my fiance has been trying for awhile for me to have an orgasm, it just doesnt work, does anyone have good ideas to try and have one
2007-10-23 05:36:25 · 10 answers · asked by texas_tec_chick 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No one will be able to give you pointers on this because every woman's body responds differently to different stimulants. The only way that you will be able to help your fiance to help you to reach orgasm is by learning your body. This is when masterbation is good because this is how you will learn what gives you pleasure. Then you can show your fiance.
2007-10-23 05:49:28 · answer #1 · answered by Mimi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you masturbate? If you do not.. you should. You are the only person that knows how your body works. Once you know tell him what makes you feel good. Also many woman do not have orgasms with penetration, try oral or stimulating the clit as well. My girlfriend has trouble achieving the O, but she gives me a helping hand when we are together or during oral pleasure. Communication is the best advice.
2007-10-23 12:47:39 · answer #2 · answered by mastermind delinquent 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your fiance? If you aren't worried about it, then you should tell him to relax. The way the question was posed, it would seem that you are just trying to please someone you love, but may not care so much.
If it is something you both are interested in, then your next encounter should be mutual masturbation. Invest a little time watching the other to get a better understanding of what that person does to pleasure themselves.
2007-10-23 13:33:53 · answer #3 · answered by Spiff_5 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love oral sex. I am not certain if you guys are into it. I find a lot of women are not into it. However, I have been with a couple of women who had never had an orgasm, and when they came with me .. they were ecstatic ..
Try to see if there is something else that excites you more perhaps that he might be willing to do.
2007-10-23 12:55:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you comfortable with him? comfortable being naked around him? if you are not comfortable you'll never have one.
So tell him not to rush things. some girls it can take upwards of an hour of foreplay and messing around before they are turned on enough to have one.
Have you ever had one by yourself? if not play with yourself and find out what gets you going. communicate that with him when he's touching you.
2007-10-23 12:43:08 · answer #5 · answered by bakerchris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many women are turned on by many different things. Don't rush sex but , fool around and find out what feels good.
2007-10-23 16:17:10 · answer #6 · answered by Jaz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
an orgasm is sexual excitement. he has to arouse or entice you when you guys are intimate place his hand on your "spot" and tell or whisper to him what to do or touch and most importantly relax.
2007-10-23 12:48:34 · answer #7 · answered by mastermind 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how well do you know yourself? I would suggest guiding him to the areas that feel good. If you don't know yourself, it sound like the perfect time to learn.
2007-10-23 12:48:36 · answer #8 · answered by Thunderman9 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mite try to smoke a lil pot, drink a lil wine, relax & enjoy! quit trying so hard, just let it happen
2007-10-24 00:05:48 · answer #9 · answered by happywjc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
masturbate by your self and then show him,vibrater if needed!!!! ENJOY.
2007-10-23 12:50:11 · answer #10 · answered by enjoy 2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋