Family & Relationships - 23 October 2007

when you still had to face the hard reality without your partner,,,but now by yourself? I cannot sleep and concentrate on my work now because i am badly heartbroken, but I must get on in my life. I wake up at 5:00 and come home 22:00. I feel depressed, but I must get on with my life... only my freedom is weekend and the commuting time where i can listen to music. Give me some inspiration.

2007-10-23 02:34:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I havent really had a boyfriend before. I was sorta with this guy but hten he broke things off. Im 16 and ive never been kissed!! All my friends have and have done more than that. I just don't know whats wrong with me.

P.S. www.myspace.com/juliz09 is my myspace link if you want to see a picture.

2007-10-23 02:34:13 · 27 answers · asked by Jewyful13 3 in Singles & Dating

Something bothers me...She continues cell phone communication with two or three men she has had past relations with on about a monthly basis. She is gemini and I know of their social preferences which she explains as maintaining friendships that was there before me. Is this ok to continue? I discontinued my female friendships thinking of them as definite distractions from the relation I am in now. What do you think? By the way, we are middle aged and not that that means anything

2007-10-23 02:33:22 · 12 answers · asked by faa_dar_f 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I can;t imagine him not being in my life, yet it was real easy for him to get id of me as if I had no feelings, no say so, no opportunity to be the mirror to his faults as well that caused the demise of our affair

2007-10-23 02:32:37 · 8 answers · asked by barbara b 1 in Singles & Dating

I met my then boyfriend when I was 19 years old and a virgin. We slept together before we got married, but were faithful to each other to the present day, which is 17 years later. I find now, at 35, that I'm having this crisis about wanting to sleep with every good looking man I come across because I'm so curious about what it would be like. I kick myself for not sowing my oats way back then, but I had no self-esteem and picked the first man that showed any interest (not that I don't love my husband and have more than a decent marriage.) Please help.

2007-10-23 02:31:45 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i really like this shy boy who stares at me alot and is giving nice comments on my hair and things i do. I'm really nice to him to like letting him copy my work when he can't figure something out. i see him everyday + have nearly every lesson with him. At first i thought he only liked me as a friend but his older brother told me he fancies me and wants me to ask him out because he is too shy to. I think i should ask him out but i'm really shy too! If i ask him what exact words shall i say to him and what shall i do if he says no. Also when abouts at school should i ask him and how do i get him on his own? please help!!!

2007-10-23 02:30:10 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-23 02:28:46 · 8 answers · asked by lincoln9057 1 in Singles & Dating

im very upset. just had a big fight with the husband. when we met things were fine. until he got "saved".
now things are just getting worse n worse cause i dont believe exactly the same as him.
well the problem right now is with halloween. i see this as a harmless holiday for kids to get free candy. and yes i know the true history of it not the distorted one some religions try to give.
well he forbid me to take the kids out trick or treating saying that they were his kids and that what i was doing meant im going to hell and he wont have his kids follow me there!!
i was livid.
he basically told me i had to believe the same as him or he didnt know what he was gonna do. i told him if he cant respect my beliefs like i respect his that there was only one other option which was to separate. i have respected him. even going to church as a family on sundays with him but i guess this is not appreciated. im very hurt and angry about this. what should i do?

2007-10-23 02:28:16 · 35 answers · asked by maylene1852 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-23 02:27:08 · 12 answers · asked by Lady M 6 in Marriage & Divorce

and what can we do to get him down on the ground? and when he is down on the ground, THEN what can we do to KEEP him down from ever getting back up?

2007-10-23 02:26:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

In general, do you prefer super sexy women or cute women? I ask because i've always been one to think that men seem to lust after women who look like they belong in a lingerie catalog but my husband insists he likes me better when i'm in a t-shirt and pony tail as opposed to when i'm all vamped up in lipstick and a figure-showing dress. i guess this insecurity stems from when i was 16 and i overheard a boyfriend telling his friends that i wasn't hot..i was really cute.

2007-10-23 02:25:08 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He's a colleguage. We have been friends and kinda flirting with each other for like 3 months. He asked me out on a date. I waited for him for 4 hours, and he didn't show up. I tried calling him. His phone was off. I called many times n sent many text messages. but after 4 hours of waiting, he sent me a text message simply saying 'sorry. i got so drunk last night n couldn't get up'. that was it. i was angry, coz it hurt my pride n dignity to get stood up by a guy. i sent him many text messages. he didnt reply even one. he switched off his phone again. Then the next day he sent me message saying 'sorry' but he gave me the same reason. what i'm angry more is that he didnt reply my messages on that day. even if he truly sincerely couldn't get up, he should have explained to me in a nice way. so u think he's just a jerk who played with my feelings or should i forgive him?

2007-10-23 02:24:51 · 8 answers · asked by rose 2 in Singles & Dating

Me and my brother don't smoke but we have to breathe in the stench of tobacco all the time. I want them to stop. Give me some tips or remedies please?

2007-10-23 02:23:43 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

im like 5ft 81/2 n i feel like a giraffe, should i love my height?
how tall r u?
considering im pakistani its a blow to me cuz paki girls are always genrally 5ft 4 i dont think ill ever find the right dude

2007-10-23 02:20:23 · 10 answers · asked by crazee gash 1 in Singles & Dating

i cant get a boyfriend. i try flirting with guys but nothing seems 2 work. wut do i do?
P.S. im 14 and ive had 1bf and it lasted 3 days.

2007-10-23 02:16:47 · 23 answers · asked by shortstuff 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-23 02:16:44 · 16 answers · asked by Nanami 3 in Singles & Dating

well ive been staying home from school alot and well i got dressedtody thinking i would be going 2 school. i had 2 be there by 8:10 it was arleady 8:00 and i live down the street (which is a long street) from my school. i stayed home again knowing i would be late for school (since im a patrol) i need 2 be there. what shud i tell my parents now ??? so they wont get mad at me?

2007-10-23 02:16:02 · 6 answers · asked by ashley<3 1 in Family

I have a friend. Me and her are close, but not too close. How do I find something much more in common with us? Rather than just which teachers we both hate. I'm thirteen.

2007-10-23 02:15:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She is very mature and seems to be regressing since my husband and I have separated. In having to work outside of the home, I have asked her to help out with laundry, vacuuming and just overall helping with odds and ends that may take her a total of an hours time. I find I cannot count on her; she tells me she will do things and doesn't. I have restricted her priveliges from TV and computer, that she loves. Now, she is being very disrespectul in the way she talks to me.

How can I get her to be more responsible, respectful and reliable? I have already offered to pay her but even that isn't working out.

2007-10-23 02:15:14 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Will a priest marry a couple if they do not want to have a "wedding," just so that it can be under God...what if they are married by a judge first?

2007-10-23 02:12:12 · 20 answers · asked by Littlesby 3 in Weddings

my husband starts getting more calls and emails at work from her. He becomes more distant to me and seems focused on other things....goes into his cave...as he calls it. Sometimes she is even able to convence him that I am crazy. I yelled at her one time three years ago for comming in the house at 6:30 in the morning and making a scene and making the children cry. I of course try to talk about it to him sometimes...not all because it is annoying....I think that after their being apart for 7 years that this should stop...she seems to have a lot of pull over him still (they have children and they were apart 3 years when I met him) why is he still feeding into this crazy behavior and letting it affect him so much. Help please.

2007-10-23 02:11:30 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

A few months ago I asked for my divorce. We are living together with my 2 children and things :) are amazing. He asked me to file for divorce ( I'm was already separated)and to move in with him, he asked me to marry him, we are talking about having a child. Things are really good and we are perfect for each other.
The problem now is this. His ex wife (he divorced 4 years ago) and his son moved move to our town and of course he wants to spend time with his son, his ex wife has lots of issues and he feels he has to be there all the time and to help with everything. And his ex wife does not want me to see his son, so once a week he sees his son, also no problem there. The thing is, whenever he takes his son home, she finds a way to make him stay there. Or she cries, or shes ill, or she has no money, or she says theres a problem with their son.
He says he feels emotionally responsable for her and needs to talk to her until his stuff is solved. Why? He says is guilty feelings.

2007-10-23 02:10:48 · 11 answers · asked by sweetiefeisty 1 in Marriage & Divorce

this cheating husband takes care for concubines but don't cater for legitimate family

2007-10-23 02:09:12 · 33 answers · asked by cheatingloverkwaku 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have to see my ex husband for 2 hours - 4 hours a month at the most as of right now since he doesn't call to visit any other times. He has supervised visits and i supervise him because the court order we had isn't working so we did a mutual agreement at mc donalds and i supervise him and bring a friend of mine.....I get so sick when i have to see him though but i do it for the kids. He has NO problem with our agreement he signed it i signed it weve been doing this for a year now...

The only thing is we didnt notify the court but I heard that you dont have to if you agreed to something. That you only go to court when you DONT AGREE on things.

2007-10-23 02:07:01 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have to see my ex husband for 2 hours - 4 hours a month at the most as of right now since he doesn't call to visit any other times. He has supervised visits and i supervise him because the court order we had isn't working so we did a mutual agreement at mc donalds and i supervise him and bring a friend of mine.....I get so sick when i have to see him though but i do it for the kids. He has NO problem with our agreement he signed it i signed it weve been doing this for a year now...

The only thing is we didnt notify the court but I heard that you dont have to if you agreed to something. That you only go to court when you DONT AGREE on things.

2007-10-23 02:06:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

so ur girl has just come back from the salon, with a new beehive hair dooo! is it a good idea to bash it like a Pinata????:-))))))))))))))))

2007-10-23 02:04:57 · 3 answers · asked by howmanyidsdoihave 1 in Singles & Dating

my mom is being really mean to me lately and i have no idea why. last night i was carving my pumpkin and she litteratly came out of her room and started yelling at me for no apparent reason...meanwhile i was on the phone with my friend from Iowa and he heard all of that, she yelled, screamed, and was downright mean to me. my lil bro was listening to HIM on my iPod so that could have triggered her to yell at me cuz she doesnt like the music that i listen to so she dont like my bro listening to it...get it im a stereotype. yea, my friend said that i could move in with him in Iowa but hes only 15 and lives by himself......but i think that if i run away she will come find me somehow and like almost kill me at that!!! i really like him but i dont know if i should go live with him or not.
p and t

2007-10-23 02:04:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I just found out that im pregnant and my fiance just went to Iraq 5 weeks ago how do i tell him he might be happy but then again he might not i know that he wanted to wait to have kids untill after we was married but accsidents happen i got pregnant the day before he left and i dont know what to do please help me!

2007-10-23 02:03:09 · 8 answers · asked by crystal 3 in Singles & Dating

Last night my friend asked me, "How do you think our friendship would be if we lived closer together?" Now we live states away, "I replied the way we act now just being as who we are, being friends. The way we always treat each other." His response was, "I think we would act like brother/sister. But we would be the life of the party by the way we act towards another. People would just come and see us."

I laughed but I don't know why he asked such a question.

I never got that from a friend before.

2007-10-23 02:02:18 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Females. you know that males master****......
almost every man

so my question is.

what is something almost all females do?


(ps doesn't have to be sexual)
just something almost all females do

2007-10-23 01:58:49 · 11 answers · asked by vim4you2 5 in Singles & Dating