I saw this girl like 3 months ago when I was working and got a really good vibe from her jsut by looking at her. I talked to her briefly until I was cock blocked by someone and then she left, for me to never see again. Afterwards I thought that I missed out on someone.
Is this the kind of vibe that people have gotten from someone they loved at first sight? I was in awe by just looking at her.
2007-10-23 18:40:17 · 2 answers · asked by MLeinart7 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There's this whole idea that there is one perfect person who's right for you. It's not necessarily true. In the meantime, if she felt it too, she would have come back and seen you again, so I suspect it's one-sided. Further, if you're feeling lonely, it's easy to imagine a whole bright future just from a few minutes, but that's not usually the case. So, the answer is no, I don't think this is the vibe from love at first sight. I think it's attraction. Love depends on things that aren't obvious at first, like character traits such as dependability, stability, faithfullness, caring, and you don't know that about her. I would focus on developing in yourself the traits that you would seek in another person, like the ones mentioned above. Then, when that person does come around, they can see good things in you.
2007-10-23 19:00:29 · answer #1 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just strong attraction i think
2007-10-23 18:42:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋