met the girl and the guy and joked about doing it while the girl complained about what the guy wouldnt do, i admitted that i would or thought about it.
she told me if i was serious that i should present it to the guy, what should i do if the opportunity presents itself.
and i already see that jealousy is an issue for the other guy....
2007-10-23 05:44:26 · 16 answers · asked by badbitty101 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
oops, forgot to mention this is a guy with this question.....
which makes this more interesting to me.....
2007-10-23 09:43:07 · update #1
hope you read the end of the question...., this should have been stated first but
this situation would be 2 men and 1 woman. not usual these days....
2007-10-23 09:50:03 · update #2
Bad idea. If there is jealousy, stay out of it. You'll get a lot more than you bargained for.
2007-10-23 05:48:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I would probably advise against it if the guy is the jealous type and cannot handle it. I think it would be fine for you guys to do it if the couple could handle it. Unfortunately that is up for them to decide. It sounds like the offer is serious, but I think she has more interest in you than possibly sharing you with her husband/bf. Maybe you two should just do something between yourselves if you want to. All three of you have to be on board and understand any and all consequences afterwards. Good luck.
2007-10-23 05:56:39 · answer #2 · answered by No one 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there is jealousy than I would not do it. I have heard of too many three-somes that ended friendships and couple. If you want to expierience a threesome there are others ways to go about it in a safe envirment without jealousy being a factor.
2007-10-23 06:12:40 · answer #3 · answered by linus1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If any jealousy is present in any one party...its a not go. Sexual play is not good at all if there are ANY negative feelings or vibes from anyone who is participating.
2007-10-23 06:10:53 · answer #4 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If they are both into it and you are willing then go for it. I have been in a threesome and it is awsome. If you are willing to be with another women then you should try this opportunity it is really alot of fun and you may want to do it more.
2007-10-23 07:12:24 · answer #5 · answered by jenniferk5683 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The jealousy issue is the deal breaker..
2007-10-23 05:55:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
dont be a fool. she wants you to bring it up... if she was serious she would discuss it with the guy first. and if there is jealousy avoid it at all costs. it won't be worth it.
2007-10-23 05:52:32 · answer #7 · answered by howie r 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you know jealousy is already going to be an "issue"...why ask for trouble ???
2007-10-23 05:49:36 · answer #8 · answered by MommaBear 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like huge trouble to me, serious or not.
2007-10-23 05:46:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
Drop it. If they BOTH want it they BOTH would be approaching you about it.
2007-10-23 08:28:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋