell phone bill being 35$(like its supposed to) its gonna be 116$ but thats also cuz they charged me 40$ for the activation fee and im so scared..idk what shes gonna do to me but i kno shes gonna hit me..please someone help..

2007-10-23 18:38:36 · 7 answers · asked by Chiquita Bonita 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-10-23 18:38:03 · 8 answers · asked by flannelpajamas1 4 in Singles & Dating

I've liked this guy since 6th grade and now three years still do, but I know i really just like what I knew him as because now he has changed. I've been trying to get over him becasue it obviously will never get anywhere
But now a days it seems everywhere I look there he is (his locker incidently is near mine) and he's in my first period. I really don't know what to do anymore.
(plus all my friends are totally sick of hearing anything i have to say about him anymore, so i can't ask them really what to do about this. any ideas? *its been killing me T_T

2007-10-23 18:35:44 · 12 answers · asked by Kanna D 2 in Singles & Dating

Does a guy ever say to a girl "I am going to love you forever" and not have any feelings for her?

INPUT from guys please! THANKS!

2007-10-23 18:34:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi, I met a childhood friend on facebook and we met up to catch up. We are 25. He has my #, but he emailed thru facebook for a 2nd date "are u free this sat? wanna meet up?" which I find impersonal. y didn't he call instead? He is not shy. Does this mean he doesn't want to get to know me over the phone but just interested in sex? So far, we have not talked bout sex. In his profile, it says looking for friends.
On our 1st date, he asked me few questions but not a lot & it didn't seem like he was trying to impress me. He was blunt about his lack of college degree and when i said everyone has diff pace in life, he said "yea right, 7 yr difference in pace." He said his last 7 yrs was partying. So I said u must've gotten it out of your system by now, but he bluntly said nope. It seemed like he didn't want me to see any good qualities in him. But if that was the case, y a 2nd date? How can i show him i'm more than a hook up? How should i reply to that email w/o sounding eager? I won't hookup

2007-10-23 18:33:10 · 17 answers · asked by S S 1 in Singles & Dating

Guys, have you ever or do you tell a girl you are in a relationship with that you love her and you didn't/don't feel any love towards her.

If so, why?

2007-10-23 18:31:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-23 18:30:55 · 5 answers · asked by bigpumpdaddy 4 in Singles & Dating