Family & Relationships - 23 October 2007

Do they like to play mind games with girls? Do they get their kicks off it? Or if they say they like a girl and tell her to call them, do they mean it? Or do they just want to see how often she will call him?

2007-10-23 05:39:39 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 23 years old and currently living out of the country. I just found out that where I'm living will be charging me a rent (it was contracted to be free). Most of the time, I am at my boyfriend's anyways since my room doesn't have a kitchen, i can't have guests, the bathroom facilities are in the hall etc.
I want to leave where I'm living now and move in with my boyfriend. (The rent I would be paying for my room is about equivalent to half of my boyfriend's rent). I'm afraid afraid afraid to tell my very conservative, Catholic parents. I don't want to lie to them either. I'm very responsible, never gotten into trouble, have a job, and will one day marry my boyfriend (right now it's a question of money).
Therefore, if you were my parent, would you want to know the truth even if it hurt, or would you rather still think I'm "mommy/daddy's little girl"? (If you want the truth, how would you prefer I break it to you?)

2007-10-23 05:39:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

please help me im cunfused

2007-10-23 05:38:12 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I would think that everyone in their life, especially by the age of 52 years old, would have touch themselves to completion. What you think?

2007-10-23 05:36:58 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my fiance has been trying for awhile for me to have an orgasm, it just doesnt work, does anyone have good ideas to try and have one

2007-10-23 05:36:25 · 10 answers · asked by texas_tec_chick 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Most girls claim not to be shallow when it comes to guys physical appearance. I know first hand it does happens sometimes that guys that are not attractive can get pretty girls. Anyhow, in the end most girls care more about things like if the guy is hot rather than on the inside.

2007-10-23 05:36:15 · 33 answers · asked by Trust 1 in Singles & Dating

My son is 15 and cares about absolutely nothing. He has been a manipulative charmer since he was a toddler. He simply refuses to do tasks (eg. homework) and simply takes whatever punishments given to him. We can strip his room of everything but his mattress and clothes, take away access to tv, phone, or any friends, and we can give him chores as punishment until the end of time. We have no other options other than beatings, which we of course are not going to do. I personally think he is a sociopath.

His mother and I sent him to a military boarding school for high school so they could "break" his will and make him conform. However, they find themselves having a kid who just won't do anything - give him pushups, marching in the rain, whatever. He just doesn't care.

He has been examined for depression - no. Psychiatrists have even become frustrated to where they don't even want to deal with him because he is such a headache.

Anyone else seen this? We are at our wits end

2007-10-23 05:34:41 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i was with my ex boyfriend from the time we were 12 from now and we are 17(so five years) on and off. and i did love him until he started treating me bad. we would brake up then we wouldnt talk for months but then when he feels "lonley" he calls me. but i was so in love i would get back with him. and now im just sick of it. we just recently broke up(again). ive told him how i felt. but i dont think he still under stands.

2007-10-23 05:32:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If so how does your spouse (if your married ) feel about it ?
Would you ever date them (if you were single ) ? Why or Why not ?

Would you be understanding if your spouce's best friend was a member of the opposite sex ?

2007-10-23 05:30:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

it look too tacky...

2007-10-23 05:25:34 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I'm 5'6 and apparently thats too short for most girls. Even short girls like 5'1, like 6'4 guys. That annoys me..when I see a REALLY short girl dating a REALLY tall guy. Its like haha..the girl even in these towering heels still is only up to the guys shoulder. Short girls like tall guys..tall girls like tall guys..medium height girls like tall guys..Does this mean me, and all short guys are screwed?

2007-10-23 05:24:05 · 55 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well thes 3 boys at school like me and there all friends and they have ben scence they wer so little and i do not wont them 2 fight over me but that is 2 late they alredy did and now one of them has a bloody nose and the other one has a broke arm and the other is in a lot o pain how do i make this right i do not wont to mess up there friend ship or i would like a way to put there friend ship back 2 gether i need help and all 3 of them are .Q. i do not no what to do help...................... no mean answers thanks

2007-10-23 05:22:56 · 6 answers · asked by sammy 2 in Singles & Dating

Last night she said to me while when we were watching the tele. This is what she said, She said "Listen john I love you but there is this guy I fancy. I dont want to two time you so its the end for you and me." Who is this bloke." I asked her. "Gordon" she replied. I was so upset that I cried all the way to the chip shop. When I came out there was Gordon standing at the bus stop, And guess who with him. Yer Julie. And they were both laughing at me. My question is... What shall I do??? I am so upset I am so upset.

2007-10-23 05:22:33 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

...people do what in life?...find happiness, right?...so in a relationship a person cheats to be happy....I caught my girlfriend in a compromising position, and i think that the logical thing to do is to accept the fact that she was not happy with me. Hence she cheated on me---to be happy......so is cheatng wrong?

2007-10-23 05:21:30 · 13 answers · asked by Kevin H 1 in Singles & Dating

Im having alot of trouble finding the "perfect dress". All the dresses I found that are my size are just average. They arent the dress I've always dreamt about. I dont know what to do, Ive got a little over 3 months until my wedding and still dont have a dress.

2007-10-23 05:21:12 · 21 answers · asked by bella_babe_86 3 in Weddings

how did you get over this, or accept this, and move on?

2007-10-23 05:19:17 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

when we go out we gets lots of stares and it's taking a toll on our relationship. he is thinkikg of breaking up and just being regular friends. please help! what can i say to him to make him stay with me?

2007-10-23 05:17:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

so i went to this orgy party this saturday and i had a lot of fun BUT.........my mom's best friend who's in her late 40's was there..........LOL it was so funny cause she acts all serious when she's with my mom and all that. so of course i banged her too........she's like a hot 40 something woman so that turn me on, but now what to do? should i tell my mom or just keep it on the DL?..........i saw her yesterday and she acted like she didn't want to say anything.........LOL........but she was all over me that night doing things that would make a porno star blush.

2007-10-23 05:14:22 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm divorced, have this boy and a girl, 12, both great kids. I make good money, but my life is somewhat messy, I'm involved with other women, so I'm frequently in the red. Last week I needed some cash and knew my boy had some money, so In asked him $200, said it was to buy some medicines. Since he's a sweetheart he lent me $300, all the money he had, and was very happy he could help me. Since I didn't sat when I''d pay him, he said no proble, it's with you, it's with God and gave me a big hug. But I had a different perspective and spent the money with a woman. God was mean to me and the boy found out. He got devastated, not mad or angry, but sad, disappointed. He's a very responsible student but the next day her couldn't get uo to go to school. I promised him in about 2 months I'll give him $600, promised a new ipod, a top line cell phone, but didn't work, his spirit is broken. His mom got to know and imagine what she said to me. Isn't he overreacting? what do I do now?

2007-10-23 05:12:48 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Me and my bf have been together for over 2 months and all we want to do is spend time with each other, i want see him everyday and i know that he feels the same, we haven't gone more than one day in the two months we've been together without seeing each other, is it natural for us to be like this, im started to feel like its unhealthy for us to see so much of each other??

2007-10-23 05:12:32 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How do I recognise it?

I've been going out with this guy, for nearly 2 years, but it's a part time relationship because of long distance...so, at the moment, I see he still tries to be on his "best behaviour" with me. We're not living together, yet, but he wants to in future.

So I need to know...what are the signs? What are they, exactly, because I am confused? I don't know if it's him or me.

This emotional/mind playing game thing that he does...it is subtle...for now. But how do I recognise the signs now? Before it's too late.

2007-10-23 05:11:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-10-23 05:10:13 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what wedding dress do you like best , I like both of these equall almost each has certain features i really like...

the wedding dress with the green trim would be changed to a tiffany blue
my wedding colors are tiffany blue , white and silver.

it is going to be a outside wedding in April at a 1700's southern plantation under a grove of oak trees that overlap and make a canapy with spanish moss hanging from them so I am just trying to get a general idea what you folks think of the dresses and such...

wedding dress no(1)
http://i175.photobucket.com/albums/w147/tremi103/9b7b_1_bol.jpg
http://i175.photobucket.com/albums/w147/tremi103/9b0f_1_bol.jpg

wedding dress No(2)
http://i175.photobucket.com/albums/w147/tremi103/36c1_1.jpg

bridesmaides dresses : these would be ordered in tiffany blue with a white sash.

http://i175.photobucket.com/albums/w147/tremi103/746f_1_bo.jpg

http://i175.photobucket.com/albums/w147/tremi103/bmdreess.jpg

2007-10-23 05:09:30 · 30 answers · asked by la de da 3 in Weddings

how do u get person u love back??? im willing to try anything possible

2007-10-23 05:08:15 · 21 answers · asked by kjmaruyamaat 1 in Singles & Dating

I think she might like me. But she is still in love with her ex-boyfriend. Should i go after her or wait till she is through with him.

2007-10-23 05:07:33 · 3 answers · asked by amaral_juan 3 in Singles & Dating

Does a man want to be with a woman who has intelligence, great conversational skills and her own salary, or a woman who doesnt set the world on fire with any of those things? I have found that once a man realizes the woman he is dating isnt dumb and wont put up with crap, he bolts, or acts different. Why are men so easily intimidated by strong, smart women? Does a man want a quiet woman, or someone who can hold their own?

2007-10-23 05:05:28 · 15 answers · asked by Ashley 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm 5' 2" tall but I have log shapely legs for my size. Would you find me to be sexy?

2007-10-23 05:04:14 · 19 answers · asked by luvbev2 4 in Singles & Dating

i hound out my mate a few months ago was texting and call yes you quess it another guy. I found out from her cell bill. i confronted her about this and she lied about it, and then a few months later said "it was nothing serious" but by judging her cell bill it looks bad. they talked 1100 min and 500 text's. Nothing serious? She told me they were "just friends" and i said friends dont do this.. Then not long ago she cleared the air and said that she just wanted to be friends and she guessed it crossed the line. she finally admitted going out to dinner, and movie with this person, and then she said she went to his house 1 time " to watch tv" as friends and he made her unconfortable and she left. I was also told all of this from some of her ex coworkers and she said they was lying, but it appears she was lying the whole time.. she is begging me everyday to forgive her and move on but it is easy for her to say that.. i love her, but she betrayed me.. i cant put myself thru this any more..

2007-10-23 05:03:08 · 15 answers · asked by sullierodgers 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Some can't even be thin, so they start saying "big" is beautiful.

But we men have to be fit and muscular. we have to eat less and exercise alot, all girls have to do is eat less and guys will like them, but they still complain about our expectations from them.

STOP COMPLAINING

2007-10-23 04:59:54 · 14 answers · asked by King Of Utopia 2 in Singles & Dating

how do yuh prefer girrls ter be?

skinny/ slim/ mediem / fat...

short/ average/ same height as u/ v tall...

long / short/ mediem hair...

big bum/ small/ mediem...

abby belly/ toned belly...

wears a lot of makeup/ lil bit...

hair colour...

loud/ shy...

and last of all wts more important.. looks or personality

lol thnx

2007-10-23 04:57:04 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating