Some can't even be thin, so they start saying "big" is beautiful.
But we men have to be fit and muscular. we have to eat less and exercise alot, all girls have to do is eat less and guys will like them, but they still complain about our expectations from them.
STOP COMPLAINING
2007-10-23 04:59:54 · 14 answers · asked by King Of Utopia 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Women are concerned about "meaning something". They feel that even though they are fat, inside there is a beautiful person that "means something" to the people in there lives. The complaint is a hipocracy. It's counterpart is a computer nerd that believes his computer skills should by all rights make girls' wet for him. So when they complain, the real communication is "I have a good soul, therefore no matter how many chairs I brake, my beautiful soul shoud, by all rights, make you wanna buy me dinner and love me for a lifetime."
2007-10-23 05:07:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
LOL, not complaining here, looking good is hard work, male or female! However, also M or F would you want to be judged solely on your physical appearance or rather for the entire package? Perhaps you are missing the point of the complaint, not that they're complaining about trying to look good, but that you judge them on their looks alone! Also, you can starve till the cows come home, but unless a gal does some working out she'll never have the bangin' body you're thinking of!
2007-10-23 05:06:49 · answer #2 · answered by ♀Redheaded Sunshine☼ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because alot of guys like the skinny chicks, and that makes the not so skinny chicks feel like they are not good enough. Just accept them the way they are and you won't hear complaining. every woman is beautiful in their own way, men need to stop making women feel otherwise. And women need to learn to love themselves and have more self confidence as well as higher self-esteem!
2007-10-23 05:27:24 · answer #3 · answered by ILoveuCJ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
bc society makes them think they have to be models. it's bc of guys like you with their jack@ss views that I have had to take my sister to the hospital unconscious twice bc she is severely bulimic trying to live up to the expectations! and most women have to hardly eat and work out a ton. buy the right make-up, nails, hair, jewelry etc. just to be attractive to pigs? I don't think so. I am just so happy I found a wonderful guy who loves me and wouldn't care if I gained 30 lbs. yes, if a woman gets so large it is bad for her health than that is one thing. a woman should make herself look good for herself, not you. and if you base a woman's worth solely on how she looks than you deserve nothing but your hand for the rest of your life. gosh get a life and get over yourself!
2007-10-23 05:06:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a shallow girl, of course I appreciate a nice body and I'm a size 6 and I love my body for the most part. some people are just shallow
2007-10-23 05:03:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
First of all, a woman doesn't have to look thin and beautiful to appeal to you. If that's all you want in a woman, you're not worth the effort!
2007-10-23 05:04:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Some guys complain, some girls complain. There are fit and not fit people of both sexes...if you want chicks to stop complaining, then please feel free to do the same. ☺
2007-10-23 05:04:56 · answer #7 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
b.c all guys think tht a girl should always be pretty andd girls are nervous b.c some guys dont like them b. their not pretty or popular. girls are afraid to be rejected b.c their not beautiful enough. soo, thats your answer.
2007-10-23 05:04:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
STOP EXPECTING
women are expected to be like that by men--it's part of the feminine charm....
2007-10-23 05:19:36 · answer #9 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its television and magazines that potray skinny is better! so some women thrive on it. they think thats what all men like!! and i dont beleive that men have to be anything but them selves!!
2007-10-23 05:05:42 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋