Family & Relationships - 23 October 2007

my ex-wife and i divorced several months ago. we have gotton back together a couple of times and split up. i have lied to her and she has broke up with me for no reason at times she said. we are split up now since saturday because i woke up saturday and was grumpy. i have begged her back and she says no or nothing at all. i have sent roses. i love her alot. and i don't doubt her love for me. i really want her back. how can i get her back.

2007-10-23 06:12:23 · 8 answers · asked by easy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

are just huge it seems like and everyone loves to know all about them, it drives me crazy that i have to be perfect, exspeacily when you are from a crazy wealthy family that everyone hates! i'm not like them at all and i feel like i'm just a huge ***** but i'm not! what can i do...

2007-10-23 06:12:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

In serious relationship or in marriage.. During sexual intercourse do you think the boy/husband should ask for permission to finish inside .....


I think he should ask if its ok.... birth control sometime slips up...... What about if the she is not ready to be a mother...

2007-10-23 06:12:12 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been happily married now for 8 years,My husband and I have a very active sex life.The other night we were talking and my husband asked me if I would consider going to a swingers party.I have never thought about sleeping with another person since we have been married.I know he is very curious about the lifestyle,he said that if I said no that would be the end of the subject and he wouldnt ask me again.The thing is I am not sure what to do.I am a little curious about it but just dont think I could sleep with another man.And if I say no will he go behind my back.

2007-10-23 06:10:47 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-23 06:09:57 · 13 answers · asked by heyjude 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-23 06:09:28 · 21 answers · asked by juv 1 in Marriage & Divorce

they say that I at the age of 23 and a girl at the age of 18 are at the same matureity level. then why is it that girls play all these mind games on us guys? If you like a girl and she likes you why dont you just get together? Instead you play all these mind games and just end just ruining the relationship and then never getting together. The only girls that I find that are mature are 5 years older than me.

2007-10-23 06:04:38 · 24 answers · asked by Jon G 7 in Singles & Dating

That sounds like games, if you like him just start talking to him & be nice to him & if he is interested he will keep that ball rolling. What do you mean & why do you need to get him to notice? Someone please clarify. Thanks

2007-10-23 06:03:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When I was 13 and my sister was 11 my mother walked out the door and never came back. There was no explanation and a lot of hurt was caused. My dad brought me up and when I was 18 I fell pregnant I felt my mum should know so I told her and we started a relationship again. The rest of the family didn't understand why I let her back into my life and I was the only one who spoke to her. I am now 22 and recently had my daughter in hospital and my mum came. When we got out we took my daughter to burger king and my mum went crazy at me because there was ice in her coke. I seriously believe she has mental problems as she does things like this quite a lot and it's hard to tolerate her but I usually try to ignore it. This time I said I was more worried about the health of my daughter than ice in her coke and she hadn't even said she didn't want any. She stormed out again. Then she emailed me a few months later asking to see my kids so I let her come over. I was recently in hospital

2007-10-23 06:03:30 · 11 answers · asked by Jen . 3 in Family

I have been with my fiance for 2 in a half years and we got engaged this last march and we are planning to get married april next year... my parents were happy at first.. then all the sudden they changed their mind and wanted us to wait.. and now less then 6 months left to go she is wanting us to wait until 2009... just to make sure this is really what we want... and now she is telling me they wont go unless its in 2009.. and starting a whole bunch of stuff, i kind of feel like its my choice and she should stand behind me in whatever choice i make...am i wrong for feeling this way??

2007-10-23 06:00:49 · 12 answers · asked by Kaley 2 in Family

When I moved in this townhouse he was in jail so it is just me and my to kids on the lease. I am a good tenant always pay on time etc. How do I ask my landlord to add him to the lease professionally with out having any problems or having to move somewhere else? When I moved in I told them we were seperated because of his alcoholism that put him where he is at. I dont think they know he is in jail though. Help advice please?

2007-10-23 06:00:29 · 12 answers · asked by jodi d 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm doing the school version of Stars In Your Eyes and I was just saying to my music teacher I hope I dont get I sore through and not be able to do it, and this other girl goes "Well my mum will be happy because it will be one less person to have 2 listen too", I feel dead dead offended and I feel like all the confidence has been knocked out of me, this other girls doing "Stars In Your Eyes" to and I feel she just wants to ruin it for me,
please help I dont know what to do, it's only tomorrow??

2007-10-23 06:00:20 · 9 answers · asked by ωєℓѕн 4 in Friends

the method of not argue with boyfriend
the ways on to maintain relationship - stay longer with him

2007-10-23 05:59:36 · 6 answers · asked by Dark Angel VaVa 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been married for a long time when the big announcement came that he was done. Of course I wish things would have been different but he was abusive and I need to move on with my life. Not necessarily with a new man but at least past him. It hurts so much and I started out of course wanting to see him and talk to him as much as I can. He does disrespect me and plays games and still wants to control me and my life so I know I have to get over this. How can I be sure that my heart has moved on and I am REALLY ready to go on with a new great life?

2007-10-23 05:58:35 · 9 answers · asked by just me 1 in Marriage & Divorce

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2007-10-23 05:58:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she helped in the garden while my wife was watching tv. Both of us got pretty messy because it rained recently, and we both needed a shower.

I think my wife is overreacting to the dirt we tracked into the house. Your thoughts?

2007-10-23 05:57:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

To be in love at the age of 13?? Or is it just impossible?

2007-10-23 05:55:06 · 16 answers · asked by PeppermintPandora<3 4 in Singles & Dating

I'm just curious, why a lot of woman think that the father supposes to provide 100% for the kids, I always thought it’s 50/50? I see a lot of complains that " Daddy" doesn’t want to provide...But what about the "Mama" or she just the baby-factory... Everything is the man responsibility... I think it's wrong... U want it, U got it, now handle it…What are U think?

2007-10-23 05:53:05 · 16 answers · asked by Tatyana K 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-23 05:51:23 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I work the graveyard shift and my wife does not work. I am forced to work this shift though I like it. When I get home at 7 or 8 AM she almost everyday wakes me up by nagging or putting our son on me to take care of him after only 5 or 6 hours of sleep. Then she says that she doesn't get good sleep. Is what she does to me right or wrong, keeping in mind she has no logical reason to do it?

2007-10-23 05:49:58 · 22 answers · asked by Kevin M 2 in Marriage & Divorce

porch swing that she bought on Sunday. She couldn't wait for me to get home and asked her to help her put it together.

Should I swing with both of them?

:)

2007-10-23 05:49:17 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-23 05:48:45 · 14 answers · asked by Arshan 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm sure someone has asked this but I'm curious. If you are a natural blonde, ladies, does your carpet match the drapes?

2007-10-23 05:46:36 · 4 answers · asked by Blue-eyed Stranger 3 in Singles & Dating

met the girl and the guy and joked about doing it while the girl complained about what the guy wouldnt do, i admitted that i would or thought about it.

she told me if i was serious that i should present it to the guy, what should i do if the opportunity presents itself.

and i already see that jealousy is an issue for the other guy....

2007-10-23 05:44:26 · 16 answers · asked by badbitty101 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My bf and i have been together for almost 5 yrs his mother sends him nasty emails about my mother and my family..shes american/ white and shes has a very closed mind..im cambodian so with that my mother is very into her dreams meaning things blah blah my bfs mother thinks my mom is wierd because she doesnt do or think the way that my bfs mom does..she says in her emails that my mom is wierd and negleted us as kids!..yeah that really pissed me off because my bf (justin) was basically raised by his father untill he left and now shes in the picture so wtf is she talking about? what should i say to her or do about it? shes always down'ing my family..? it really upsets me

2007-10-23 05:44:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

in the beauty salon

2007-10-23 05:42:59 · 26 answers · asked by jessemaeholley 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I just started seeing this girl.. i was playing around with her and told her i would bake her a cake because she was sad. the next day she said we should bake a cake together and im kinda unsure if she was serious. tonight im gonna see her and i was gonna bake a cake myself and give to her as a surprise. is this a stupid idea?

2007-10-23 05:42:17 · 31 answers · asked by Spike 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 18 years old, and he is 27. We havnt talked about dating yet, its just a thought in my head. I really like him a lot and he seems to also like me. He is very kind, and respects me, and does not try to pull any moves on me. We have good conversation and we also connect on many levels. It is not illigal becuase i am 18 years old, but i wonder if it would be able to work out. Give me your honest opinion, i would appriciate it. Thank you.

2007-10-23 05:41:19 · 42 answers · asked by *Mizz.Kayy* 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-23 05:41:14 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a 14yr old step daughter. She lives with her father and me. Just this year she stopped talking to me. She tells her mother everything and she tells us nothing. We ask her questions like do you have a boyfriend? She say's no and walks away to call her mom and tell her all about the boy's she like. She does this so I can hear her. I feel like she does this purposly to hurt me. She has always been a good kid with straight A's and almost alway's very respectful. She is not rude to me but it hurts my feeling that she won't talk to me. She gives one word answers basically saying "I have nothing to say to you" in a very sweet voice. Does that sound strange to anyone? or is it just me overreacting? Her father and I have told her a few times she can always come to us for anything and we will do our best to help. She say's "OK" (very sweetly of course) and never talks about anything with us. What should I do.

2007-10-23 05:39:41 · 6 answers · asked by TKPBG 1 in Family